Just Around The Bend…

I am feeling just a little melancholy today and it could be because I am unwell.  When I am unwell my heads veers off in many directions and it’s hard for me to stay focused on any one thing.  I’m normally happy, bubbly, and full of positive energy so this is quite a departure from my personality.  And to add insult to injury,  it is the end of the year which means both Christmas and New Year’s are a stone’s throw away.  The holidays tend to bring out the melancholy in me because they remind me of loved ones who are no longer with me.   Namely my sweet mother Jean, my baby brother Shawn, my ahead-of-his-time nephew Ahmad Sr., my endearing brother-in-law Alfredo, my beloved older sister Dana plus countless aunts and uncles way too many to name.

 

 

All that to say I like to play holiday Soul music interspersed with Rhythm and Blues around this time of the year.  It alternately acts as both a mood lifter and memory generator.   I put one song in particular “Happiness is Just Around The Bend” by The Main Ingredient on re-play.  Why?  Because this song is feeling much more relevant to me now than when I first heard it as a 12 year old girl growing up in the small town of Groton, CT.   It is not surprising that it was a chart topper for The Main Ingredient back in 1974.  If you have  listened to this song and especially the  lyrics you too will find it reminiscent of the world we are living in today.

 

 

To summarize:  it is about finding clarity in chaos, about  life feeling upside down and confusing and out of whack but despite that, not giving up, but hanging on because happiness is truly just around the corner – Love will win.

This song is so deep and I truly needed to hear it today –  Fact:  When this song was recorded by The Main Ingredient back in 1974 the world was struggling with the Watergate Scandal (erosion of faith in the U.S. Government) and the continued impact of the 1973 Oil Crisis which caused widespread inflation, gas shortages and “stagflation.”

Today in 2025 we too struggle with erosion of faith in our government, economic instability and as an added burden: inexplicable developments.  Despite what is happening around us, I encourage my fellow TVFL readers to continue fighting the good fight, remain focused and positive and stay the course because I for one am choosing to believe that Happiness is truly just around the bend…

 

 

Sincerely,

 

 

TVFL

 

 

 

The Big Easy

I can finally check off that I traveled to The Big Easy aka New Orleans, Louisiana while on Ā vacation. Ā Ever since I saw the movie The Big Easy starring Dennis Quaid and Ellen Barkin I’ve been so wanting to go. Ā That movie was a hoot! And it came out in 1986 – 39 years ago! Ā Then 13 years ago I saw another movie about Louisiana that resonated with me but in a much different way. Ā It was called Beasts of the Southern Wild and it came out in 2012. Ā It starred then 6 year old Quvenzhane Wallis who was nominated for Best Actress Oscar at the tender age of 9 for her groundbreaking performance. Ā A phenomenal movie which I will never forget. Ā So much so that I held off traveling to Louisiana because the movie was all about the forgotten people in the aftermath of Hurricane Katrina and I did not want to even think about the horror and destruction…So here we are in 2025 and it’s the 20th anniversary of Hurricane Katrina so of course I’m going (smile).

 

In real life I make all of the travel arrangements for me and James, my life partner, so while browsing online for hotels in the French Quarter, I searched for some place real, some place authentic, a place that would speak to the New Orleans experience. Ā I booked our hotel stay at The Royal Sonesta – New Orleans, a luxury hotel situated right on Bourbon Street. Ā I chose it so that we could truly be surrounded by all the sights and sounds of the city. Ā I did not choose wrong. Ā The Royal Sonesta – New Orleans took up a whole city block, featured a doorman and was outfitted with 3 uniquely different restaurants – Desire Oyster Bar, The Jazz Playhouse and Restaurant Revolution. Ā As part of it there was also a lively bar facing the street called Le Booze’ as well as Ā PJ’s Coffee House of New Orleans which sold coffee, sandwiches, fruit, pastries and such. Ā Our hotel room with an interior balcony and king sized bed was located on the 3rd floor where (lucky for us!) Ā The Oasis Bar at the Pool was also located and open from 7am to dusk.

 

 

Wisely enough The Royal Sonesta gave us a $15 dollar a day credit to be used at any of the aforementioned properties and we had only 6 days and 5 nights to explore the French Quarter so explore it we did (smile).

 

Sunday October 12th

Did I mention that we traveled in the month of October? Ā You would not have known it was October because the weather felt like late August back in New England where I’m from – here it was mid to high 80s all week long, little or no humidity and sunshine for days!

