November 2025 was the last blog post I entered in this Current Situation series. What’s been happening since then? Here’s the update – it’s April of 2026 and gas prices have spiked through the roof, home heating oil prices are extremely high, my 40`1K is up and down and up and down and the job market in general is sketchy.
On the flip side I am still gainfully employed as a Media Sales Professional by News Channel 8 (ABC) in New Haven, CT and I’m nearing retirement. By the way, the Media Industry as a whole looks starkly different then what it looked like almost 40 years ago when I started my career so I consider myself blessed to be in the position I am in.
These boots were made for walking…
As I mentioned before it’s mid-April in the state of Connecticut and this New England changeable weather has recently taken a turn for the worse. Last week I was wearing sundresses and sunglasses, this coming week I’m pulling out long sleeves and heavy stockings. Winter is back – Waaaah!
On the bright side health wise I am doing extraordinarily well. My pap smear was normal, my vision was normal and I was recently told at my annual physical exam by a new Primary Care Doctor (a young woman in her 30s) that I should continue doing whatever it is I am doing because all of my labs were great. Not to be funny but I was not that surprised because I gave up alcohol 6 years ago, totally cleaned up my diet, and as for drugs, I don’t indulge (smile). For exercise I work out 5 mornings a week at Orangetheory Fitness Center in Hamden, hydrate a lot and strive to get at least 7 hours of sleep a night.
Working out is my form of physical therapy
Family wise my almost 93 year old father, Jonie B. Hollis, was recently (through the collective efforts of my sister Casandra who lives in Nashville, TN, myself in Connecticut and my brother Michael also in Connecticut) presented with a Quilt of Honor (citation and actual quilt) for his 30 years of service in the U.S. Navy. It was a total surprise to Jonie B. — the ceremony as well as my brother Michael’s heartfelt tribute left him teary eyed and proud. The Old Saybrook Nursing home where he resides showed up and out – it was a beautiful affair and one for the record books.
Jonie B., his son Michael, daughter Lajeune and the 2 lovely women who hosted the program
Other Blessings: Two babies were born into the Hollis family tree this year – my nephew Jacob who lives in Florida had a baby boy in January of 2026 and my nephew Jasper who lives in Arizona had a baby boy in February of 2026.
Happy Great Aunt
One of my New Year’s goals for 2026 was to take up something I left behind years ago. Reading. And reading is my jam! I am currently reading the trilogy of Paradise stories by Elin Hilderbrand that I am loving so much I cannot put the books down. She’s an awesome writer and puts the reader right into the thick of her stories – I’m on the last book in her trilogy series now – it’s called “Troubles in Paradise” and it inspired me today to book a return trip to St. Thomas for our upcoming June vacation (smile).
Reading is not foreign to me. As a matter of fact back in the early 1990s I was hosting an African American Book Review radio show with my co-host LaMonda Williams called ‘The L & L Book Review’ on AM1340 WNHC Radio while simultaneously hosting an African American monthly book club in person at Barnes and Noble bookstore in North Haven, CT. As luck would have it, I made connections with publishing houses in New York City that started sending me hardcovers in the mail for free in the hopes that I would include their books in my reviews! I also interviewed African American authors at the radio station as well as in person at Barnes and Noble bookstore. It was most definitely a labor of love for I was not getting paid to do either of these gigs (smile).
Feeling real good about reading at night because it exercises my brain (smile)
And that’s all I have to share for now – until next time.
Our 14th year love anniversary or “loveaversary” as my co-worker/friend Lisa coined it, occurs on the 8th of March every year. We (me and James) decided to celebrate in Arizona this time around so we would literally be situated in a desert, clearly in love, and seeking a new experience.
We chose Phoenix as our city of destination not just because its the capitol of the state of Arizona, but also its largest city, boasting just over 1.6 million residents! And we were eagerly looking forward to the sunny temps all week long, outdoor recreational options, delish Southwestern/Mexican cuisine and a championship class golf course located right at the Hilton Phoenix Tapatio Cliffs Resort.
Day 1
Travel Day – Sunday – Woke up in Connecticut before the crack of dawn (3am) to catch our early morning (6:05am) flight out of Bradley International Airport which, by the way, is looking mighty fine these days. I’m truly loving all the building upgrades and seeing bits and pieces of what’s to come (smile).
