A Quick Dash to Nash

I had a truly memorable Memorial Day weekend this past May of 2023.  The goal was to visit my big sister Casandra who moved to Nashville almost a year ago.  And of course to see her daughter MoNa, her son-in-law Kevia and their rambunctious 6 year old son, Harlem.

 

Memorial Day is not called the “unofficial start to Summer” for nothing.  It seems as if everybody and their grandmother (smile) was driving that weekend on the road, flying in the air, or using some mode of public transportation during this much anticipated prelude to Summer.

 

What usually happens when we now adult Hollis children go to a new place or space to visit family, is we try and incorporate at least one African American cultural activity into the trip.

 

In this case it was easy, almost too easy:  a trip to the National Museum of African American Music or NMAAM as it is referred to.   NMAAM is conveniently located in downtown Nashville so we did not have to travel far as my sister Casandra lives only about 15 to 20 minutes outside the city limits.

 

Parking the car in a garage was pretty steep ($45) and you really have no choice if you drive as there is very little if any available street parking downtown.

 

The ticket prices to the museum (which we ordered online on the NMAAM website the night before) were $24.95 for Adults (me) and $18.75 for Senior Citizens (Casandra).  Just so you are aware, the rest of the ticket prices are as follows:  $18.75 for Students and Teachers with ID, Military and Senior Citizens; $13.50 for Museum Guests aged 7 to 17 and Free for Visitors 6 years of age and under.

 

 

While there, for just $5.00 more you will receive a NMAAM wristband which allows you to  download multiple genres of music (up to 500 songs!) to create your own music playlist as you touch and explore your way throughout the museum.  This music link is sent to your email address a week or so later for you to  download to your Apple or Spotify account.  Very cool!

 

NMAAM wristband

 

Incidentally, NMAAM also offers visitors an annual membership with lots of special perks and education and programs for groups and special outings.

 

The NMAAM brochure tells you it takes 90 minutes to explore the museum (as it features timed admission) but it took me and Casandra 3 hours as there is so much to see and do!  By the way, there is no extra charge if it takes you longer than the 90 minutes (smile).

 

At the entranceway to the National Museum of African American Music

 

The museum is broken up into 6 rooms which each feature a different genre of music and its history.

 

Casandra descending the staircase

 

It is fascinating to discover just how intertwined the music is with the historical happenings of each era.

 

 

The Roots Theater focuses on African American history and its music.

 

Wade in the Water (one of my personal favs) showcases how gospel music and its rich history has more than influenced religious music.  This gallery featured an interactive room where me and Casandra went in, donned the requisite church choir robes and stood in front of the Green Screen so we could sing along with the Gospel Choir.  The ending was sweet as we were both magically inserted into the Gospel Choir (smile).  We saved this download to our NMAAM wrist band so we could view it later on at home.

 

An African American Gospel Choir

 

Crossroads chronicles the time in the Deep South (and after slavery) when work songs and field songs (i.e., the Blues) was prevalent.

 

Lots of ‘photo ops’ throughout the museum

 

A Love Supreme highlights the Jazz era in African American music and culture.

 

Louis Armstrong an African American Trumpeter and pioneer in Jazz music

 

One Nation Under A Groove records the time following World War I with the emergence of Rhythm and Blues…

 

Reminiscent of George Clinton…

 

The Message clearly narrates Hip Hop and Rap music and how it influenced (and continues to influence) pop culture in and around the World…this room featured a interactive DJ booth where we were able to select from one of 3 different rappers and then rap along with them.  Not surprisingly, the line to this interactive feature stayed long (smile).

 

Tupac Shakur, an influential and widely known and recognized African American rapper

 

Rivers of Rhythm featured the touch panels (found on the large glass tables)  throughout the NMAAM theater which allow the user to touch their way into an artist’s songs and biographies.  We downloaded lots of music to our NMAAM wristbands from these touch panels.  Incidentally every half hour or so a concert  played on the interactive walls (that day we jammed to the sounds of Prince, Tina Turner, and James Brown).

 

And just before you leave the museum, you will notice an art gallery featuring the works of very talented community artists.

 

 

There- also is a museum store called Amplify which sells beautiful NMAAM memorabilia at reasonable prices.

 

 

By the way, Casandra and I had the pleasure of bumping into Left Eye Lopez’s little sister Reigndrop who was at the museum that day creating a documentary  about her late sister Left Eye Lopez.  Here she is entertaining the lobby crowd in her own eclectic way.