 

We checked in well after the designated time of 4pm because the hotel had a huuuuuge party the night before that had just dispersed so our rooms were not ready. Ā We gave them our luggage to store away and headed through the courtyard to Desire Oyster Bar to try some of those chargrilled oysters we had heard so much about from friends back home.

 

Chargrilled Oysters – yummy but salty

 

After picking up and dropping off our bags in our now finished room we headed out (by the way you do not need a car in the French Quarter as everything is accessible by foot, by pedicabs, by horse and buggy carriages, by trolley, by bus, by ferry, by boat, by Uber or by limousine.

We were starving, the dozen of chargrilled oysters were good but real salty so they just exacerbated my hunger. Ā We stopped at a place nearby called The House of Buns where I ordered the Red Beans and Rice.

 

 

Afterwards we walked the streets and I felt like I was in the middle of Spring Break for all ages: young, old and in between. Ā Lots of people walking everywhere but from what we heard the crowds were thin and nothing like what was to come, i.e., Thursday night and the weekend…

 

A looooong game of Chess with Bayou Bobby and his latest prey (smile)

 

It was around this time that I started feeling tired (I had woke up that morning at 5am for our long travel day which took us from Bradley Airport in Windsor, CT to Charlotte, North Carolina and finally to New Orleans, Louisiana) so I was beat. Ā Not to mention the hour time change…But nothing a hot shower and a good night’s sleep wouldn’t fix.

 

Monday, October 13thĀ 

We woke up late on Monday morning (I think it was after 830am which is late to me since in real life I wake up at 430am 5 days a week to head to the Orangetheory gym in Hamden for a kick-a– class (smile).

We decided on visiting The Garden District on our first day so we could get closer to the water. Ā We took a City trolley there for one low price of $3.00 (the ticket to ride lasted all day long for trolleys and/or buses).

 

You can ride the trolley or bus all day long on any given day for just 3 dollars!

 

We were starved when we arrived in the Garden District so we rang the bell and got off in front of this cute French restaurant called La Boulangerie on Magazine Street – like a lot of the fast casual restaurants – you order your food first, take your number and find a table. Ā The waitress or waiter then brings your food and drink to your table. Ā I ordered a sausage, egg and cheese on an english muffin and a double expresso. Ā It was delish~

 

Delish breakfast at La Boulangerie on Magazine Street

 

We headed to the Riverwalk Mall where there were restaurants, shops and you guessed it, the river (smile). Ā It was another beautiful day so we walked the boardwalk, went window shopping in the mall and then headed out to Caesar’s Casino to get our gambling on.

 

Loved the Riverwalk Mall

 

Caesar’s Casino – not so much…

 

We did not feel like waiting for a trolley car or bus to arrive so on the way back we caught a pedicab for just $20 bucks and our driver pedaled us back to the hotel in no time.

 

Our Nola pedicab driver

 

After a quick shower and fresh clothes, Ā we headed out for dinner and this time we dined at Nola because they had an upstairs balcony with al fresco dining so we could people watch while we ate.

 

 

Then we bar hopped (not for drinks but for live bands and karaoke) and were back in our hotel room by midnight.

 

 

Tuesday October 14th

We ate breakfast at the hotel this morning – Desire Oyster Bar (yes, they serve breakfast too!). Ā I had a huge bowl of steel cut oats with candied pralines, brown sugar and raisins and a large coffee. Ā  It was delish!

 

Desire serves breakfast, lunch and dinner and even boasts a happy hour!

 

After breakfast we spent the day poolside at The Oasis Bar at the Pool to soak up the sun and relax before taking a shower, changing our clothes and heading out to Mother’s Restaurant. Ā My girlfriend Jeani in Atlanta works for Delta Airlines and she and her husband Brian travel everywhere so when she makes a recommendation, we listen (smile). Ā We walked to the restaurant as it was only about 12 minutes away. Ā It was crowded! Ā We waited in the ordering line, took our number and looked for a table way in the back because the front of the restaurant was already jam packed with people. Ā I had Jerry’s Jambalaya with cabbage and red beans and rice. Ā I drank iced water with lemon (actually I drank iced water with lemon with all of my meals as number 1: I don’t drink alcohol anymore and number 2: I knew I would be consuming an extraordinary amount of food on this vacay (smile).