After a 3-hour layover at our first stop in Chicago, not including the 1-hour long wait on the airplane for the de-ciing of the aircraft’s wings, we were finally on our way. My legs felt like jelly 3 hours later as we walked off the airplane and into the Phoenix Sky Harbor International Airport. We had quite literally been traveling all day long so we were barking at each other and ‘hangry’ as Hell (smile). The number one place we looked for after we retrieved our bags and picked up our rental car was somewhere to eat. We Googled “American Restaurants near me” and found a place that was not too far away. It was called Culinary Dropout and it was super delish! I was feeling very healthy so I quickly inhaled a Butternut Squash and Kale bowl with grilled chicken.
We drove around Phoenix for a while just to get a feel for things and found a Super Walmart so it was there that we picked up enough bottled waters and snacks to last us for the week.
Finally at the resort we checked in and then drove to Building 24 which was waaaay at the top of a hill. I immediately unpacked my luggage because I’m anal like that (smile), took a shower and went to bed – my 20 hour day (and now officially on Mountain time) had finally come to an end.
Building 24 where we stayed
Day 2 – Resort Day – The Hilton Phoenix Tapatio Cliffs Resort is located just 20 minutes North of downtown and when you pull up in your car to the entrance, you truly feel like you are in a whole ‘nother world. It is no wonder because the property is nestled into the rugged North Mountain Preserve in Phoenix. The hotel grounds are massive and the views are breathtakingly beautiful. Boasting 7 pools – some with hot tubs, a 138-foot water slide, waterfalls, plenty of lounge chairs with big umbrellas at each pool, spas, dining options from the simple to the sublime, hiking trails, 16,000 square feet of conference and meeting space and a championship golf course. We stayed in a King-sized Premium suite that was situated at the top of a hill so between our rental car, which we parked directly in front of our building, and the 24/7 free shuttle service, we were good to go.
mid-sized rental car
convenient shuttle service call button
We deemed Day 2 our Rest and Relaxation day for obvious reasons so after we checked out the workout area, the championship golf course and two different pools, we wound up poolside at The Falls (smile) soaking in the sun.
The Falls was one of our fav pools
I ordered the delish Arugula salad with grilled chicken from Cascades Cafe. By the way, the weather was awesome – 80s with a cool breeze. And the forecast showed the same all week!
Seated at The Falls and getting ready to dig into my Arugula salad with Grilled Chicken
After a while we headed back to our hotel room to sit outside and enjoy the mountain views from our balcony. Then we showered and changed for dinner.
Our hotel room balcony offered up some of the best views of the mountain
That night we chose A Point in Tyme for dinner – I had a flaky fried Cod fish sandwich on a brioche roll with a side salad and ice water with lemon. It was delish!
Yummy!
After dinner the restaurant rang for our ride (shuttle) which showed up 6 minutes later to take us back to the room where we sat outside again on the balcony to enjoy the cool breezes.
Day 3 – ATV/UTV day
This was a tour that we both looked forward to. Arizona Outdoor Fun & Tours was located about 35 minutes from our resort so we purposely left earlier then we would have since we didn’t know what the morning traffic scene in Phoenix was like. We dressed in long pants and long sleeves which their website recommended except we wore sneakers instead of boots. Upon arrival our tour guide asked us for one credit card and both of our state of CT driving licenses and gave us each a face mask and goggles to protect our eyes. Next we all individually sat on folding chairs under a large tent so the staff could explain how to operate the ATVs and UTVs. We chose the UTV as opposed to the ATV so we could ride together in one jeep and because they promised us a longer ride then we would have with the ATVs. By the way, a UTV or Utility Terrain Vehicle rides like a car and is designed to carry anywhere from two to six people. An ATV or All Terrain Vehicle is designed for one person and uses handlebars for hard steering.
This is our UTV – Utility Terrain Vehicle
Not surprisingly about 4 or 5 young ladies (maybe in their early 20s) showed up at the tour like they were dressed for a paid Social Media event. They had on these teeny tight outfits and wore inappropriate footwear. I almost felt sorry for them because they chose the ATVs not the UTVs and didn’t know it yet but they were in for a big surprise (smile).
Austin was our Tour Guide. There were about 3 different UTVs groups going out when we left which each had their own Tour Guide. We rode directly behind Austin which was good because in my mind there was less dust to catch (smile). And Austin was the consummate Tour Guide, patient, stopping for breaks if we needed them or just to tell us a story about a particular animal (donkey) or type of terrain. And he always made sure that no one strayed.
Fun Fact about Donkeys in Arizona: It is illegal for a donkey to sleep in a bathtub originating from a donkey that floated away in a bathtub during a 1920s flood (smile).
