Desert Love

Our 14th year love anniversary or “loveaversary” as my co-worker/friend Lisa coined it, occurs on the 8th of March every year.  We (me and James) decided to celebrate in Arizona this time around so we would literally be situated in a desert, clearly in love, and seeking a new experience.

We chose Phoenix as our city of destination not just because its the capitol of the state of Arizona, but also its largest city, boasting just over 1.6 million residents!   And we were eagerly looking forward to the sunny temps all week long, outdoor recreational  options, delish Southwestern/Mexican cuisine and a championship class golf course located right at the Hilton Phoenix Tapatio Cliffs Resort.

 

 

Day 1

Travel Day – Sunday –  Woke up in Connecticut before the crack of dawn (3am) to catch our early morning (6:05am) flight out of Bradley International Airport which, by the way, is looking mighty fine these days.  I’m truly loving all the building upgrades and seeing bits and pieces of what’s to come (smile).

After a 3-hour layover at our first stop in Chicago, not including the 1-hour long wait on the airplane for the de-ciing of the aircraft’s wings, we were finally on our way.   My legs felt like jelly 3 hours later as we walked off the airplane and into the Phoenix Sky Harbor International Airport.  We had quite literally been traveling all day long so we were barking at each other and ‘hangry’ as Hell (smile).   The number one place we looked for after we retrieved our bags and picked up our rental car was somewhere to eat.  We Googled “American Restaurants near me” and found a place that was not too far away.  It was called Culinary Dropout and it was super delish!  I was feeling very healthy so I quickly inhaled a Butternut Squash and Kale bowl with grilled chicken.

 

 

We drove around Phoenix for a while just to get a feel for things and found a Super Walmart so it was there that we picked up enough bottled waters and snacks to last us for the week.

Finally at the resort we checked in and then drove to Building 24 which was waaaay at the top of a hill.  I immediately unpacked my luggage because I’m anal like that (smile), took a shower and went to bed – my 20 hour day (and now officially on Mountain time) had finally come to an end.

 

Building 24 where we stayed

 

Day 2 – Resort Day – The Hilton Phoenix Tapatio Cliffs Resort is located just 20 minutes North of downtown and when you pull up in your car to the entrance, you truly feel like you are in a whole ‘nother world.  It is no wonder because the property is nestled into the rugged North Mountain Preserve in Phoenix.   The hotel grounds are massive and the views are breathtakingly beautiful.  Boasting 7 pools – some with hot tubs, a 138-foot water slide, waterfalls, plenty of lounge chairs with big umbrellas at each pool, spas,  dining options from the simple to the sublime, hiking trails, 16,000 square feet of conference and meeting space and a championship golf course.  We stayed in a King-sized Premium suite that was situated at the top of a hill so between our rental car, which we parked  directly in front of our building, and the 24/7 free shuttle service, we were good to go.

 

mid-sized rental car

 

convenient shuttle service call button

 

We deemed Day 2 our Rest and Relaxation day for obvious reasons so after we checked out the workout area, the championship golf course and two different pools, we wound up poolside at The Falls (smile) soaking in the sun.

 

The Falls was one of our fav pools

 

I ordered the delish Arugula salad with grilled chicken from Cascades Cafe.  By the way, the weather was awesome – 80s with a cool breeze.  And the forecast showed the same all week!

 

Seated at The Falls and getting ready to dig into my Arugula salad with Grilled Chicken

 

After a while we headed back to our hotel room to sit outside and enjoy the mountain views from our balcony.    Then we showered and changed for dinner.

 

Our hotel room balcony offered up some of the best views of the mountain

 

That night we chose A Point in Tyme for dinner – I had a flaky fried Cod fish sandwich on a brioche roll with a side salad and ice water with lemon.  It was delish!

 

Yummy!

 

After dinner the restaurant rang for our ride (shuttle) which showed up 6 minutes later to take us back to the room where we sat outside again on the balcony to enjoy the cool breezes.

 

Day 3 – ATV/UTV day

This was a tour that we both looked forward to.  Arizona Outdoor Fun & Tours was located about 35 minutes from our resort so we purposely left earlier then we would have since we didn’t know what the morning traffic scene in Phoenix was like.  We dressed in long pants and long sleeves which their website recommended except we wore sneakers instead of boots.  Upon arrival our tour guide asked us for one credit card and both of our state of CT driving licenses and gave us each a face mask and goggles to protect our eyes.    Next we all individually sat on folding chairs under a large tent so the staff could explain how to operate the ATVs and UTVs.    We chose the UTV as opposed to the ATV so we could ride together in one jeep and because they promised us a longer ride then we would have with the ATVs.  By the way, a UTV or Utility Terrain Vehicle rides like a car and is designed to carry anywhere from two to six people.  An ATV or All Terrain Vehicle is designed for one person and uses handlebars for hard steering.

