Me and my man just returned from a 6 day 5 night vacay to the sunshine state of Florida. We chose Pompano Beach in Fort Lauderdale on the East Coast for this trip because we had most recently (back in May of 2019) traveled to the West Coast and stayed on St. Pete’s Beach in Clearwater.
My 58th birthday was another reason why we chose this destination. Instead of taking turns shoveling snow with our teeth chattering in the wind and/or dealing with the super drab Winter blahs, we opted instead to celebrate my Valentines Day Birthday in 80 degree weather along with the cool breezes of the Atlantic ocean.
Besides, there’s no shoveling sunshine right (smile).
Our travel agent Karen made all of the arrangements once she learned of our needs: namely warm sunny weather, cool ocean breezes, nearby golf courses, outdoor music, a decent nightlife, good restaurants, sightseeing and shopping.
We stayed at the Marriott Pompano Beach Resort and Spa in a standard King room with ocean views.
You could literally see the ocean from our small balcony…
Pompano Beach time – Day 1- soaking up the Sun is one of my fave things to do at the beach
On our first night (of Day 1) we dined at And FishKitchenand Bar (the Marriott Hotel Restaurant and Bar)
Our waiter Chris at And Fish Kitchen and Bar was spectacular!
Day 2 – Carlucci’s Trattoria– a Pompano Beach Restaurant – I was famished after walking a couple of miles and this place hit the spot!
Seaside Grill – a Pompano Beach restaurant (night of Day 2)
Day 3 – 9Face Sushi– another Pompano Beach restaurant – dining al fresco – out here it seems as if everyone and their grandmother owns a dog (smile)
By the way, even though we were on vacay we still took the time every day to work out in the hotel gym
On Day 4 we Uber’d over to Nauti Dawg Marina Cafein Lighthouse Point – a restaurant my friend Terri recommended
Sun Surf Sand (S3) – Fort Lauderdale Beach (night of Day 4)
Pompano Beach Municipal Golf Course – on Day 5 it was not as windy as the first half of the week so we decided to borrow clubs, buy balls and tees and go golfing up the street at the municipal course
Speaking of weather – It was in the mid 70’s the first half of the week with strong winds and the early 80s the second half…
Traffic – It wasn’t really a concern for us as we Uber’d everywhere (smile)
Day 5 – Delray Beach – this town was highly recommended by Karen our travel agent because it offered up the type of vacation lifestyle we were seeking – so we ended up spending the entire day here…
Yikes, Â it is hard to believe that it’s November already and 2019 is coming to a close. Â I feel like this year flew by and the top 3 goals I set for myself in the month of January were stabbed at but not completely realized…My Top 3 Goals in the New Year
I do, however, have something I’m particularly proud of this year: Â namely improving on my game of Golf.
Thanks to the Lyman Orchards Golf Center I spent the majority of my Summer and more than half of my Fall golfing.  And Summer started late this year in Connecticut  – remember the month of May?!?  I had to count it out for starting play as it was rainy and miserable.  Consequently I did not pick up my clubs until mid-June but then I made up for it by playing until the last weekend of October.
I learned a lot this year both on the course and off.  I had previously taken Golf Fore Women 101 (last September 2018) so some of what I learned this year felt like a refresher course but in a good way Ready Fore Golf
However, the majority of what I learned I took and turned into real application on the course. Â And I had the added benefit of being taught and supervised by the award-winning LPGA Class A Teaching Professional Marissa Kulig Crow as well as her 2 trusty teammates Dan Hannibal and Andra Frappier…
June
July
August
September
October
Sooooo…I finally broke down at the end of October and invested in some new clubs.  And I actually played with them the last 2 weekends of the month.  I must admit that my game has improved with my new set of clubs (smile).  Not trying to rush time but I sure can’t wait ’till next Summer (double smile).
We were desperately in need of a vacation – the goal was somewhere warm, beachy and fun – so the Sunshine state immediately came to mind (with the help of Karen, our travel agent).