It was a long, winding and dusty trail and quite honestly, I don’t know how Austin navigated it, as there are really no markers in the ground or trees to make it easy to remember. He said he had been working at Outdoor Fun Adventures for almost 4 years and enjoyed taking people out for the time of their lives. He also mentioned how the tour guides relied on tips because the pay (with no benefits) was a lot less than it would be at say, a 9 to 5 job.
Ready for the dusty ride of our lives (smile)
We were UTVing for 2 hours so when we returned there was dust everywhere – all over our shoes, our hair, our clothes. So much so that I could not wait to get back to our hotel room to shower. But first we stopped at Cascades Cafe on the resort for my fav Arugula salad with Grilled Chicken so I would not be “hangry” for our anniversary dinner at 730pm that evening.
The restaurant we chose to spend our 14th year love anniversary was literally up the hill from our building so even though we could walk, we decided to take a shuttle instead so I wouldn’t be walking up the hill in high heels (smile). A Different Pointe of View (“American Cuisine with European Influences”) was situated right on top of a mountain so it had killer views and sunsets to die for.
Some diners chose not to eat in the dining room at all as the outdoor deck had plenty of seating and you were right in front of the beautiful sunset. The only downside of eating on the outdoor deck was that you could only order drinks and light apps. We stayed on the outdoor deck for a while as it was a perfect photo opp and then headed inside for our coveted table which featured a window view of the sunset.
photo ops abound on the outdoor deck of Different Pointe of View
Our dinner reservations were for 7pm that night in The Terrace Room of the 3-floors restaurant and we had 4 delicious courses. The weather was perfect, the sunset was beautiful and the service was second to none.
Good choice of a restaurant to celebrate our 14th year loveaversary
Day 4 – Breakfast with Nephew/Driving range
One of my favorite jobs is being an Aunt. I love all of my nieces and nephews and great nieces and great nephews and now grand nieces and grand nephews and they live all over the United States. My 37-year old nephew Jasper lives in Mesa, Arizona which was about 30 minutes away from our resort so I arranged for Jasper to meet us at A Point in Tyme for breakfast. I chose A Point in Tyme because they have a $25 dollar all-you-can-eat buffet as well as the regular breakfast menu. Jasper and I ate from the regular menu and James chose the buffet. Jasper and I had a wonderful time catching up on life before James arrived especially since he and his girlfriend had a beautiful baby boy a few weeks ago. We were all at the restaurant for a good 2 hours before we had to say our goodbyes.
My handsome nephew Jasper who I miss already
After Jasper left, James and I headed right next door to Lookout Mountain Golf Course to get in some practice shots as we were booked for a 3pm tee time the very next day.
We had a light snack after our practice session since we made reservations for an early 530pm dinner that evening at Restaurant Progress – a place that my gym friend Penthy’s son Scott recommended. As it turns out, Scott and his wife live in Phoenix and know the restaurant scene pretty well. Penthy texted me a long list of places Scott provided – the list included where to eat for breakfast, lunch and dinner but between the delish resort restaurants and the places nearby our planned outdoor tours and activities, Restaurant Progress was the only place from the list we had time to try out.
Restaurant Progress (a New American Restaurant) was a short 20 minute drive from our hotel. James and I decided to take our knowledgeable waiter’s recommendation on what to order (small world – our waiter was also our shuttle driver at the resort from the night before) “Garrett” told us he has to work 4 jobs so he can afford his own apartment in Phoenix!
You might not be able to tell but I am stuffed in this picture as we were one course away from dessert (smile)
At Garrett’s recommendation we ordered the 5-course Chef’s Pick where the Chef prepared us 2 different dishes each course over the 5 courses so we could swap them out between each other and therefore sample the most variety of dishes. We were sooooo stuffed by the time we got to the last course (dessert) but somehow managed to fit more food in our tummies (smile).
9 of the 10 courses from Chef’s Pick that we were served – can’t fit number 10 in this collage
Day 5 – Rainbow Ryders Hot Air Balloon Ride Day
Another early morning start to our day – up at 4am so we could make the check in time of 545am from the meeting point which was about 30 yo 35 minutes from our hotel resort. This experience and tour was completely new to both of us. I have to admit that I did not feel nervous at all. Even after we signed our lives away (waivers) and they packed us all in multiple vans to head to the destination. Each group had it own pilot as well as 2 staff members. The 3 men collectively unfolded and used various equipment to inflate the balloon. It was amazing to watch. And it took a minute. I saw a huge basket nearby and wondered how all 10 of us in the group were going to fit but somehow we did. I remember a question on the waiver pertaining to our weight in pounds and now I understand why they asked. The basket was bigger on the inside than it looked on the outside. And the actual ride was peaceful and serene. It was very early in the morning so the dress code was casual wear with a jacket since it’s cold (55 degrees or less) in Phoenix that early in the morning. I was happy I dressed for the date because the wind was pretty strong and the air was chilly. Lucky for us our Pilot kept firing up our balloon to make it go higher as we benefited from the blasts of heat.