 

Reigndrop is cool and talented too!

 

Also while in the lobby we could not help but notice the tribute to the legendary Tina Turner – who recently passed – you can’t showcase black music without including Miss Tina…may she Rest in Peace…

 

 

All in all, we had the best time eva and I would highly recommend this museum to anyone visiting the city of Nashville (or Nash as it is called).

 

Fun Fact:  I’ll never forget my big sister Casandra telling me years ago that even if we were not sisters, I would definitely be someone that she would want to be friends with.  I feel the same…

 

My Current Situation Part IV

The season of Fall happened about 3 weeks ago in the state of Connecticut and with it comes decreasing temperatures, lots of fallen leaves on the ground, dark skies and squirrels running amok.   Soon I will be packing up my golf clubs in advance of the next season:  Winter.  But for now I am still managing to hit golf balls despite the broken twigs, crispy leaves and tree debris.

 

 

Fall for me also means it’s time to head back to the kitchen.  Anyone who knows me knows cooking is not my thing however I do enjoy cooking when Autumn arrives…

 

 

We have also finally entered Phase 3 in the state of Connecticut which means that restaurants can serve folks indoors at 75% instead of 50%  capacity…

 

 

personal services, hair salons, barber shops and nail salons can also operate at 75% percent capacity, indoor performing art venues at 50% capacity, and churches and other places of worship can have 50% capacity, capped at 200 people.  All, of course, with masks and social distancing…

 

 

Working hybrid continues for me and my colleagues on the News 8 sales team.  What this means is we are split into 2 teams and half the team works from the office on one day and the other half of the team works from the office on the following day.  The managers all go into the office each and every day.  It has been like this since mid-March when Covid 19 totally changed our world.

 

On every other day

 

The Presidential election is quite literally right around the corner so I encourage everyone to exercise their right to vote.   It’s more critical now more than ever…

 

 

Getting my game on: GFW 201 & 301

Yikes,  it is hard to believe that it’s November already and 2019 is coming to a close.  I feel like this year flew by and the top 3 goals I set for myself in the month of January were stabbed at but not completely realized…My Top 3 Goals in the New Year

I do, however, have something I’m particularly proud of this year:  namely improving on my game of Golf.

Thanks to the Lyman Orchards Golf Center I spent the majority of my Summer and more than half of my Fall golfing.   And Summer started late this year in Connecticut  – remember the month of May?!?   I had to count it out for starting play as it was rainy and miserable.   Consequently I did not pick up my clubs until mid-June but then I made up for it by playing until the last weekend of October.

I learned a lot this year both on the course and off.   I had previously taken Golf Fore Women 101 (last September 2018) so some of what I learned this year felt like a refresher course but in a good way Ready Fore Golf

However, the majority of what I learned I took and turned into real application on the course.   And I had the added benefit of being taught and supervised by the award-winning LPGA Class A Teaching Professional Marissa Kulig Crow as well as her 2 trusty teammates Dan Hannibal and Andra Frappier…

 

LPGA Class A Teaching Professional Marissa Kulig Crow (in the purple Calloway Golf hat)

 

PGA Associate Teaching Professional Dan Hannibal

 

PGA Apprentice Teaching Professional Andra Frappier (in the lime green golf shirt and glasses)

 

June

 

Golf Fore Women 201 with LPGA Class A Teaching Professional Marissa Kulig Crow – club selection

 

Trying out my swing on the putting green

 

Getting good use out of my club on the course, as opposed to the driving range

 

July

 

Golf Fore Women 201 with Marissa Kulig Crow in black

 

Golf Fore Women 201 – learning how to stand correctly

 

It was a hotttttt one on the Apple 9 today!  I’ll never forget this day:  Saturday, July 20th!

 

Golf fore Women 201 – Marissa’s in black

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

Golf fore Women 201 – another fun day with my new lady golf friends

 

Ending the day with my old (starter) set of clubs

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

August

 

Golf fore Women 301 –  The Apple 9 course is our classroom now (smile).