 

This is our UTV – Utility Terrain Vehicle

 

Not surprisingly about 4 or 5 young ladies (maybe in their early 20s) showed up at the tour like they were dressed for a paid Social Media event.  They had on these teeny tight outfits and wore inappropriate footwear.   I almost felt sorry for them because they chose the ATVs not the UTVs and didn’t know it yet but they were in for a big surprise (smile).

Austin was our Tour Guide.  There were about 3 different UTVs groups going out when we left which each had their own Tour Guide.  We rode directly behind Austin which was good because in my mind there was less dust to catch (smile).   And Austin was the consummate Tour Guide,  patient, stopping for breaks if we needed them or just to tell us a story about a particular animal (donkey) or type of terrain.  And he always made sure that no one strayed.

 

Fun Fact about Donkeys in Arizona: It is illegal for a donkey to sleep in a bathtub originating from a donkey that floated away in a bathtub during a 1920s flood (smile).

 

It was a long, winding and dusty trail and quite honestly, I don’t know how Austin navigated it, as there are really no markers in the ground or trees to make it easy to remember.  He said he had been working at Outdoor Fun Adventures for almost 4 years and enjoyed taking people out for the time of their lives.  He also mentioned how the tour guides relied on tips because the pay (with no benefits) was a lot less than it would be at say, a 9 to 5 job.

 

Ready for the dusty ride of our lives (smile)

 

We were UTVing for 2 hours so when we returned there was dust everywhere – all over our shoes, our hair, our clothes.  So much so that I could not wait to get back to our hotel room to shower.  But first we stopped at Cascades Cafe on the resort for my fav Arugula salad with Grilled Chicken so I would not be “hangry” for our anniversary dinner at 730pm that evening.

 

The restaurant we chose to spend our 14th year love anniversary was literally up the hill from our building so even though we could walk, we decided to take a shuttle instead so I wouldn’t be walking up the hill in high heels (smile).  A Different Pointe of View (“American Cuisine with European Influences”) was situated right on top of a mountain so it had killer views and sunsets to die for.

Some diners chose not to eat in the dining room at all as the outdoor deck had plenty of seating and you were right in front of the beautiful sunset.  The only downside of eating on the outdoor deck was that you could only order drinks and light apps.  We stayed on the outdoor deck for a while as it was a perfect photo opp and then headed inside for our coveted table which featured a window view of the sunset.

 

photo ops abound on the outdoor deck of Different Pointe of View

 

Our dinner reservations were for 7pm that night in The Terrace Room of the 3-floors restaurant and we had 4 delicious courses.  The weather was perfect, the sunset was beautiful and the service was second to none.

 

Good choice of a restaurant to celebrate our 14th year loveaversary

 

Day 4 – Breakfast with Nephew/Driving range

One of my favorite jobs is being an Aunt.  I love all of my nieces and nephews and great nieces and great nephews and now grand nieces and grand nephews and they live all over the United States.  My 37-year old nephew Jasper lives in Mesa, Arizona which was about 30 minutes away from our resort so I arranged for Jasper to meet us at A Point in Tyme for breakfast.  I chose A Point in Tyme because they have a $25 dollar all-you-can-eat buffet as well as the regular breakfast menu.  Jasper and I ate from the regular menu and James chose the buffet.  Jasper and I had a wonderful time catching up on life before James arrived especially since he and his girlfriend had a beautiful baby boy a few weeks ago.   We were all at the restaurant for a good 2 hours before we had to say our goodbyes.

 

My handsome nephew Jasper who I miss already

 

After Jasper left, James and I headed right next door to Lookout Mountain Golf Course to get in some practice shots as we were booked for a 3pm tee time the very next day.

We had a light snack after our practice session since we made reservations for an early 530pm dinner that evening at Restaurant Progress – a place that my gym friend Penthy’s son Scott recommended.  As it turns out, Scott and his wife live in Phoenix and know the restaurant scene pretty well.  Penthy texted me a long list of places Scott provided – the list included where to eat for breakfast, lunch and dinner but between the delish resort restaurants and the places nearby our planned outdoor tours and activities, Restaurant Progress was the only place from the list we had time to try out.

 

 

Restaurant Progress (a New American Restaurant) was a short 20 minute drive from our hotel.  James and I decided to take our knowledgeable waiter’s recommendation on what to order (small world – our waiter was also our shuttle driver at the resort from the night before) “Garrett” told us he has to work 4 jobs so he can afford his own apartment in Phoenix!

 

You might not be able to tell but I am stuffed in this picture as we were one course away from dessert (smile)

 

At Garrett’s recommendation we ordered the 5-course Chef’s Pick where the Chef prepared us 2 different dishes each course over the 5 courses so we could swap them out between each other and therefore sample the most variety of dishes.  We were sooooo stuffed by the time we got to the last course (dessert) but somehow managed to fit more food in our tummies (smile).