An experience like no other – I would absolutely recommend it – just don’t look down!
While up in the sky we looked down at multiple housing developments with swimming pools, miniature cars, lots and lots of empty land lots and plenty of mountains. We were floating around for about an hour before we started to head back to the ground. The actual landing was rough like an airplane’s landing but without the fear factor. Climbing out of the basket was definitely one for the books – Ha!
Back on the ground
After we all settled our Pilot poured us a glass of Champagne and/or Juice and made a short toast to another successful journey.
The hot air balloon ride’s entire experience made us hungry so we stopped in Glendale, AZ for breakfast at a placed called Biscuits Cafe. We figured you can’t go wrong with that name. I was wrong. I ordered the Biscuit Breakfast Sandwich (Eggs/Sausage/Cheese) with Hash Browns and a Coffee. When the breakfast arrived I asked our waitress (once she got back to our table) how come my sandwich was on a roll and not a biscuit which I expected. She said it’s called Biscuit Breakfast Sandwich because it is named after the restaurant. Aha! She felt bad though and brought me a biscuit to swap the roll out with but by then I had already ate more than half of the sandwich as I was starving from the excitement of the morning (smile).
Biscuits Cafe in Glendale
Sausage Egg and Cheese Breakfast sandwich with hash browns
I spent about 3 hours poolside with my magazine while James took a nap. We had a 3pm tee time at the much anticipated Lookout Mountain Golf course. We borrowed a set of clubs from the resort and they gifted us each our own signature set of golf balls – 6 in all so I knew I had to make as many of my shots as possible (smile).
Our borrowed sets of clubs
our golf cart
As all golf clubs do, we were matched up with 2 solo golfers (one named Christian who with his 2 brothers was staying on the same resort as us and the other named Jorge’ who actually lived in Phoenix and had enjoyed playing this course multiple times).
L to R – Me, James, Jorge’ and Christian – Jorge was a life saver because he knew the course well and therefore saved us a lot of lost balls
We set out for a sunny and beautiful afternoon of golf with our new golf friends.
This picture was taken right before sunset when the weather had turned cold and blustery
James and I played 14 holes before it got too cold for me (it was unusually windy that afternoon which caused the air to become cold). It was also starting to become dark as sunset was near. Christian and Jorge’ were happy to continue golfing but between the impending sunset and the now fierce winds I wanted to get back to our hotel to warm up. We were starving though so we ate first right next door at the clubhouse – I had blackened shrimp tacos, chips and salsa. The food was delish. That night we packed our clothes as (sigh) we were leaving the next day for Connecticut.
My last delicious meal at the clubhouse – Blackened Shrimp tacos with salsa and tortilla chips
Day 6 – Travel Back to Connecticut Day
We got up at 730am, ate a light breakfast, checked out of the resort and then headed to the rental car facility which was not too far from the airport to drop off our car. Then we took the sky train to the airport. Our flight from Phoenix to Denver was delayed by 1 hour which ended up turning into 2 hours and then we discovered that our next flight, where we already had a long 3 hour layover, was now going to be delayed for another 2 and a half hours! By the time we got back to Hartford, Connecticut it was 345am Eastern time. We made it home around 4am so I unpacked (yes I am still that anal girl), showered and slept for 3 hours as I had to get up at 730am for my weekly Saturday morning hair appointment.
Was the trip to the Desert worth it – YES! Will we do it again – YES, but next time we will stay in Sedona or closer to the Grand Canyon for a different kind of experience. #YOLO
I am feeling just a little melancholy today and it could be because I am unwell. When I am unwell my heads veers off in many directions and it’s hard for me to stay focused on any one thing. I’m normally happy, bubbly, and full of positive energy so this is quite a departure from my personality. And to add insult to injury, it is the end of the year which means both Christmas and New Year’s are a stone’s throw away. The holidays tend to bring out the melancholy in me because they remind me of loved ones who are no longer with me. Namely my sweet mother Jean, my baby brother Shawn, my ahead-of-his-time nephew Ahmad Sr., my endearing brother-in-law Alfredo, my beloved older sister Dana plus countless aunts and uncles way too many to name.
