I had the best time eva in Brooklyn, New York on Thursday September 30th, 2026! I am a Media Sales Professional for local ABC TV affiliate WTNH News 8 in New Haven, CT. All that to say it’s not uncommon to receive tickets/vouchers to a fancy restaurant, concert venue, live theater or show to treat our VIP advertising clients. But this gift was HUGE! Jimmy is the man! However he normally tapes his shows from his studios in Los Angeles, California…But every now and then he comes back home to Brooklyn, NY to tape live shows for the week at Brooklyn Academy of Music (BAM). And my colleague Douglas Hall and I were the lucky ones on the sales team to be gifted Jimmy Kimmel LIVE in Brooklyn, NY tickets with round trip transportation (courtesy of Absolute Transportation) from WTNH TV News 8 to BAM – Brooklyn Academy of Music for ourselves and our respective clients.
I invited my VIP advertising client Elaine Sein, the Marketing Director of ACES (Area Cooperative Educational Services) who met me at News 8 at 1030am on Thursday morning in advance of our 11am pick-up. Elaine and I walked around the tv station and then took selfies in the Promotions area before heading out to the parking lot to meet up with my Sales department colleague Douglas Hall and his VIP advertising client Michael Donkor, owner of Celebrity Homemakers & Companions LLC.
Taking selfies in the Promotions area of WTNH News 8
Fun selfie
The SUV car ride to Brooklyn, NY was painless. Having our own driver (in our case Tariq from Absolute Transportation) really made our day that much more pleasant. We could kick back and relax and enjoy conversation with each other while our driver had to deal with the crazy, unhinged drivers on the Connecticut and New York highways and byways. Tariq took it all in stride though. He navigated those roads like he had been doing it for a minute (smile). Great personality too. He made our trip memorable in the best way.
Our first planned stop was lunch at Cafe PAULETTE in Brooklyn, NY (only 7 minutes from the theater). I chose Cafe PAULETTE (from the list of preferred vendors on BAM’s website) because first of all the french food sounded truly delish and secondly it was projected to be 70 degrees on Thursday and I have a thing for outdoor bistros. We ordered our lunch and drinks at about 1pmish and waited outdoors at our table for a long while as there was only one waitress and one bartender on duty. When the food finally arrived it was well worth the wait because it was delish! I ordered a veggie burger with cheddar cheese, french fries and a side salad. And I washed it all down with a ginger ale.
Michael, Doug, Elaine and me at Cafe PAULETTE
My delish veggie burger with tons of french fries and a side salad – muah!
After lunch Tariq drove us to BAM where we got registered for the VIP line – registration included checking our names with staff and receiving the blue JKL bands on our wrist. We were early – it was about 330pm at this point and the doors to the theater were not opening until after 5pm so we made small talk and people watched. Did I mention that Brooklyn is the bomb! I love the vibe – it’s lit and the people all look to be going somewhere important. What a fun town – definitely coming back with my boo. Brooklyn is the ‘new Manhattan’ in my view and I absolutely loved Fort Greene and those beautiful brownstones, what a wonderful and quaint neighborhood.
VIP access bracelet
VIP line
Elaine repping for ACES
The BAM (Brooklyn Academy of Music) building where Jimmy Kimmel LIVE in Brooklyn is taped is in the Peter Sharp Building and it features the historic 2,109 seat Howard Gilman Opera House, the Lepercq Space and the BAMcafe. The BAMcafe was our next stop. This large, colorful, flamboyant room immediately reminded me of the play Moulin Rouge because everything was Red, Red, and Red (smile). There was plenty of finger food stations, dessert stations and drink stations. There were also 2 service bars. I don’t drink anymore so I had Saratoga water and Bigelow Tea (smile). I was still full from lunch so I did not have any of the appetizers or the desserts. The place was jam packed. We were lucky to find a high table with 4 chairs when we walked in. There was an old school DJ playing classic hits from back in the day. Like us, there were plenty of other VIPs enjoying Jimmy Kimmel’s hospitality including his own parents, his former neighbors, people from Brooklyn, NY and even a dear old friend he knew from Kindergarten (smile).
The BAMcafe is groovy for sure (smile)
The gang’s all here!
Elaine checking out the delish finger foods
Finally showtime!
Since were already upstairs in BAMcafe we did not have to travel far to our seats which were in the Mezzanine section of the theater. Being high up allowed us to view the big screens (one on each side) as well as look down on Jimmy Kimmel and his guests. Taping was from 530pm to 7pm. It felt late but in reality it was dinnertime for most folks (smile).