 

 

 

At night we bar hopped again (for live music and karaoke) and found a spot where the singer originally from New Orleans had a rich and powerful voice. Ā We stayed out that night ’till 11pm then went back to our room and hung out on our balcony deck which faced the courtyard, not the street.

 

The hotel room door which led to our balcony

 

Wednesday October `15th

We woke up late again and headed to Desire Oyster Bar for breakfast where I had the same thing – a huge bowl of steel cut oatmeal with candied pralines, brown sugar and raisins. Ā Then we headed to the Nola Visitor Center to buy 2 tickets to an Airboat Swamp Tour (James’s pick). Ā We purposely opted to not go on a lot of tours for this trip as we felt as if we could navigate the city without them. Ā But this tour spoke to James so I agreed (smile).

Our Swamp tour was on a small airboat which carried up to 10 passengers. Ā With transportation to the pier and the tour it cost us $119 per person. Ā It was worth it though because we went deep into the swamp and stayed for almost 2 hours with a tour guide who was native to the area – 5th generation bayou family member – he regaled us with stories of him and his friends hanging out in the swamp when they were little boys looking for alligators and snakes. Ā He called the swamp his “backyard.” Ā I called him our Crocodile Dundee (smile).

 

Crocodile Dundee (smile)

 

The picture that was made for us before we even stepped into the Airboat (smile).

 

The alligators loved the marshmallows we fed them because of their white color

 

For lunch we found a cool looking restaurant called Crescent City Brewhouse on Decatur Street where I ordered the wild tagliatelle pasta with grilled chicken and a side salad.

 

 

Fun Fact: Ā Our waiter, Joshua G. was also a budding actor. Ā He told us he was on pins and needles about a 2nd call back he just received for a role he was praying about and then told us he played the Jamaican dude in Kevin Hart and Will Ferrell’s Get Hard movie. Ā I googled “Jamaican in Get Hard with Kevin Hart” later that day and watched Joshua’s scene with a big smile on my face. Ā He was very good!

 

After we ate we went out for a long walk where we ran into the Louie Armstrong Park and more street performers. Ā Even one who sounded like so much like John Legend that we thought the outdoor restaurant was playing his song, Ordinary People on loud speakers. Ā It was another beautiful day.

 

I notice there is a lot of talent in this town – American Idol should take notice – this singer sounds just like John Legend~

 

We then took the trolley back to Bourbon Street and walked into a record store called Peaches Records! Ā I was so surprised because it’s not every day you see a record store in a city. Ā As it turned out, this record store was unique in that it used to be a Woolworth’s Store back in the 1960s where one of the more notable sit-ins took place. Ā Seven students staged a sit-in at the Woolworths lunch counter to protest racial segregation.

 

 

Thursday October 16th

We were running out of time but could not leave New Orleans without at least trying a beignet – so many people, including my gym friend Penthy, told me how goooood the beignet was. Ā As it turned out there was a Cafe Beignet right across from our hotel. Ā At this Cafe Beignet the Ā dining was al fresco and it featured live jazz musicians, in this case a 3 piece band. Ā I had scrambled eggs with white cheddar cheese and bacon on a plain bagel with black coffee. Ā James had 3 different flavored beignets so I took a bite out of one of his beignets (smile). Ā It was tasty for sure.

 

 

That night for dinner we ate at Acme Restaurant which my gym friend Anne M. highly recommended. Ā We had tried to go to Acme Restaurant on Monday night but there was a large water main break that night which shut down all of the restaurants and bars on the street. Ā The TV news reporter was there interviewing one of the chefs so I had to smile since I’m in the TV industry.

 

Can’t go anywhere without seeing a TV news reporter (smile)

 

Anyway, we waited in line at Acme because it was so popular and then were seated in the back. Ā I enjoyed the seafood medley which was well worth the wait.

 

 

That night we listened to live jazz music but this time at The Jazz Playhouse in our hotel. Ā I drank 2 mocktails as we listened to the sounds of The Brass-A-Holics. Ā This group was incredible as they all played musical instruments including the saxophone which is my personal favorite. I would have taken pictures of these gorgeous male musicians but my phone had died – bummer! Ā  At the end of the night The Brass-A-Holics summoned everyone out of their seats to follow them around the restaurant where we all marched/danced to When the Saints Go Marching In. Ā It was another memorable evening spent with people whom I’ll probably never see again in my life (smile).