All that to say I like to play holiday Soul music interspersed with Rhythm and Blues around this time of the year. It alternately acts as both a mood lifter and memory generator. I put one song in particular “Happiness is Just Around The Bend” by The Main Ingredient on re-play. Why? Because this song is feeling much more relevant to me now than when I first heard it as a 12 year old girl growing up in the small town of Groton, CT. It is not surprising that it was a chart topper for The Main Ingredient back in 1974. If you have listened to this song and especially the lyrics you too will find it reminiscent of the world we are living in today.
To summarize: it is about finding clarity in chaos, about life feeling upside down and confusing and out of whack but despite that, not giving up, but hanging on because happiness is truly just around the corner – Love will win.
This song is so deep and I truly needed to hear it today – Fact: When this song was recorded by The Main Ingredient back in 1974 the world was struggling with the Watergate Scandal (erosion of faith in the U.S. Government) and the continued impact of the 1973 Oil Crisis which caused widespread inflation, gas shortages and “stagflation.”
Today in 2025 we too struggle with erosion of faith in our government, economic instability and as an added burden: inexplicable developments. Despite what is happening around us, I encourage my fellow TVFL readers to continue fighting the good fight, remain focused and positive and stay the course because I for one am choosing to believe that Happiness is truly just around the bend…
We are roughly one month away from the end of the year – another year flying by way too quickly. And, as it turns out, my birthday (Valentine’s Day which falls on the second holiday of the New year) is quickly approaching. So I will turn 64 years old on February 14th, 2026 God willing. Which brings me to my dilemma. I don’t consider myself a Senior Citizen. And I say it with a straight face (smile).
Technically speaking I am not yet a Senior Citizen since the state of Connecticut defines a Senior Citizen as a state resident who is 65 years or older in terms of program eligibility like Social Security, Property Tax Relief, Medicare and other state aid.
Don’t call me a Senior!
There are, however, some programs and/or services in the state of Connecticut which consider 55as the starting age. As a matter of fact 13 years ago when I turned 50, AARP had thenerve to send me an unsolicited membership card! I tossed it in the trash (smile). Clearly they had confused me with my next door neighbor who, at that time in my life, was most certainly a Senior Citizen (smile).
I am not my next door neighbor
Another thing. My name Le Jeune means ‘The Young’ in French so that might have something to do with my age obsession (smile). True story: While reading Jet magazine, my late mother Jean found my name attached to a very popular African American model who had just won an award in Cannes, France. The model’s name was Le Jeune Hundley and, as it turned out, she traveled to France because it was easier for a black woman from the United States to find modeling work in France then it was in the U.S. At any rate my mother loved the name, but changed the first E to an A, dropped the capital in J, closed the letters together and Voila! named me (her 5th daughter) after this model. Here is a picture of Le Jeune Hundley on the cover of Jet magazine:
By the way her name was misspelled here by Jet Magazine…
Another concern of mine is that scientists have identified the 5 stages of the human brain and 66 (or the mid-60s) is when the so-called Early Aging phase begins. This is the phase when people face increased risk for a variety of health conditions that can affect the brain, such as hypertension. Hence why I wake up 5 days a week at the crack of dawn (430am) to work out from 5am to 6am at Orangetheory Fitness in Hamden. I’m usually one of the oldest members in my class but I can still keep up with everyone (smile).
I am truly an Early Bird
And also why I (as of the Covid Pandemic of 2020) completely cut alcohol (in my case – Wine) out of my life and continue to work very hard to eat clean and nutritious meals. It can be harsh (especially around the holidays) so I allow myself to cheat from time to time. Like the other day when I went with my girlfriends Sherry and Thais to see Wicked 2 at the Cinemark movie theater and treated myself to a Medium popcorn with extra movie theater butter (smile).
I truly believe life is for living and I have reiterated it as much in more than one of my previously written blog posts. I will continue to notact my age and just enjoy life to the fullest. So unless I am getting a serious Senior Citizen discount, you will not know when I am in fact a Senior Citizen.
I have been thinking about my baby brother Shawn a lot lately. Even dreaming about him. It’s been 20 years since his death and although the pain has subsided, it still feels like a dull ache that never quite goes away.