 

9 of the 10 courses from Chef’s Pick that we were served – can’t fit number 10 in this collage

 

Day 5 – Rainbow Ryders Hot Air Balloon Ride Day

Another early morning start to our day – up at 4am so we could make the check in time of 545am from the meeting point which was about 30 yo 35 minutes from our hotel resort.  This experience and tour was completely new to both of us.  I have to admit that I did not feel nervous at all.  Even after we signed our lives away (waivers) and they packed us all in multiple vans to head to the destination.  Each group had it own pilot as well as 2 staff members.  The 3 men collectively unfolded and used various equipment to inflate the balloon.  It was amazing to watch.  And it took a minute.  I saw a huge basket nearby and wondered how all 10 of us in the group were going to fit but somehow we did.  I remember a question on the waiver pertaining to our weight in pounds and now I understand why they asked.  The basket was bigger on the inside than it looked on the outside.  And the actual ride was peaceful and serene.  It was very early in the morning so the dress code was casual wear with a jacket since it’s cold (55 degrees or less) in Phoenix that early in the morning.  I was happy I dressed for the date because the wind was pretty strong and the air was chilly.  Lucky for us our Pilot kept firing up our balloon to make it go higher as we benefited from the blasts of heat.

 

An experience like no other – I would absolutely recommend it – just don’t look down!

 

While up in the sky we looked down at multiple housing developments with swimming pools,  miniature cars, lots and lots of empty land lots and plenty of mountains.  We were floating around for about an hour before we started to head back to the ground.   The actual landing was rough like an airplane’s landing but without the fear factor.  Climbing out of the basket was definitely one for the books – Ha!

 

Back on the ground

 

After we all settled our Pilot poured us a glass of Champagne and/or Juice and made a short toast to another successful journey.

The hot air balloon ride’s entire experience made us hungry so we stopped in Glendale, AZ for breakfast at a placed called Biscuits Cafe.  We figured you can’t go wrong with that name.  I was wrong.  I ordered the Biscuit Breakfast Sandwich (Eggs/Sausage/Cheese) with Hash Browns and a Coffee.  When the breakfast arrived I asked our waitress (once she got back to our table) how come my sandwich was on a roll and not a biscuit which I expected.  She said it’s called Biscuit Breakfast Sandwich because it is named after the restaurant. Aha!  She felt bad though and brought me a biscuit to swap the roll out with but by then I had already ate more than half of the sandwich as I was starving from the excitement of the morning (smile).

 

I spent about 3 hours poolside with my magazine while James took a nap.  We had a 3pm tee time at the much anticipated Lookout Mountain Golf course.  We borrowed a set of clubs from the resort and they gifted us each our own signature set of golf balls – 6 in all so I knew I had to make as many of my shots as possible (smile).

 

As all golf clubs do, we were matched up with 2 solo golfers (one named Christian who with his 2 brothers was staying on the same resort as us and the other named Jorge’ who actually lived in Phoenix and had enjoyed playing this course multiple times).

 

L to R – Me, James, Jorge’ and Christian – Jorge was a life saver because he knew the course well and therefore saved us a lot of lost balls

 

We set out for a sunny and beautiful afternoon of golf with our new golf friends.

 

This picture was taken right before sunset when the weather had turned cold and blustery

 

James and I played 14 holes before it got too cold for me (it was unusually windy that afternoon which caused the air to become cold).  It was also starting to become dark as sunset was near.  Christian and Jorge’  were happy to continue golfing but between the impending sunset and the now fierce winds I wanted to get back to our hotel to warm up.   We were starving though so we ate first right next door at the clubhouse – I had blackened shrimp tacos, chips and salsa.  The food was delish.  That night we packed our clothes as (sigh) we were leaving the next day for Connecticut.

 

My last delicious meal at the clubhouse – Blackened Shrimp tacos with salsa and tortilla chips

 

Day 6 – Travel Back to Connecticut Day

We got up at 730am, ate a light breakfast, checked out of the resort and then headed to the rental car facility which was not too far from the airport to drop off our car.  Then we took the sky train to the airport.  Our flight from Phoenix to Denver was delayed by 1 hour which ended up turning into 2 hours and then we discovered that our next flight, where we already had a long 3 hour layover, was now going to be delayed for another 2 and a half hours!   By the time we got back to Hartford, Connecticut it was 345am Eastern time.  We made it home around  4am so I unpacked (yes I am still that anal girl), showered and slept for 3 hours as I had to get up at 730am for my weekly Saturday morning hair appointment.