 

Coincidentally my workplace, News 8, held a client golf appreciation day at Lyman’s Player Course which I had the distinct pleasure of playing in (as opposed to volunteering to drive the bar cart)

 

I didn’t only play at Lyman this Summer – me and my bf managed to squeeze in 9 holes at Sleeping Giant in Hamden the last Saturday in August

 

September

 

Practice with a Pro x 2  with Dan Hannibal

 

Make-up session with Marissa Kulig Crow

 

Happy Surprise on the Apple 9: me and my bf (a 2some) had the pleasure of being matched up as a 4some with this young lady and her husband on a crowded Sunday in late September – we played a good match and made some new friends

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

October

 

Player Course this time with my new lady golf friend Mary Ann, one of The Fab 4 (smile)

 

The Fab 4 now at Player Course honing our skills – on an overcast and rainy day

 

The Fab 4 at Player Course cutting up (smile)

 

The Fab 4 at Player Course  – photo shoot (smile)

 

On the  Apple 9 – the very last day of the season for me

 

Margot me and Jill on the Apple 9,  my very last day of Golf for the season- it was sunny but quite chilly…

 

Sooooo…I finally broke down at the end of October and invested in some new clubs.  And I actually played with them the last 2 weekends of the month.  I must admit that my game has improved with my new set of clubs (smile).   Not trying to rush time but I sure can’t wait ’till next Summer (double smile).

 

Love my burgundy and gray Ping Golf clubs

 

 

 

 

Fun Things to do in Connecticut – Part III

There’s lots to do in the state of Connecticut during the Summer, especially when the weather is cooperating.  It is truly ‘hotter than July’ so there is really no need to travel anywhere, we have sun filled days and long nights right here in CT (smile).

Here is a short list of annual events that occur in the Summer months and involve food, fun, music, festivities, entertainment and more!  The good news is that most are free to attend and some even offer free parking.

 

 

A Taste of Mystic (New London County)

This annual event takes place at the Olde Mistick Village (OMV) around the second weekend in June (Friday/Saturday/Sunday) and involves food and drinks, live bands, loads of entertainment, merchant specials and more!

 

Decisions…Decisions…

 

Admission is free (parking is also free).  To participate in The Taste you buy sleeves of tickets for $1.00 each to be exchanged for food and drinks from the vendors.

 

Joyce of OMV being interviewed by Meteorologist Joe Furey of News 8

 

And the OMV Merchants offer money-saving specials as well!

 

OMV/Munson’s Chocolates, OMV/Sticky Situations and OMV/Jealous Monk

 

New Haven Music on the Green (New Haven County)

In New Haven the unofficial start to Summer kicks off with Music on the Green!

 

Ryan Kristafer and Teresa DuFour from CT Style along with Lifestyle Expert Jo Jo Pastors and her girlfriend

 

In Summers past we have been entertained (in our VIP seats) by such notable acts as Ronnie Spector,  Debbie Gibson, Taylor Dayne, KC and the Sunshine Band and En Vogue, just to name a few.

 

Ryan Kristafer of CT Style getting down with the ladies from En Vogue!

 

And this year we had the pleasure of seeing Lisa Lisa on Saturday 7/20/19 and Morris Day on Saturday 7/29/19!

 

Lisa Lisa and her entourage
Morris Day and The Time put on a phenomenal performance!
Morris Day – 61 years young (smile)

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

The Hamden Free Summer Concert Series (New Haven County)

Beginning late June on Friday nights at 6pm at the Hamden Town Center Park, live bands play to diverse crowds made up of singles, couples, families, dogs and more!  This free annual outdoor event truly features something for everyone.  There’s no VIP but at the same time there is truly not a bad seat in the house.  And if you come hungry you can feast off of the nearby food trucks or better yet, pack your own picnic complete with adult beverages.  Bring your lawn chairs and blankets and make a space on the lawn as happy people jam to the music.

 

Plenty of room at the Hamden Summer Free Concert Series. Lines galore at the delicious and ethnically diverse food trucks!

 

This year (2019) on Week 4 The Wailers, featuring Julian Junior Marvin, delighted the Friday night crowd.

 

The Wailers featuring Julian Junior Marvin

 

The Greater Hartford Festival of Jazz (Hartford County)

Jazz is alive and well outdoors at Bushnell Park in Hartford!  This free annual event takes place over an entire weekend (Friday/Saturday/Sunday) in mid July.   There are food and retail clothing vendors and folks completely covering the Bushnell park lawn with their blankets, lawn chairs, coolers and sun umbrellas.  Big screen TVs on both sides of the stage ensure that everyone gets a decent view.

 

There’s no need for a VIP as the big TV screens ensure that everyone gets a decent view of the performers

 

The line-up of jazz musicians is awesome and the party lasts all day long and well into the night.

 

Could not help but enjoy the beautiful weather, good company and awesome jazz performers

 

Although this is a free event donations are gladly accepted…

 

 

New London Sailfest (New London County)

This coastal city comes alive during the Summer with its signature event, the New London Sailfest!