Baby brother Shawn
Growing up Hollis my father Jonie B. was very strict. He joined the United States Navy when he was just 19 years of age so I imagine a lot of what he learned in the Navy from a discipline standpoint, he imparted onto his own family. Shawn and I were the youngest of 7 children (5 girls, 2 boys) so we bore the brunt of it. My mother was a “housewife” at the time and was always there to make sure our childhood was as pleasant as possible.
Jonie Benjamin Hollis
Shawn was the youngest of us 7 Hollis children and the true ‘baby of the family’. I remember being quite jealous when he was born because I was just 2 years old and no longer the baby of the family. It reminds me of that song, “Lonely Boy,” by Andrew Gold because this baby boy, being an “only child,” was doted on by his parents until 2 years later when his baby sister came along and suddenly all of the attention and focus shifted to her. This obviously does not perfectly apply to my situation since I’m a girl, Shawn’s a boy and there were 5 other children born before us, but I can certainly relate to that little boy’s pain (smile).
6th from left to right and no longer the “baby of the family”
Shawn had a wonderful personality and a smile that could light up a room. The fact that he was “easy on the eyes” didn’t hurt either…People naturally gravitated towards him because of his friendly demeanor, sensitive nature and kind ways. As I mentioned before, Shawn and I played together as siblings do but to be honest, I was more concerned with hanging out with my 4 older sisters who I looked up to and emulated as best as I could. Being the baby girl, they didn’t want me around so I started forging my own friendships with girls my age at school and at home.
Shawn was smart as a whip from day one and also very sensitive by nature. As he got older his sensitivity became more and more of a liability as people tend to equate a gentle nature and kindness with weakness. Still it did not seem to faze him, he did not try to change his personality, he just lived out his truth.
Like a lot of boys at the time, Shawn joined the Boy Scouts to fit in. This ended up backfiring on him though because most of the activities were father-son related and our father was out to sea a good portion of the year living on submarines to build his Naval career. In other words, not able to be there for Shawn like the fathers of the other boy scouts were there for their sons. My mother tried to help out but it wasn’t the same…
My mother Jean with her 2 sons Shawn and Michael
Shawn was gifted with a creative mind so he became a self-taught musician – he taught himself how to play guitar at a very young age and drew on inspiration from a relatively unknown Indie musician at the time named Prince (smile). I remember hearing Prince’s music coming from his bedroom and thinking, who in their right mind could listen to that mess (smile). When Shawn graduated from high school he applied for and was accepted into the prestigious Berkelee School of Music but dropped out after a few semesters due to financial issues as well as feelings of loneliness and isolation.
Shawn also had a short stint in the U.S. Army but the service life did not agree with him.
When Shawn passed, I had just started working months before as an Account Executive at WTNH TV News 8. As it turned out, learning my new gig (broadcast television sales) felt like learning a whole new language. However this learning curve turned into a blessing in disguise because it acted as a good distraction for me after the heartache of losing a loved one. I was having a difficult time processing the loss of my baby brother and to be honest, I even felt a little guilty about what more I could have done as his sister who was closest in age to him and probably understood him more from our shared experiences in childhood and such. The funeral was surreal, people from our childhood in Groton, CT showed up, as well as family, friends, and member of my Christian Tabernacle Baptist Church family. My News 8 sales managers and sales colleagues showed up in full force which meant the world to me, a mere newbie at that time.
Little Brother with Big BrotherLeft to Right – back row – Dana, Shawn, Michael, Elena, Lajeune front row – Casandra my mother Jean, Joandra
As what usually happens after a funeral, a flood of memories arrived of our brief time together. Relatively speaking, I have way more memories of our short lives together growing up Hollis than I do of our lives after high school and college. Shawn became somewhat reclusive in his last 10 years on earth. And it was hard to reconcile. Life hadn’t turned out the way Shawn expected so most of the news that I received about him was from my dear mother Jean when I swung by to visit her over the weekend. Growing up though Shawn and I, being the youngest in the family, got along pretty well. We had fights like brothers and sisters do but for the most part we played nice. Shawn was so easygoing and likable it was hard not to get along with him. My mother also made sure that we kids were all involved in some kind of activity after school as well as during the Summer months so there was always something going on. As we got older and started high school, the other kids had moved out so it was just me, Shawn and our mother at home. My parents had separated by then.
A collage of Shawn that truly captures his spirit – thanks for putting this together Big Brother Mike
Looking ahead, what Shawn’s short time on this earth has taught me is to be kind, you never know what someone is going through or has gone through. Be compassionate as compassion is free and show empathy to those people who may be different from you. Life is too short to not appreciate it asand for the gift that it is.
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