Was the trip to  the Desert worth it – YES!  Will we do it again – YES, but next time we will stay in Sedona or closer to the Grand Canyon for a different kind of experience.  #YOLO

 

Sincerely,

 

 

TVFL

 

The Big Easy

I can finally check off that I traveled to The Big Easy aka New Orleans, Louisiana while on  vacation.  Ever since I saw the movie The Big Easy starring Dennis Quaid and Ellen Barkin I’ve been so wanting to go.  That movie was a hoot! And it came out in 1986 – 39 years ago!  Then 13 years ago I saw another movie about Louisiana that resonated with me but in a much different way.  It was called Beasts of the Southern Wild and it came out in 2012.  It starred then 6 year old Quvenzhane Wallis who was nominated for Best Actress Oscar at the tender age of 9 for her groundbreaking performance.  A phenomenal movie which I will never forget.  So much so that I held off traveling to Louisiana because the movie was all about the forgotten people in the aftermath of Hurricane Katrina and I did not want to even think about the horror and destruction…So here we are in 2025 and it’s the 20th anniversary of Hurricane Katrina so of course I’m going (smile).

 

In real life I make all of the travel arrangements for me and James, my life partner, so while browsing online for hotels in the French Quarter, I searched for some place real, some place authentic, a place that would speak to the New Orleans experience.  I booked our hotel stay at The Royal Sonesta – New Orleans, a luxury hotel situated right on Bourbon Street.  I chose it so that we could truly be surrounded by all the sights and sounds of the city.  I did not choose wrong.  The Royal Sonesta – New Orleans took up a whole city block, featured a doorman and was outfitted with 3 uniquely different restaurants – Desire Oyster Bar, The Jazz Playhouse and Restaurant Revolution.  As part of it there was also a lively bar facing the street called Le Booze’ as well as  PJ’s Coffee House of New Orleans which sold coffee, sandwiches, fruit, pastries and such.  Our hotel room with an interior balcony and king sized bed was located on the 3rd floor where (lucky for us!)  The Oasis Bar at the Pool was also located and open from 7am to dusk.

 

 

Wisely enough The Royal Sonesta gave us a $15 dollar a day credit to be used at any of the aforementioned properties and we had only 6 days and 5 nights to explore the French Quarter so explore it we did (smile).

 

Sunday October 12th

Did I mention that we traveled in the month of October?  You would not have known it was October because the weather felt like late August back in New England where I’m from – here it was mid to high 80s all week long, little or no humidity and sunshine for days!

 

We checked in well after the designated time of 4pm because the hotel had a huuuuuge party the night before that had just dispersed so our rooms were not ready.  We gave them our luggage to store away and headed through the courtyard to Desire Oyster Bar to try some of those chargrilled oysters we had heard so much about from friends back home.

 

Chargrilled Oysters – yummy but salty

 

After picking up and dropping off our bags in our now finished room we headed out (by the way you do not need a car in the French Quarter as everything is accessible by foot, by pedicabs, by horse and buggy carriages, by trolley, by bus, by ferry, by boat, by Uber or by limousine.

We were starving, the dozen of chargrilled oysters were good but real salty so they just exacerbated my hunger.  We stopped at a place nearby called The House of Buns where I ordered the Red Beans and Rice.

 

 

Afterwards we walked the streets and I felt like I was in the middle of Spring Break for all ages: young, old and in between.  Lots of people walking everywhere but from what we heard the crowds were thin and nothing like what was to come, i.e., Thursday night and the weekend…

 

A looooong game of Chess with Bayou Bobby and his latest prey (smile)

 

It was around this time that I started feeling tired (I had woke up that morning at 5am for our long travel day which took us from Bradley Airport in Windsor, CT to Charlotte, North Carolina and finally to New Orleans, Louisiana) so I was beat.  Not to mention the hour time change…But nothing a hot shower and a good night’s sleep wouldn’t fix.

 

Monday, October 13th 

We woke up late on Monday morning (I think it was after 830am which is late to me since in real life I wake up at 430am 5 days a week to head to the Orangetheory gym in Hamden for a kick-a– class (smile).

We decided on visiting The Garden District on our first day so we could get closer to the water.  We took a City trolley there for one low price of $3.00 (the ticket to ride lasted all day long for trolleys and/or buses).

 

You can ride the trolley or bus all day long on any given day for just 3 dollars!

 

We were starved when we arrived in the Garden District so we rang the bell and got off in front of this cute French restaurant called La Boulangerie on Magazine Street – like a lot of the fast casual restaurants – you order your food first, take your number and find a table.  The waitress or waiter then brings your food and drink to your table.  I ordered a sausage, egg and cheese on an english muffin and a double expresso.  It was delish~

 

Delish breakfast at La Boulangerie on Magazine Street

 

We headed to the Riverwalk Mall where there were restaurants, shops and you guessed it, the river (smile).  It was another beautiful day so we walked the boardwalk, went window shopping in the mall and then headed out to Caesar’s Casino to get our gambling on.