 

Friday October 17th

Travel day – I have to note: Traveling by air today is exhausting and it really tries your nerves – we almost missed our connection two times (one time on the way to Louisiana, one time on the way back from Louisiana) through no fault of our own. Ā  Another thing – Ā on the flight headed to New Orleans our Pilot informed us that he thought he was going home after his shift had ended but was asked at the last minuteto stay on and take our flight so I’m thinking, Oh no, he’s really tired… Anyway, he then proceeded to tell us that 3 things needed to be fixed before we could actually take off so our flight would be delayed but he would keep us posted as each one was completed. Ā He came back after each one was completed to let us know the status. Ā On the 3rd “thing” he accidentally said it was ‘good enough’ and then changed it to mean it easily passed all of the tests but all I kept thinking was ‘good enough.’ Ā Yikes! Ā As it turned out, God protected us and got us back safely so I really have nothing to complain about right?!? (smile).

 

At any rate, here are my memories of New Orleans in October:

Beautiful sunny and hot weather

Bare legged tattooed ladies

Daiquiris and pizza shops

Jello Shots

Po’Boys

Loud competing music in the streets

Independent art galleries in the Art District

Apartments, condos and homes with unique architecture and ironwork balconies

Street sweepers in the early morning cleaning up the mess from the night before

Poverty stricken children of color drumming on empty canisters for dollars

Homeless sleeping in the street

Young male street performers holding court on Bourbon Street while entertaining the crowds

Caleb the funny doorman at The Royal Sonesta

 

Sincerely,

 

TVFL

 

A Quick Dash to Nash

I had a truly memorable Memorial Day weekend this past May of 2023.Ā  The goal was to visit my big sister Casandra who moved to Nashville almost a year ago.Ā  And of course to see her daughter MoNa, her son-in-law Kevia and their rambunctious 6 year old son, Harlem.

 

Memorial Day is not called the “unofficial start to Summer” for nothing. Ā It seems as if everybody and their grandmother (smile) was driving that weekend on the road, flying in the air, or using some mode of public transportation during this much anticipated prelude to Summer.

 

What usually happens when we now adult Hollis children go to a new place or space to visit family, is we try and incorporate at least one African American cultural activity into the trip.

 

In this case it was easy, almost too easy:Ā  a trip to the National Museum of African American Music or NMAAM as it is referred to.Ā Ā  NMAAM is conveniently located in downtown Nashville so we did not have to travel far as my sister Casandra lives only about 15 to 20 minutes outside the city limits.

National Museum of African American Museum (NMAAM)

 

Parking the car in a garage was pretty steep ($45) and you really have no choice if you drive as there is very little if any available street parking downtown.

 

The ticket prices to the museum (which we ordered online on the NMAAM website the night before) were $24.95 for Adults (me) and $18.75 for Senior Citizens (Casandra).Ā  Just so you are aware, the rest of the ticket prices are as follows:Ā  $18.75 for Students and Teachers with ID, Military and Senior Citizens; $13.50 for Museum Guests aged 7 to 17 and Free for Visitors 6 years of age and under.

 

Very easy to navigate

 

While there, for just $5.00 more you will receive a NMAAM wristband which allows you toĀ  download multiple genres of music (up to 500 songs!) to create your own music playlist as you touch and explore your way throughout the museum.Ā  This music link is sent to your email address a week or so later for you toĀ  download to your Apple or Spotify account.Ā  Very cool!

 

Wearing my wristband and building my playlist – so much music to choose from!

 

Incidentally, NMAAM also offers visitors an annual membership with lots of special perks and education and programs for groups and special outings.

 

The NMAAM brochure tells you it takes 90 minutes to explore the museum (as it features timed admission) but it took me and Casandra 3 hours as there is so much to see and do!Ā  By the way, there is no extra charge if it takes you longer than the 90 minutes (smile).

 

One of the many photo opps at NMAAM

 

The museum is broken up into 6 rooms which each feature a different genre of music and its history.

 

Hip Hop Nation

 

It is fascinating to discover just how intertwined the music is with the historical happenings of each era.

The Roots Theater focuses on African American history and its music.

 

Wade in the Water (one of my personal favs) showcases how gospel music and its rich history has more than influenced religious music.Ā  This gallery featured an interactive room where me and Casandra went in, donned the requisite church choir robes and stood in front of the Green Screen so we could sing along with the Gospel Choir.Ā  The ending was sweet as we were both magically inserted into the Gospel Choir (smile).Ā  We saved this download to our NMAAM wrist band so we could view it later on at home.