July is the month and the entire mid month weekend (Friday/Saturday/Sunday) offers something for all family members.

 

From Tall Ships to face painting to patriotic costumes, there’s something for everyone

 

Speaking of which, there are amusement park rides, face painting, delicious food options plus sailboat and people watching.

 

The food…the rides…the atmosphere…

 

So that’s my short list of fun things to do during Summers in Connecticut – enjoy!

Ready Fore Golf

So glad I finally got off my duff last summer and signed up for golf lessons for women (smile).

Here’s what happened:  I was leafing through the Hamden/North Haven Adult Ed catalog when I happened upon a course listing in the Enrichment Class section called Golf Fore Women 101.   It felt serendipitious as I have been talking about taking golf lessons for what felt like ages so I promptly called to register for the Saturday morning 5-week session.

Then I called my girlfriend and broadcast industry colleague Ginger, who, like me, owned her own set of golf clubs but still did not know how to play.  Ginger was grateful that I thought of her and I felt lucky to know her (smile).

 

Me and Ginger

 

The reason why I felt so lucky was because I actually bought my own set of golf clubs 11 years ago but for some reason or another, nothing ever seemed to come together for me in terms of taking golf lessons or being consistent about actually wanting to play.  Here’s the rundown:

 

2007

I purchased my own set of “lady” golf clubs (down to the shoes, hat, gloves, pink golf balls, etc.) and although I initially had good intentions, this set mostly sat in my garage collecting dust…

 

My set of lady golf clubs

 

2011/2012/2013/2014

Since by now I still had not learned how to play, I spent multiple years volunteering as a “driver” at our News 8 company golf event at Yale delivering beverages and snacks to the “players.”

 

Driving the golf cart stocked with beverages and snacks on Yale’s golf course

 

2015

I finally took two private lessons (a gift from my bf) at Lyman Golf Center in Middlefield, CT with John Wilson, who came highly recommended from a former News 8 co-worker and female golfer.

 

Lyman Golf Center – this is  3 years ago…

 

After my two lessons with John,  I wrote a blog post about my experience in The View from Lajeune:   Taking fun seriously…my very first golf lesson

 

2016/2017

At the annual Travelers Tournament in Cromwell, CT (one of my fave live golfing events and spectator sports)

 

Always a good time for spectators at the Travelers Tourney

 

2018

By now I was so desperate I even fake caddied for my boyfriend last Summer while he enjoyed ‘the game’ (smile).

 

‘Fake’ caddying for my man

 

And it was right after this fake caddy moment when I happened upon the Enrichment course listing in the Hamden/North Haven Adult Ed catalog…

 

Golf Fore Women 101

The Saturday morning Fall classes I registered for ran from September 15 – October 13 (10am -11am) and consisted of about 10 women.  Our first session was mostly in the classroom where we talked about ourselves and what brought us there and then learned about Golf from a theoretical perspective.

 

My Saturday morning classmates – I’m gonna miss these ladies

 

Let me tell you, there is a lot to learn here.  Golf  is truly a game of and for life… Throughout our introductory 5-week course Marissa Kulig Crow, our LPGA Coach and Club Professional, patiently taught us the following:

 

  • Essentials – equipment selection and approprate golf attire
  • Golf Clubs
  • Golf  Course Layout
  • Golf Terms
  • Golf Scores
  • Forms of Golf Games
  • Golf Shots
  • Networking
  • Stretching and Yoga
  • Golf Etiquette 101

 

Lesson 1 –  The Driving Range

 

My first time on the Driving range in a long while and I’m a little rusty…

 

Lesson 2 – The Full Swing

 

The full swing – one of my personal favorites

 

Lesson 3 – Chipping/Pitching/Sand

 

Tubing – catching golf balls on the Green with a long tube.  By the way, Chipping/Pitching/Sand Wedge was probably one of the most difficult lessons

 

Lesson 4 –  On the Putting Green

 

This is where I need the most practice – it’s called ‘the short game’

 

Lesson 5 – The Apple 9 Hole course 

 

It felt funny golfing on this 9 hole course after spending time practicing on the driving range and putting green.  We played 3 holes during our last lesson.  I’m soooo  looking forward to next Summer and Fall where I can start perfecting my game (smile).

 

Marissa Kulig Crow, our LPGA Coach and Club Professional and yours truly on the Apple 9 Golf course