 

Loved the Riverwalk Mall

 

Caesar’s Casino – not so much…

 

We did not feel like waiting for a trolley car or bus to arrive so on the way back we caught a pedicab for just $20 bucks and our driver pedaled us back to the hotel in no time.

 

Our Nola pedicab driver

 

After a quick shower and fresh clothes,  we headed out for dinner and this time we dined at Nola because they had an upstairs balcony with al fresco dining so we could people watch while we ate.

 

 

Then we bar hopped (not for drinks but for live bands and karaoke) and were back in our hotel room by midnight.

 

 

Tuesday October 14th

We ate breakfast at the hotel this morning – Desire Oyster Bar (yes, they serve breakfast too!).  I had a huge bowl of steel cut oats with candied pralines, brown sugar and raisins and a large coffee.   It was delish!

 

Desire serves breakfast, lunch and dinner and even boasts a happy hour!

 

After breakfast we spent the day poolside at The Oasis Bar at the Pool to soak up the sun and relax before taking a shower, changing our clothes and heading out to Mother’s Restaurant.  My girlfriend Jeani in Atlanta works for Delta Airlines and she and her husband Brian travel everywhere so when she makes a recommendation, we listen (smile).  We walked to the restaurant as it was only about 12 minutes away.  It was crowded!  We waited in the ordering line, took our number and looked for a table way in the back because the front of the restaurant was already jam packed with people.  I had Jerry’s Jambalaya with cabbage and red beans and rice.  I drank iced water with lemon (actually I drank iced water with lemon with all of my meals as number 1: I don’t drink alcohol anymore and number 2: I knew I would be consuming an extraordinary amount of food on this vacay (smile).

 

 

 

At night we bar hopped again (for live music and karaoke) and found a spot where the singer originally from New Orleans had a rich and powerful voice.  We stayed out that night ’till 11pm then went back to our room and hung out on our balcony deck which faced the courtyard, not the street.

 

The hotel room door which led to our balcony

 

Wednesday October `15th

We woke up late again and headed to Desire Oyster Bar for breakfast where I had the same thing – a huge bowl of steel cut oatmeal with candied pralines, brown sugar and raisins.  Then we headed to the Nola Visitor Center to buy 2 tickets to an Airboat Swamp Tour (James’s pick).  We purposely opted to not go on a lot of tours for this trip as we felt as if we could navigate the city without them.  But this tour spoke to James so I agreed (smile).

Our Swamp tour was on a small airboat which carried up to 10 passengers.  With transportation to the pier and the tour it cost us $119 per person.  It was worth it though because we went deep into the swamp and stayed for almost 2 hours with a tour guide who was native to the area – 5th generation bayou family member – he regaled us with stories of him and his friends hanging out in the swamp when they were little boys looking for alligators and snakes.  He called the swamp his “backyard.”  I called him our Crocodile Dundee (smile).

 

Crocodile Dundee (smile)

 

The picture that was made for us before we even stepped into the Airboat (smile).

 

The alligators loved the marshmallows we fed them because of their white color

 

For lunch we found a cool looking restaurant called Crescent City Brewhouse on Decatur Street where I ordered the wild tagliatelle pasta with grilled chicken and a side salad.

 

 

Fun Fact:  Our waiter, Joshua G. was also a budding actor.  He told us he was on pins and needles about a 2nd call back he just received for a role he was praying about and then told us he played the Jamaican dude in Kevin Hart and Will Ferrell’s Get Hard movie.  I googled “Jamaican in Get Hard with Kevin Hart” later that day and watched Joshua’s scene with a big smile on my face.  He was very good!

 

After we ate we went out for a long walk where we ran into the Louie Armstrong Park and more street performers.  Even one who sounded like so much like John Legend that we thought the outdoor restaurant was playing his song, Ordinary People on loud speakers.  It was another beautiful day.

 

I notice there is a lot of talent in this town – American Idol should take notice – this singer sounds just like John Legend~

 

We then took the trolley back to Bourbon Street and walked into a record store called Peaches Records!  I was so surprised because it’s not every day you see a record store in a city.  As it turned out, this record store was unique in that it used to be a Woolworth’s Store back in the 1960s where one of the more notable sit-ins took place.  Seven students staged a sit-in at the Woolworths lunch counter to protest racial segregation.

 

 

Thursday October 16th

We were running out of time but could not leave New Orleans without at least trying a beignet – so many people, including my gym friend Penthy, told me how goooood the beignet was.  As it turned out there was a Cafe Beignet right across from our hotel.  At this Cafe Beignet the  dining was al fresco and it featured live jazz musicians, in this case a 3 piece band.  I had scrambled eggs with white cheddar cheese and bacon on a plain bagel with black coffee.  James had 3 different flavored beignets so I took a bite out of one of his beignets (smile).  It was tasty for sure.