The interior of the theater (former Opera House) is stunningly beautiful!
Big screen TV and Jimmy Kimmel’s excellent house band
Elaine and I in our seats watching the process unfold
As expected once she show started we could not take pictures but we were delighted by the guests that evening – first of all Jimmy Kimmel’s sidekick Guillermo who made it back to New York from Los Angeles where he has been appearing as a guest dancer on Monday and Tuesday nights on Dancing with the Stars – Guillermo’s a hoot in person (smile). The legendary actor Robert DeNiro, who played a baseball bat carrying crooked head of the FCC. The always phenomenal Billy Crystal, who spoke about his poignant new play which centers on the loss of his and his neighbors homes in the horrific Pacific Palisades fires on January 7, 2025. Acting great and charismatic Mahershala Ali who I remembered from his two Oscar winning performances in Moonlight and Green Book and who was promoting his new movie, a thriller called Your Mother Your Mother Your Mother. The musical act was supposed to De La Soul but for some reason or another they canceled and were replaced at the last minute by singer songwriter Audrey Hobert. Between the set changes, the guest interviews, the pictures that Jimmy Kimmel took with the guests and the house band selections, the taping took 90 minutes. After the taping we went back to BAMcafe for more appetizers and drinks and then I texted Tariq to come and pick us up as we were ready to go. Jimmy did not appear in the BAMCafe, I pulled his friend from Kindergarten who told me Jimmy Kimmel had another engagement but that he was a genuine person who really cared about people.
My night with Jimmy was a memorable evening indeed. One that I will hold high in my memory bank.
P,S. If you check on Jimmy Kimmel’s website for the 9-30-2026 show, you will catch me, Elaine, Douglas and Michael on TV (smile).
Our 14th year love anniversary or “loveaversary” as my co-worker/friend Lisa coined it, occurs on the 8th of March every year. We (me and James) decided to celebrate in Arizona this time around so we would literally be situated in a desert, clearly in love, and seeking a new experience.
We chose Phoenix as our city of destination not just because its the capitol of the state of Arizona, but also its largest city, boasting just over 1.6 million residents! And we were eagerly looking forward to the sunny temps all week long, outdoor recreational options, delish Southwestern/Mexican cuisine and a championship class golf course located right at the Hilton Phoenix Tapatio Cliffs Resort.
Day 1
Travel Day – Sunday – Woke up in Connecticut before the crack of dawn (3am) to catch our early morning (6:05am) flight out of Bradley International Airport which, by the way, is looking mighty fine these days. I’m truly loving all the building upgrades and seeing bits and pieces of what’s to come (smile).
After a 3-hour layover at our first stop in Chicago, not including the 1-hour long wait on the airplane for the de-ciing of the aircraft’s wings, we were finally on our way. My legs felt like jelly 3 hours later as we walked off the airplane and into the Phoenix Sky Harbor International Airport. We had quite literally been traveling all day long so we were barking at each other and ‘hangry’ as Hell (smile). The number one place we looked for after we retrieved our bags and picked up our rental car was somewhere to eat. We Googled “American Restaurants near me” and found a place that was not too far away. It was called Culinary Dropout and it was super delish! I was feeling very healthy so I quickly inhaled a Butternut Squash and Kale bowl with grilled chicken.
We drove around Phoenix for a while just to get a feel for things and found a Super Walmart so it was there that we picked up enough bottled waters and snacks to last us for the week.
Finally at the resort we checked in and then drove to Building 24 which was waaaay at the top of a hill. I immediately unpacked my luggage because I’m anal like that (smile), took a shower and went to bed – my 20 hour day (and now officially on Mountain time) had finally come to an end.
Building 24 where we stayed
Day 2 – Resort Day – The Hilton Phoenix Tapatio Cliffs Resort is located just 20 minutes North of downtown and when you pull up in your car to the entrance, you truly feel like you are in a whole ‘nother world. It is no wonder because the property is nestled into the rugged North Mountain Preserve in Phoenix. The hotel grounds are massive and the views are breathtakingly beautiful. Boasting 7 pools – some with hot tubs, a 138-foot water slide, waterfalls, plenty of lounge chairs with big umbrellas at each pool, spas, dining options from the simple to the sublime, hiking trails, 16,000 square feet of conference and meeting space and a championship golf course. We stayed in a King-sized Premium suite that was situated at the top of a hill so between our rental car, which we parked directly in front of our building, and the 24/7 free shuttle service, we were good to go.
mid-sized rental car
convenient shuttle service call button
We deemed Day 2 our Rest and Relaxation day for obvious reasons so after we checked out the workout area, the championship golf course and two different pools, we wound up poolside at The Falls (smile) soaking in the sun.