 

 

Crossroads chronicles the time in the Deep South (and after slavery) when work songs and field songs (i.e., the Blues) was prevalent.

Lots of photo ops throughout the museum

 

A Love Supreme highlights the Jazz era in African American music and culture.

 

Louis Armstrong, An African American pioneer in Jazz music and Trumpeteer

 

One Nation Under A Groove records the time following World War I with the emergence of Rhythm and Blues…

 

The Message clearly narrates Hip Hop and Rap music and how it influenced (and continues to influence) pop culture in and around the World…this room featured a interactive DJ booth where we were able to select from one of 3 different rappers and then rap along with them.Ā  Not surprisingly, the line to this interactive feature stayed long (smile).

 

Tupac Shakur, an influential and highly regarded and recognized African American Rapper

 

Rivers of Rhythm featured the touch panels (found on the large glass tables)Ā  throughout the NMAAM theater which allow the user to touch their way into an artist’s songs and biographies.Ā  We downloaded lots of music to our NMAAM wristbands from these touch panels.Ā  Incidentally every half hour or so a concertĀ  played on the interactive walls (that day we jammed to the sounds of Prince, Tina Turner, and James Brown).

 

 

 

And just before you leave the museum, you will notice an art gallery featuring the works of very talented community artists.

 

My sister Casandra in the Art Gallery right before we left

 

There- also is a museum store called Amplify which sells beautiful NMAAM memorabilia at reasonable prices.

 

Amplify had lots to offer at different price points

 

By the way, Casandra and I had the pleasure of bumping into Left Eye Lopez’s little sister Reigndrop who was at the museum that day creating a documentaryĀ  about her late sister Left Eye Lopez.Ā  Here she is entertaining the lobby crowd in her own eclectic way.

 

Reigndrop is cool and talented too!

 

Also while in the lobby we could not help but notice the tribute to the legendary Tina Turner – who recently passed – you can’t showcase black music without including Miss Tina…may she Rest in Peace…

 

Rest in peace Tina Turner

 

All in all, we had the best time eva and I would highly recommend this museum to anyone visiting the city of Nashville (or Nash as it is called).

 

Fun Fact: Ā I remember years ago my sister Casandra telling me that if we were not sisters, she would want me as a friend – I feel the same sis (smile).

 

Sincerely,

 

TVFL

 

Frog Eyed and Bushy Tailed

I was raised in the small town of Groton, Connecticut (population around 40,000). I graduated from Mary Morrison Elementary School, Robert E. Fitch Jr. High School and Robert E. Fitch Sr. High School. Ā  And, as is the case of most small towns, the “legal age” residents (like myself back then) were usually looking for something fun and/or exciting to do post graduation.

 

I was in luck that year. Ā It was 1980 and the nightclub scene in Groton and the surrounding towns and cities was lit! Ā  Again this is wayyyyyyy back in the day so Disco music was very popular. Ā  And the dance scene was all the rage. Ā Saturday Night Fever had already shown at the movies so everyone was looking to out-do John Travolta and his partner on the dance floor (smile). Ā I personally liked Disco Music because it was fast paced with heavy bass and lots of beats. Ā  Disco dance tunes also seem to go on forever when dancing.

 

 

I so vividly remember this time in my life. Ā Going to nightclubs at 18 (which, incidentally, was the drinking age back then) and having plenty of options to choose from. Ā It was a different time, for instance I was able to survive on very little sleep (smile). Ā  So starting the Summer before I left for college, I would ‘club’ 4 or 5 nights a week and still manage to get up in time to work not one, but two jobs – as a full-time Drive-Through-Window Cashier at Wendy’s Hamburgers in Groton and as a part-time Cashier at a small grocery store directly up the street from Wendy’s.

 

I recall on weekdays diligently packing my large overnight bag with my Wendy’s uniform, my grocery store tunic and Levi jeans, and my nightclub gear. Ā I had a long day ahead of me so preparation was key (smile). Ā After getting off from the grocery store, I would excuse myself and go to the ladies room in the rear of the store to wash off and get dressed for the evening. Ā My bff Connie would then pick me up If I was not driving my mother’s blue Mustang (smile).