We couldn’t of timed it better – we departed from Bradley International Airport in Windsor Locks, CT on a rainy, dreary Sunday morning in mid-May at 720am and arrived to sunny Tampa International Airport in Tampa, Florida less than 3 hours later.
Our destination was the Sirata Beach Resort in Clearwater, Florida a half hour from TIA airport (but it took our shuttle service over an hour and a half to get there due to heavy traffic and multiple drop-offs).
It was worth the long wait when we saw that the resort (although not as new as the promotional video pictured it) was nonetheless cute and quaint (smile).
After we checked into our City View (as opposed to Ocean View)Â suite at Sirata Beach Resort, we headed out the door for some much needed grub and a walk on St. Pete’s Beach.
Our first stop at the resort for grub was Harry’s Beach Bar because we were starving and because it was literally right in front of us (smile). Â The food at Harry’s was okay, nothing to write home about, but the peek-a-boo views of the pool and the beach were inviting…
After lunch we went for a long walk on St. Pete’s Beach, touted as the number 1 beach in the U.S. Â The breathtaking beauty of this beach reminded me of vacationing in the Caribbean- – white sand, baby blue water and lots of big waves.
While walking the beach we could not help but notice how it was sectioned off by  resorts in that each individual resort (over the 13 acres of premier beachfront!) had it’s own matching cabanas, beach loungers, chairs and umbrellas perfectly lined up on their own property.  Sirata Beach Resort property provided 2 complimentary beach loungers per room per day to their guests.  If you wanted front row access (prime real estate) you had to head to the beach by 8am and pay the the attendant $20 for a Sirata Beach umbrella.  This reservation ensured that your beach loungers and umbrella would be placed in the front row and that no one could move into your spot for the entire day.  Nor could anyone park in front of you.  We made front row reservations every day over the next 4 days (smile).
Sirata Beach Resort is a lot of things  but it is not all-inclusive.  However there are  a total of 4 restaurants at the resort which are all decent.  One of our favorite casual dining restaurants on the resort was Rum Runners Bar and Grill which also featured live music in the evenings.
And since Sirata Beach Resort is situated on Gulf Boulevard, there are a ton of good restaurant choices – most within walking distance. Â We discovered a really good seafood restaurant called Crabby Bills 5 minutes from our resort a few days before we departed. Â It was sooooo good we ate there two days in a row (smile).
As far as night life, we stumbled upon a beautiful hotel while walking along Gulf Boulevard during the day. Â It had a rooftop deck for drinks and apps and a fine dining restaurant below called Spinners (it literally spun while you dined). Â This hotel was called the Grand Plaza Hotel. Â We went there that same evening and sat outside on the rooftop deck for drinks and apps.
While reading about daily activities at the resort I saw that there was a free service called Beach Rides. Â These vans provide free local rides to resort guests but ask that you leave a tip since this is how they make their living. Â We called Beach Rides to take us to another local beach called Madeira Beach on our 3rd day. Â We chose Madeira as were interested in seeing the marina, stopping in the boardwalk shops and taking a dolphin watch tour.
Our dolphin watch tour was for 1.5 hours and we found it was a quick and easy way to learn about the residents who lived around the bay as well as information about dolphin life. Â There were a lot of dolphins out that afternoon and we even saw a baby dolphin that the Captain told us had just been born 24 hours ago!
Afterwards we ate outdoors at The Hut Bar and Grill while we watched lots of other tours and boat activity.
The following day we were back at our resort.  Oh, I forgot to mention that every night during the week the resort offered free drinks at the tiki bar from 730pm to 8pm.  You had your choice of beer, wine or rum punch.  It was here that we met a nice couple that happened to be Clearwater locals.  They were telling us where to go in the short time we had remaining on our trip.