 

 

That night for dinner we ate at Acme Restaurant which my gym friend Anne M. highly recommended.  We had tried to go to Acme Restaurant on Monday night but there was a large water main break that night which shut down all of the restaurants and bars on the street.  The TV news reporter was there interviewing one of the chefs so I had to smile since I’m in the TV industry.

 

Can’t go anywhere without seeing a TV news reporter (smile)

 

Anyway, we waited in line at Acme because it was so popular and then were seated in the back.  I enjoyed the seafood medley which was well worth the wait.

 

 

That night we listened to live jazz music but this time at The Jazz Playhouse in our hotel.  I drank 2 mocktails as we listened to the sounds of The Brass-A-Holics.  This group was incredible as they all played musical instruments including the saxophone which is my personal favorite. I would have taken pictures of these gorgeous male musicians but my phone had died – bummer!   At the end of the night The Brass-A-Holics summoned everyone out of their seats to follow them around the restaurant where we all marched/danced to When the Saints Go Marching In.  It was another memorable evening spent with people whom I’ll probably never see again in my life (smile).

 

Friday October 17th

Travel day – I have to note: Traveling by air today is exhausting and it really tries your nerves – we almost missed our connection two times (one time on the way to Louisiana, one time on the way back from Louisiana) through no fault of our own.   Another thing –  on the flight headed to New Orleans our Pilot informed us that he thought he was going home after his shift had ended but was asked at the last minuteto stay on and take our flight so I’m thinking, Oh no, he’s really tired… Anyway, he then proceeded to tell us that 3 things needed to be fixed before we could actually take off so our flight would be delayed but he would keep us posted as each one was completed.  He came back after each one was completed to let us know the status.  On the 3rd “thing” he accidentally said it was ‘good enough’ and then changed it to mean it easily passed all of the tests but all I kept thinking was ‘good enough.’  Yikes!  As it turned out, God protected us and got us back safely so I really have nothing to complain about right?!? (smile).

 

At any rate, here are my memories of New Orleans in October:

Beautiful sunny and hot weather

Bare legged tattooed ladies

Daiquiris and pizza shops

Jello Shots

Po’Boys

Loud competing music in the streets

Independent art galleries in the Art District

Apartments, condos and homes with unique architecture and ironwork balconies

Street sweepers in the early morning cleaning up the mess from the night before

Poverty stricken children of color drumming on empty canisters for dollars

Homeless sleeping in the street

Young male street performers holding court on Bourbon Street while entertaining the crowds

Caleb the funny doorman at The Royal Sonesta

 

Sincerely,

 

TVFL

 

Island Hopper

I was born in a blizzard in Newport, RI on Valentines Day, 1962 so it comes as no surprise to anyone that I have spent the majority of my birthdays bundled up in winter coats, gloves, scarves and snow boots.  So this year, as my 63rd Vday Bday was fast approaching, I decided to switch things up and spend my special day sunbathing in the United States Virgin Islands.

For our 7 days/6 nights island getaway, James and I departed Bradley International Airport on Sunday February 9th and returned on Saturday February 15th.   By the way, it snowed in Connecticut both ways (smile).

St. Thomas was our island dream destination, but we had previously discussed that while on this island we would travel by ferry on day trips throughout the week to both St. Johns, USVI and Jost Van Dyke, BVI.  My mother-in-law Irene, who was born in St. Thomas but grew up in Jost Van Dyke, reminded us to bring our passports.  I’m so glad she did as we would not have gotten on that island without them.  Jost Van Dyke is part of the British Virgin Islands (BVI) so you need your passport to get through Customs and Immigration.

We rented a car for this vacation which we picked up at the airport (it makes sense to rent a car on St. Thomas because there are no Ubers or Lyfts and taxis can get pretty pricey pretty quick) and James drove us on the wrong side of the road (smile) to our hotel, the Island View Guesthouse.  We normally stay in resorts when we travel to tropical islands and if necessary, we get around by Uber or Lyft so it felt different staying in an actual hotel and using a rental car.  What really sold me on this particular hotel was the free daily breakfasts, plus the hotel’s proximity to downtown Charlotte Amalie which featured a waterfront, local shops and restaurants and nearby beaches.

 

Our rental car in St. Thomas – a brand new 2025 Nissan Sentra

 

Our hotel suite at the Island View Guesthouse – a funny story – not so funny at the time…

 

 

 

 

 

 