The Falls was one of our fav pools
I ordered the delish Arugula salad with grilled chicken from Cascades Cafe. By the way, the weather was awesome – 80s with a cool breeze. And the forecast showed the same all week!
Seated at The Falls and getting ready to dig into my Arugula salad with Grilled Chicken
After a while we headed back to our hotel room to sit outside and enjoy the mountain views from our balcony. Then we showered and changed for dinner.
Our hotel room balcony offered up some of the best views of the mountain
That night we chose A Point in Tyme for dinner – I had a flaky fried Cod fish sandwich on a brioche roll with a side salad and ice water with lemon. It was delish!
Yummy!
After dinner the restaurant rang for our ride (shuttle) which showed up 6 minutes later to take us back to the room where we sat outside again on the balcony to enjoy the cool breezes.
Day 3 – ATV/UTV day
This was a tour that we both looked forward to. Arizona Outdoor Fun & Tours was located about 35 minutes from our resort so we purposely left earlier then we would have since we didn’t know what the morning traffic scene in Phoenix was like. We dressed in long pants and long sleeves which their website recommended except we wore sneakers instead of boots. Upon arrival our tour guide asked us for one credit card and both of our state of CT driving licenses and gave us each a face mask and goggles to protect our eyes. Next we all individually sat on folding chairs under a large tent so the staff could explain how to operate the ATVs and UTVs. We chose the UTV as opposed to the ATV so we could ride together in one jeep and because they promised us a longer ride then we would have with the ATVs. By the way, a UTV or Utility Terrain Vehicle rides like a car and is designed to carry anywhere from two to six people. An ATV or All Terrain Vehicle is designed for one person and uses handlebars for hard steering.
This is our UTV – Utility Terrain Vehicle
Not surprisingly about 4 or 5 young ladies (maybe in their early 20s) showed up at the tour like they were dressed for a paid Social Media event. They had on these teeny tight outfits and wore inappropriate footwear. I almost felt sorry for them because they chose the ATVs not the UTVs and didn’t know it yet but they were in for a big surprise (smile).
Austin was our Tour Guide. There were about 3 different UTVs groups going out when we left which each had their own Tour Guide. We rode directly behind Austin which was good because in my mind there was less dust to catch (smile). And Austin was the consummate Tour Guide, patient, stopping for breaks if we needed them or just to tell us a story about a particular animal (donkey) or type of terrain. And he always made sure that no one strayed.
Fun Fact about Donkeys in Arizona: It is illegal for a donkey to sleep in a bathtub originating from a donkey that floated away in a bathtub during a 1920s flood (smile).
It was a long, winding and dusty trail and quite honestly, I don’t know how Austin navigated it, as there are really no markers in the ground or trees to make it easy to remember. He said he had been working at Outdoor Fun Adventures for almost 4 years and enjoyed taking people out for the time of their lives. He also mentioned how the tour guides relied on tips because the pay (with no benefits) was a lot less than it would be at say, a 9 to 5 job.
Ready for the dusty ride of our lives (smile)
We were UTVing for 2 hours so when we returned there was dust everywhere – all over our shoes, our hair, our clothes. So much so that I could not wait to get back to our hotel room to shower. But first we stopped at Cascades Cafe on the resort for my fav Arugula salad with Grilled Chicken so I would not be “hangry” for our anniversary dinner at 730pm that evening.
The restaurant we chose to spend our 14th year love anniversary was literally up the hill from our building so even though we could walk, we decided to take a shuttle instead so I wouldn’t be walking up the hill in high heels (smile). A Different Pointe of View (“American Cuisine with European Influences”) was situated right on top of a mountain so it had killer views and sunsets to die for.
Some diners chose not to eat in the dining room at all as the outdoor deck had plenty of seating and you were right in front of the beautiful sunset. The only downside of eating on the outdoor deck was that you could only order drinks and light apps. We stayed on the outdoor deck for a while as it was a perfect photo opp and then headed inside for our coveted table which featured a window view of the sunset.
photo ops abound on the outdoor deck of Different Pointe of View
Our dinner reservations were for 7pm that night in The Terrace Room of the 3-floors restaurant and we had 4 delicious courses. The weather was perfect, the sunset was beautiful and the service was second to none.