What stuck in my mind was when this couple told us about going to downtown St. Petersburg at night.  From the way they described it, it sounded like our kind of town so we took their advice and caught a Beach Rides van to St. Petersburg, FL (15 minutes from Clearwater).  We paid a flat fee of $25.00 since it was out of the beach zone and enjoyed seeing the following:
We loved our time in St. Petersburg and will definately plan on heading back  when we have more time (smile).
Our final day at the resort was spent packing up, spending time on the beach for a last walk and eating out at Crabby Bills. Â Here is a picture of Clearwater from the balcony of our City View suite:
I’m that girl who happens to love the change of seasons that living in New England affords me…However, if April showers are supposed to bring May flowers, what do May showers bring?!?
That’s the $64,000 question in Connecticut today as we head into the 2nd week of May and those pesky intermittent Aprilshowers trail right behind us…
Why do I care?  Well for one I simply cannot seem to decide what to wear to work anymore – should I wear dark clothes to reflect the dim and gloomy skies or light clothes in anticipation of  brighter days?
And this iffy weather is even affecting down time on the weekends: Â our grass is growing like wildfire so our lawnmower service cannot keep up!
But being the eternal optimist that I am, I try real hard not to take it too seriously, i.e., let it affect my mood but sometimes I’m not successful…
So here’s the glass half-full point of view:  Have you taken a look outside lately?!?  All of that icky persistent rain this past month and a half has turned the bare brown ugliness of Winter into a beautiful Green paradise.
And wait, there’s more:  Summer!  One of my fave seasons is only about 6 weeks away.  I have a lot to look forward to…
Early sunrises and late sunsets…
Carefree Summer work clothes with open-toed sandalsÂ
Weekend Golf lessons with my female Golf mates
And a promise to not complain when it’s too hot outside (smile).
So glad I finally got off my duff last summer and signed up for golf lessons for women (smile).
Here’s what happened: I was leafing through the Hamden/North Haven Adult Ed catalog when I happened upon a course listing in the Enrichment Class section called Golf Fore Women 101. It felt serendipitious as I have been talking about taking golf lessons for what felt like ages so I promptly called to register for the Saturday morning 5-week session.
Then I called my girlfriend and broadcast industry colleague Ginger, who, like me, owned her own set of golf clubs but still did not know how to play. Ginger was grateful that I thought of her and I felt lucky to know her (smile).
The reason why I felt so lucky was because I actually bought my own set of golf clubs 11 years ago but for some reason or another, nothing ever seemed to come together for me in terms of taking golf lessons or being consistent about actually wanting to play. Here’s the rundown:
2007
I purchased my own set of “lady” golf clubs (down to the shoes, hat, gloves, pink golf balls, etc.) and although I initially had good intentions, this set mostly sat in my garage collecting dust…
2011/2012/2013/2014
Since by now I stillhad not learned how to play, I spent multiple years volunteering as a “driver” at our News 8 company golf event at Yale delivering beverages and snacks to the “players.”
2015
I finally took two private lessons (a gift from my bf) at Lyman Golf Center in Middlefield, CT with John Wilson, who came highly recommended from a former News 8 co-worker and female golfer.
At the annual Travelers Tournament in Cromwell, CT (one of my fave live golfing events and spectator sports)
2018
By now I was so desperate I even fake caddied for my boyfriend last Summer while he enjoyed ‘the game’ (smile).
And it was right after this fake caddy momentwhen I happened upon the Enrichment course listing in the Hamden/North Haven Adult Ed catalog…
Golf Fore Women 101
The Saturday morning Fall classes I registered for ran from September 15 – October 13 (10am -11am) and consisted of about 10 women. Our first session was mostly in the classroom where we talked about ourselves and what brought us there and then learned about Golf from a theoretical perspective.
Let me tell you, there is a lot to learn here. Golf is truly a game of and for life… Throughout our introductory 5-week course Marissa Kulig Crow, our LPGA Coach and Club Professional, patiently taught us the following:
Essentials – equipment selection and approprate golf attire