Since I used a 3rd party app (Expedia) to book our travel, I chose the bundle package which in our case consisted of airfare (United Airlines), a hotel (the Island View Guesthouse) and a car (Budget Car Rental).  I would not recommend using a 3rd party app to book your travel anywhere because as I found out from Libby, the friendly and accessible owner of  the Island View Guesthouse, the 3rd party app folks take 20 to 30 percent off the top of your bundle packages which in my case meant we were put into the tiniest room at the hotel with no amenities and the car we rented came without GPS.  James quickly took care of the hotel room issue the very  next morning when he had a talk with Eileen, the Island View Guesthouse Manager.  Eileen was a dream – she not only upgraded us to the largest suite in the hotel for 3 nights, but she also managed to upgrade us into 2 more spacious hotel rooms over the final 2 nights of our week long vacation.  Libby, the hotel owner, arrived with her Executive Chef Husband Marshall on the Wednesday of our vacation and ensured that the remainder of my Vday Bday week went off  without a hitch.  Libby and I hit it off right away and even shared a similar sober conscious story that begun at the height of the Pandemic.  I can’t begin to thank both Eileen the Manager and Libby the Owner for attending to all of our needs and would highly recommend anyone looking to book a hotel on St. Thomas to make their reservations at the boutique style Island View Guesthouse.

 

The view of Charlotte Amalie from our hotel room window

 

Sunday — Day 1 – Travel Day

All things considered, the trip to St. Thomas, VI from Bradley International Airport in Windsor Locks, CT was not too shabby.  There were no delays and the time spent in the air was, for the most part, uneventful.  We flew from Windsor, Connecticut to Washington, D.C. in record time and the same can be said for our 2nd flight from Washington D.C. to St. Thomas, VI.

The very first restaurant we ate at was The Greenhouse – it was okay – popular for tourists because of its location…

 

My dinner at The Greenhouse – I was starving so anything would have tasted good – and St. Thomas is one hour ahead of Connecticut so I was “hangry” by then (smile)

 

Monday – Day 2 (Coki Beach at Coral World on St. Thomas)

Coki Beach is a small and very quaint public beach on St. Thomas (one of the 11 beaches on the island!).  The sand is silky smooth and the water, crystal clear.  We rented a large beach umbrella and 2 beach chair loungers for just $40 dollars.  Thank goodness we did because it rained off and on all day with blustery winds.  The large umbrella saved us from running back to our car for cover.

 

All smiles in between the raindrops at Coki Beach

 

What I could not help but notice at Coki Beach were all of the yachts that were parked in the beautiful crystal blue water annoyingly blocking our view…

 

Tuesday – Day 3  (Trunk Bay on St. Johns)

The first of two day trips that week was to St. Johns.  And everything I heard about it was true.  It is truly paradise, the weather was picture perfect and it was not too crowded.  We drove to the Red Hook marina to catch our island ferry – the round trip fare was only 16 dollars and the entire ferry ride took all of 20 minutes.  We then caught a trolley/cab to Trunk Bay (one of the 10 beaches on the island!) and spent the entire afternoon there.  Trunk Bay Beach is gorgeous with fine, silky smooth sand and crystal clear baby blue water.  It was 80 degrees outside but the sun did not seem that strong so we laid out on our beach blankets and soaked it up.

Love the contrast of the green mountains against the crystal blue waters

This soft and supple sand feels so good between my toes

 

James taking a quick nap

 

The snack bar where we ordered lunch – the food was soooo good! There were outdoor Tiki bars selling exotic drinks but I did not indulge since I gave up alcohol 5 years ago at the onset of the Covid 19 Pandemic…

 

Wednesday – Day 4 – Downtown St. Thomas  – Charlotte Amalie  (Walking on the Waterfront, Shopping for gear and Lunch at Gladys Restaurant)

Wednesday was primarily a rainy day (way too much rain to dry up on the beach) so we turned it into a shopping day – there are a ton of shops downtown in Charlotte Amalie (mostly local merchants) selling lots of wares.  By the way, if you are looking for any kind of jewelry, downtown Charlotte Amalie is the place to be to buy gold, silver and diamonds all in one central area and best of all everything is tax free!

 

James and I finally seated at Gladys’s Restaurant (smile).

 

Gladys’s Restaurant did not disappoint – I all but inhaled the brown stew chicken, plantains, fresh cabbage and peas and rice!

 

Thursday – Day 5 (Magens Bay Beach on St. Thomas)

We spent our 2nd to last day at Magens Bay Beach which had come well recommended by the trip advisors.  It truly is a beautiful must see and do beach. Magens Bay was super crowded the day we arrived with rows and rows of beach chairs and umbrellas lined up in formation.  There was also a sun and surf rental shop, a souvenir shop and an indoor/outdoor bar and grille.  Lots going on.  We were in the mood for peace and quiet that day so we headed further down the mile long beach where there were no beach chairs, and very few people.  Another well thought out idea…

 

 

That evening we went out for a late dinner in downtown Charlotte Amalie to a restaurant that was recommended by one of the locals in town.  It was called the Sugarcane Grille at Bunker Hill.  It was way up a hill on a narrow winding road with no parking.  We lucked out though because we managed to squeeze our rental car into a tight space.  The restaurant was so cute.  We had to walk a bunch of stairs to get there but at the top was the dining room with a view of a well-lit swimming pool.  The food was awesome.  Our super friendly waiter even talked me into a delish mocktail made with Ginger, yummy!