 

And grabbing food on the go was a cinch as I truly had a cast-iron stomach. Ā I would inhale Wendy’s French fries dipped in tartar sauce for breakfast and wash it down with a delicious chocolate Fribble. Ā Lunch would sometimes consist of a Wendy’s Crispy Fried Chicken with Cheese Sandwich and a Dr. Pepper. Ā Dinner could be a Junior Whopper with cheese and fries courtesy of Burger King. Ā Healthy eating was not a factor in my life then. Ā  And “clean eating” to me consisted of washing my hands before and after I ate and wiping the corners of my mouth while eating a messy burger (smile).

 

 

Rhana Pippins, located in a shopping center called Lighthouse Square in Groton, Ā was the premier Disco nightclub as well as ya girl’s personal fav. Ā  There were other nightclubs in town but everybody went to Rhana Pippins on Wednesday nights and I mean everybody! Ā As it turned out, the ambience was key – it was beautiful inside with gargantuan frogs which served as the motif and doubled as speakers. Ā Also Wednesday nights was the traditional Ladies Night and word had spread quickly throughout Connecticut about free admission for the ladies, the Chippendale male strippers, the cheap drinks and the hunky men who arrived afterwards…

 

The iconic matches – perfect for getting those 7 digits (smile).

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

Saturday nights at Rhana’s Pippins were also Fire! Ā There was a different vibe on Saturday nights though, people came dressed to impress. Ā Saturday Night Fever had revolutionized the nightclub scene so it wasn’t uncommon to see men dressed in open collared shirts and designer threads. Ā It also wasn’t uncommon to be entertained with an upscale fashion show and/or other nightclub event. Ā I found the crowd older and more sophisticated on Saturday nights and therefore preferred the Wednesday night crowd (smile).

 

This Hottie, who just so happens to be my brother Michael, was def a crowd pleaser back in the day…

 

Fun fact: Ā Rhana Pippins means frogs in Latin. Ā I often wondered why the dance floor was surrounded by gargantuan frogs that doubled as speakers. Ā I also uncovered this tidbit: Ā  West Hartford, Connecticut’s own native Suzanne Langlois designed the interior of the nightclub. Ā Very Cool…

 

 

Anyway on Wednesday nights at Rhana Pippins, me and my BFF Connie, fresh out of high school and feeling ourselves, were quite literally the first females to break out with dressy shorts, nice blouses and low heels. Ā  At first the other females were looking at us like we were crazy for wearing shorts at night (dressy or not!) and then suddenly everybody was doing it (smile). Ā  We also couldn’t forget our sunglasses. Ā Sunglasses at night. Ā It made us look cool, dark and mysterious (smile).

 

 

Connie and I were at the age where we didn’t think we were cute, we knew we were cute (LOL!) and we went to Rhana Pippins on Wednesday Nights not because the Chippendale dancers were there but because of the free admission, cheap drinks and hunky men who came in later.

 

 

My drink of choice back then was at first Seagrams 7 & 7 and then Alabama Slammers or better known as a “Southern Slammers.” Ā  By the time I was in my early 20s, Ā I had graduated to Long Island Iced Teas (you can’t go wrong with 7 different liquors – LOL!).

 

Alabama Slammer

 

As soon as the Chippendale dancers begin to come out on the dance floor me and my BFF Connie quickly headed to the rear of the nightclub close to the large bar, sipping our drinks on the bar stools and watching the comedy parade unfold. Ā The “30+ something” married women were always one of the largest demographics on Wednesday nights and seemed to also be the most aggressive, waving their dollar bills in the air and gyrating their hips like they just don’t care (smile). Ā  The former was so the Chippendale dancers would come over to give them big kisses and more…

 

Connie and I weren’t paying them any mind, we were doing our own thing, Ā chit chatting, snapping our fingers to the music and slowly sipping our drinks until the “real men” arrived. Ā  By this time we were thoroughly liquored up and ready to partaaay!!! Ā  We were young and cute and therefore always asked to dance. Ā Once out on the dance floor we gravitated towards the middle where the huge mirror ball hung with its sparkling multi-colored lights and lost ourselves in the music…

 

Must be the music (smile)

 

At 2am, Rhana Pippins shut down for the night but Connie and I were not ready to go home. Ā IHOP in Groton was the place to be after all the nightclubs closed. Ā  And around that time we were famished so we ordered large breakfast food (pancakes and sausage and coffee or eggs, bacon, toast and coffee) and talked throughout the night with our respective dates.

 

 

I would get home just in time to get in 2 hours of sleep before the alarm clock went off then I would shower, dress and start my day all over again. Ā Frog eyed and Bushy Tailed (smile).