Good choice of a restaurant to celebrate our 14th year loveaversary
Day 4 – Breakfast with Nephew/Driving range
One of my favorite jobs is being an Aunt. I love all of my nieces and nephews and great nieces and great nephews and now grand nieces and grand nephews and they live all over the United States. My 37-year old nephew Jasper lives in Mesa, Arizona which was about 30 minutes away from our resort so I arranged for Jasper to meet us at A Point in Tyme for breakfast. I chose A Point in Tyme because they have a $25 dollar all-you-can-eat buffet as well as the regular breakfast menu. Jasper and I ate from the regular menu and James chose the buffet. Jasper and I had a wonderful time catching up on life before James arrived especially since he and his girlfriend had a beautiful baby boy a few weeks ago. We were all at the restaurant for a good 2 hours before we had to say our goodbyes.
My handsome nephew Jasper who I miss already
After Jasper left, James and I headed right next door to Lookout Mountain Golf Course to get in some practice shots as we were booked for a 3pm tee time the very next day.
We had a light snack after our practice session since we made reservations for an early 530pm dinner that evening at Restaurant Progress – a place that my gym friend Penthy’s son Scott recommended. As it turns out, Scott and his wife live in Phoenix and know the restaurant scene pretty well. Penthy texted me a long list of places Scott provided – the list included where to eat for breakfast, lunch and dinner but between the delish resort restaurants and the places nearby our planned outdoor tours and activities, Restaurant Progress was the only place from the list we had time to try out.
Restaurant Progress (a New American Restaurant) was a short 20 minute drive from our hotel. James and I decided to take our knowledgeable waiter’s recommendation on what to order (small world – our waiter was also our shuttle driver at the resort from the night before) “Garrett” told us he has to work 4 jobs so he can afford his own apartment in Phoenix!
You might not be able to tell but I am stuffed in this picture as we were one course away from dessert (smile)
At Garrett’s recommendation we ordered the 5-course Chef’s Pick where the Chef prepared us 2 different dishes each course over the 5 courses so we could swap them out between each other and therefore sample the most variety of dishes. We were sooooo stuffed by the time we got to the last course (dessert) but somehow managed to fit more food in our tummies (smile).
9 of the 10 courses from Chef’s Pick that we were served – can’t fit number 10 in this collage
Day 5 – Rainbow Ryders Hot Air Balloon Ride Day
Another early morning start to our day – up at 4am so we could make the check in time of 545am from the meeting point which was about 30 yo 35 minutes from our hotel resort. This experience and tour was completely new to both of us. I have to admit that I did not feel nervous at all. Even after we signed our lives away (waivers) and they packed us all in multiple vans to head to the destination. Each group had it own pilot as well as 2 staff members. The 3 men collectively unfolded and used various equipment to inflate the balloon. It was amazing to watch. And it took a minute. I saw a huge basket nearby and wondered how all 10 of us in the group were going to fit but somehow we did. I remember a question on the waiver pertaining to our weight in pounds and now I understand why they asked. The basket was bigger on the inside than it looked on the outside. And the actual ride was peaceful and serene. It was very early in the morning so the dress code was casual wear with a jacket since it’s cold (55 degrees or less) in Phoenix that early in the morning. I was happy I dressed for the date because the wind was pretty strong and the air was chilly. Lucky for us our Pilot kept firing up our balloon to make it go higher as we benefited from the blasts of heat.
An experience like no other – I would absolutely recommend it – just don’t look down!
While up in the sky we looked down at multiple housing developments with swimming pools, miniature cars, lots and lots of empty land lots and plenty of mountains. We were floating around for about an hour before we started to head back to the ground. The actual landing was rough like an airplane’s landing but without the fear factor. Climbing out of the basket was definitely one for the books – Ha!
Back on the ground
After we all settled our Pilot poured us a glass of Champagne and/or Juice and made a short toast to another successful journey.
The hot air balloon ride’s entire experience made us hungry so we stopped in Glendale, AZ for breakfast at a placed called Biscuits Cafe. We figured you can’t go wrong with that name. I was wrong. I ordered the Biscuit Breakfast Sandwich (Eggs/Sausage/Cheese) with Hash Browns and a Coffee. When the breakfast arrived I asked our waitress (once she got back to our table) how come my sandwich was on a roll and not a biscuit which I expected. She said it’s called Biscuit Breakfast Sandwich because it is named after the restaurant. Aha! She felt bad though and brought me a biscuit to swap the roll out with but by then I had already ate more than half of the sandwich as I was starving from the excitement of the morning (smile).