 

Love the ambience in the dining room and the Caribbean dishes were delish!

 

Friday – Day 6 – My Vday Bday – Jost Van Dykes, British Virgin Islands

We popped out of bed at 530am that morning to catch the 730am ferry leaving from Red Dock marina to Jost Van Dyke, BVI.   There are only 3 ferry rides a week to Jost Van Dyke so if you miss one, you have to wait a few days for the next one.  It’s much more involved than going to St. Johns.  First of all you need your passport.  Second it’ll cost you $120 round trip per Adult to ride the ferry plus 10 dollars to enter the island and 20 dollars to exit it.  Third, you have 7 hours on the island to spend as you wish and believe me, the time flies by.  We spent half the day on White Bay beach which we had to catch a cab from the harbor to get to.  White Bay beach was breathtakingly beautiful. I felt like I was in a Hollywood movie because it painted the picture of a true tropical beach scene.  There  was so much all at once to take in.  And the beach wasn’t even crowded!

 

White Bay beach has beauty written all over it! By far my most favorite beach this week! So happy I got to spend my Valentines Day Birthday there.

I kept pinching myself – I could not believe how beautiful and uncrowded White Bay Beach was!

 

I had to take a picture in front of Gertrudes – a landmark and treasure – in spite of the perfectly set up photo op (smile)

 

The second half of our day was spent at Great Harbor – we were on a mission to grab lunch at Pinky’s restaurant and we could not leave without visiting the likes of Foxy’s Restaurant Bar and Grille!

 

Pinky’s Restaurant was easy to spot – love the Caribbean themed spot and enjoyed meeting and chatting with Pinky herself

 

Pinky herself cooked us her signature dish while chatting it up

 

Our official Ferry boat to Jost Van Dyke

 

Our ferry ride back from St. John to St. Thomas – feeling sunburnt but accomplished

Day 7 – Saturday – Travel Back Home

We purposely took our sweet time on Saturday morning because our flight was not leaving until 3pm and we would not arrive into Connecticut until 12midnight.  We realized we had a long day of travel ahead of us which included 3 airplane trips this time around – St. Thomas, Virgin Islands to San Juan, Puerto Rico; San Juan, Puerto Rico to Washington, D.C.; and finally Washington, D.C. to Windsor Locks, CT.  We spent the better part of the morning shopping in downtown Charlotte Amalie at one of our fav surf shops, Ocean Surfari, which,lucky for us, was having a huge storewide sale.   Then we picked up our lunch at a local grocer.  We arrived at the airport at 115pm and dropped off our rental car so we could relax, eat and soak up a little sun before we headed to Cape Air Airlines to check in.  This is where the disconnect happened.  Neither one of us realized that because we were flying from St. Thomas, VI to San Juan, PR it would be necessary to go through Customs and Immigration so consequently, after we checked in at Cape Air Airlines, we were told to get in line with the rest of the travelers.  The said line was super long and wrapped around and around  and around the airport about 3 times!   I looked at my Fitbit and it said 215pm which meant we had all of 45 minutes to catch our 3pm flight.  There was no way in Hell we were going to make that flight.  After about 10 minutes panic started to set in and James said ‘why don’t you call Cape Air and see if there is something they can do to get us to the front of the line?’  I looked at my Fitbit again – it was 230pm now and I saw 3 missed calls from Cape Air.  I immediately called them back and explained that we were stuck in line and was there anything they could do for us.  They said they would send someone to get us but we could not find that person and ended up trying to move through the line ourselves as time was ticking by.  I said a quick prayer to God and the rest of the time was a blur as we were pushed and pulled and stopped and started before we found ourselves at the point where you take your shoes off and load your stuff into gray bins.  One of the airport workers familiar with our situation stopped us and told us that we were wasting our time, it was 250pm and our plane was now preparing to leave without us.  We felt dejected but went through the motions of looking for and finding our original departure gate.  When we arrived to that gate an employee mysteriously appeared out of nowhere and told us that this never happens but they had a backup plane outside and a pilot who would get us to San Juan well in time for our Washington, D.C. connection!   The pilot had a Cessna 402 and James and I  were the only 2 passengers on board.  The pilot flew 6500 feet up in the air to San Juan, Puerto Rico in 35 minutes!  Not only did we make our next connection to Washington, D.C., but we were only a half hour behind what would have been our original time of arrival to San Juan airport!  I thanked God for answering my prayers so quickly and thanked the pilot of Cape Air Airlines for safely flying and landing us.

 

Too Blessed to be Stressed – at this point of the trip I am still pinching myself as we travel on what is now a tiny aircraft from St. Thomas VI to San Juan, PR – this flight took just 35 minutes and was truly a Godsend…

Cheers to our next Great Adventure!

 

Sincerely,

 

TVFL