 

P.S. Ā Rhana Pippins was my number one nightclub choice back then but there are some notable mentions: Ā The Love Boat, Christopher’s and Atlantis in Misquamicut, Rhode Island just to name a few. Ā  However, they still didn’t compare in my eyes to Rhana Pippins which to me had it all: ambience, music, fashion shows, dance-offs, a variety of specialty drinks and lots of eye candy (smile).

 

And incidentally, Sundays were for Church (service) and Mondays were our ‘official rest days’ (smile).

 

Sincerely,

 

TVFL

 

Fun Things to do in Connecticut – Part III

There’s lots to do in the state of Connecticut during the Summer, especially when the weather is cooperating. Ā It is truly ‘hotter than July’ so there is really no need to travel anywhere, we have sun filled days and long nights right here in CT (smile).

Here is a short list of annual events that occur in the Summer months and involve food, fun, music, festivities, entertainment and more! Ā The good news is that most are free to attend and some even offer free parking.

 

A Taste of Mystic (New London County)

This annual event takes place at the Olde Mistick Village (OMV) around the second weekend in June (Friday/Saturday/Sunday) and involves food and drinks, live bands, loads of entertainment, merchant specials and more!

 

 

Admission is free (parking is also free). Ā To participate in The Taste you buy sleeves of tickets for $1.00 each to be exchanged for food and drinks from the vendors.

 

Joyce Reskinoff the owner of Olde Mistick Village being interviewed by News 8’s own Co-Chief Meteorologist Joe Furey

 

And the OMV Merchants offer money-saving specials as well! Ā Here’s a PSA: Be sure to support these Connecticut based small businesses.

 

 

New Haven Music on the Green (New Haven County)

In New Haven the unofficial start to Summer kicks off with Music on the Green!

 

Ryan Kristofer and Teresa DuFour of CT Style along with Jo Jo Pastors and her gf on the New Haven Green

 

In Summers past we have been entertained (in our VIP seats)Ā by such notable acts as Ronnie Spector, Ā Debbie Gibson, Taylor Dayne, KC and the Sunshine Band and En Vogue, just to name a few.

 

And this year we had the pleasure of seeing Lisa Lisa on Saturday 7/20/19 and Morris Day on Saturday 7/29/19!

Morris Day is 61 years young – a real talent for sure!

 

The Hamden Free Summer Concert Series (New Haven County)

Beginning late June on Friday nights at 6pm at the Hamden Town Center Park, live bands play to diverse crowds made up of singles, couples, families, dogs and more! Ā This free annual outdoor event truly features something for everyone. Ā There’s no VIP but at the same time there is truly not a bad seat in the house. Ā And if you come hungry you can feast off of the nearby food trucks or better yet, pack your own picnic complete with adult beverages. Ā Bring your lawn chairs and blankets and make a space on the lawn as happy people jam to the music.

 

Plenty of room at the free Hamden Summer Concert Series at the Hamden town green. Long lines at the ethnically diverse food trucks

This year (2019) on Week 4 The Wailers, featuring Julian Junior Marvin, delighted the Friday night crowd.

 

Awesome performance!

 

The Greater Hartford Festival of Jazz (Hartford County)

Jazz is alive and well outdoors at the Greater Hartford Festival of Jazz at Bushnell Park in Hartford! Ā This free annual event takes place over an entire weekend (Friday/Saturday/Sunday) in mid July. Ā  There are food and retail clothing vendors and folks completely covering the Bushnell park lawn with their blankets, lawn chairs, coolers and sun umbrellas. Ā Big screen TVs on both sides of the stage ensure that everyone gets a decent view. Ā It’s a thing!

 

 

The line-up of jazz musicians is awesome and the party lasts all day long and well into the night.

 

Having a blast in Hartford – jazz is everywhere – love the energy here!

Although this is a free event donations are gladly accepted…

 

New London Sailfest (New London County)

This coastal city comes alive during the Summer with its signature event, theĀ New London Sailfest!

July is the month and the entire mid-month weekend (Friday/Saturday/Sunday) offers something for all family members.

 

 

From tall ships to face painting to patriotic costumes and more, there is truly something for everyone.

Speaking of which, there are amusement park rides, face painting, delicious food options plus sailboat and people watching.

 

The food, the rides, the atmosphere, the fireworks at night…

 

So that’s my short list of fun things to do during Summers in Connecticut – Staycate and enjoy!

 

Sincerely,

 

TVFL