Biscuits Cafe in Glendale
Sausage Egg and Cheese Breakfast sandwich with hash browns
I spent about 3 hours poolside with my magazine while James took a nap. We had a 3pm tee time at the much anticipated Lookout Mountain Golf course. We borrowed a set of clubs from the resort and they gifted us each our own signature set of golf balls – 6 in all so I knew I had to make as many of my shots as possible (smile).
Our borrowed sets of clubs
our golf cart
As all golf clubs do, we were matched up with 2 solo golfers (one named Christian who with his 2 brothers was staying on the same resort as us and the other named Jorge’ who actually lived in Phoenix and had enjoyed playing this course multiple times).
L to R – Me, James, Jorge’ and Christian – Jorge was a life saver because he knew the course well and therefore saved us a lot of lost balls
We set out for a sunny and beautiful afternoon of golf with our new golf friends.
This picture was taken right before sunset when the weather had turned cold and blustery
James and I played 14 holes before it got too cold for me (it was unusually windy that afternoon which caused the air to become cold). It was also starting to become dark as sunset was near. Christian and Jorge’ were happy to continue golfing but between the impending sunset and the now fierce winds I wanted to get back to our hotel to warm up. We were starving though so we ate first right next door at the clubhouse – I had blackened shrimp tacos, chips and salsa. The food was delish. That night we packed our clothes as (sigh) we were leaving the next day for Connecticut.
My last delicious meal at the clubhouse – Blackened Shrimp tacos with salsa and tortilla chips
Day 6 – Travel Back to Connecticut Day
We got up at 730am, ate a light breakfast, checked out of the resort and then headed to the rental car facility which was not too far from the airport to drop off our car. Then we took the sky train to the airport. Our flight from Phoenix to Denver was delayed by 1 hour which ended up turning into 2 hours and then we discovered that our next flight, where we already had a long 3 hour layover, was now going to be delayed for another 2 and a half hours! By the time we got back to Hartford, Connecticut it was 345am Eastern time. We made it home around 4am so I unpacked (yes I am still that anal girl), showered and slept for 3 hours as I had to get up at 730am for my weekly Saturday morning hair appointment.
Was the trip to the Desert worth it – YES! Will we do it again – YES, but next time we will stay in Sedona or closer to the Grand Canyon for a different kind of experience. #YOLO
My most recent mini vacay was to San Antonio, Texas which is located in South Central Texas with a population of 1.5 million people. San Antonio is 150 miles from the Mexican border and to say the Tex Mex influence is strong would simply be an understatement (smile). Why San Antonio? Well, because my fraternal twin nephews, Marcus and Marshall who will be 40 this year, have been living there for well over a decade and up until this point, I had yet to visit them. Their sister and my niece, Dimitrica, who will be 46 this year and resides in North Carolina with her husband and son, arranged to meet me so we could share a hotel room. This was to be a short trip but one where we planned on lots of family fun, bonding and catching up on lost time.
La Fogata with L to R: Marcus, Me, Marshall, Dimitrica
Our very first meal when we arrived was at a restaurant called La Fogata. Dan Fenyn, my sales manager Jocelyn Fenyn’s husband, highly recommended it. Dan was not wrong, not only was the food we ordered delish but the ambience spoke to a highly authentic and true Mexican experience.
Standing in the doorway of La Fogata
My dish at La Fogata – Cheese quesadillas with specially seasoned shrimp and spinach
Canopy by Hilton San Antonio Riverwalk
This is the hotel I booked for our 4 day, 3 night stay. I purposely chose this hotel because it is across the street from the Riverwalk plus it is right in downtown San Antonio where all the restaurants, shops and outdoor activity were located. Plus we needed a place that we could easily walk to and from. It’s amazing what you can do in a 4-day weekend (Friday – Monday) trip when you travel from another coast and are given an extra hour to work with (smile).
Canopy by Hilton San Antonio RiverwalkClean room, comfy beds, nice showers and strong coffee
Modes of transportation
We noticed there were may different modes of transportation for those people who were not driving. Scooter rentals, Electric bike rentals, even Segway rentals lined the downtown streets. I could not help but notice the very large, very loud pick-up trucks flying up and down the downtown streets adding to the traffic congestion.
Electric bikes for rent
Scooters for rent
And I was blown away by the carriage rides populating downtown streets – so many at once and all decorated in different seasonal themes and colors! It seemed like everywhere we turned we would come upon a family or a couple or a group of friends on a horse drawn carriage ride! At nighttime it was super cool to see because the carriage was now brightly lit with different colored lights and music played throughout. I looked at what it cost to take a ride on the horse drawn carriage: $75 dollars for 1 person and $35 dollars for each person thereafter for a 20 minute ride. $100 dollars for 1 person and $50 dollars for each person thereafter for a 30 minute ride. And one child rides free with each paying adult.
From daytime to nighttime, these horse carriage rides suited everyone’s wish lists
The Alamo
Aptly described as an “18th century Spanish mission preserved as a museum.” We could not leave San Antonio without at least visiting The Alamo. It was just as I expected…
The Alamo
The Canopy hotel restaurants
Another reason me and Dimitrica enjoyed staying at the Canopy was because you did not have to leave the hotel for good breakfast food. We ate hearty breakfasts every morning at Domingo Restaurante and for nighttime mocktails, the rooftop deck at Otro was the place to hang out and relax after a fun-filled busy day.
Domingo Restaurante by day
Texas sized bowls of oatmeal for breakfast at Domingo!
Otro on the rooftop at night for mocktails and apps
The Riverwalk
We discovered the San Antonio Riverwalk on our second day. It had become a source of conversation to me by so many people the very second I mentioned I was visiting family in San Antonio. The Riverwalk is just like it sounds. It’s a miles-long pedestrian walkway with a river running through it. It is truly underground so you have to get to it by taking steps down from the street. The river is surrounded by restaurants, cafes, bistros, shops, retail clothing stores, boutique hotels and the like. Every time we walked down the steps to the Riverwalk, (for short cuts or to find a new shop) we would see masses of people browsing around, shopping, eating and/or sight seeing.
My niece at the top of the stairs
Me at the top of the walkway from The Riverwalk
Go Rio
While walking around the Riverwalk, we kept seeing river boat cruises filled with tourists passing us by. We were told by the hotel staff that if we decide to take a river cruise we should to catch one at night as it’s cooler in temperature, the boat is well lit and decorated and music is played throughout the promenade. We finally took them up on it on Day 3 of 4 – the 35 minuted guided tour was so fun and festive and the cost was a small $14.00 per person!
Our young and very comedic Go-Rio tour guide kept us in stitches the entire ride!
Passing another passenger-packed Go Rio cruise boat while on our own tour
La Cantera Resort and Spa
We purchased a Resort Day Pass for $65 (Marshall’s brilliant idea) to the La Cantera Resort and Spa. This luxury resort and spa is known for its private villas, fine dining, wellness spas, championship golf and celebrity sightings. By purchasing a Resort Day Pass we were able to have access to the pool side of things. So on day 3 we spent half the day poolside where we enjoyed the infiniti pool, delicious lunch and laying out on lounge chairs. We also took advantage of the hot tub where we met a loud and raucous middle aged man who was pretty accurate at guessing our personality traits (smile). At the lazy river pool we played pool games with floaties and then rode down what were kiddie slides just for Ha Ha’s.
Well maintained Infiniti pool
Pool games, fabulous food and lots of fun
Making memories poolside at La Cantera Resort and Spa
Marshall (my nephew and our unofficial tour guide) told us about an African-American owned bookstore-cafe downtown which collaborated on space with a natural plant based beauty, cosmetic and personal care shop. We were so impressed when we stepped into this cute shop which had a nice collection of goods and a real positive vibe. I enjoyed meeting the owners (who have now become good friends) of both of these shops as they complement each other in the best way. Be sure to check them out if you visit San Antonio as you will not be disappointed.
I had a Deja Vu moment when I met Barbara Thomas the bookstore cafe owner – I can’t explain it – I just felt like that scene had already played out…Enjoyed meeting and chatting with the owner of Pure Aloha. She is a wife, mother, and now small business owner living the dream
Bohanan’s
Bohanan’s (another Marshall pick) was a place Dimitrica and I had walked by during our daily recreational walks throughout downtown. The storefront truly did not do it any justice as when we entered the jazz supper club and restaurant, we were pleasantly surprised by piano bar and the funky vibe. I ordered a mocktail garnished with jalapeño peppers and Marshall and Dee each had a specialty expresso martini drink.
The exterior of Bohanon’s
Mocktails and Cocktails at Bohanon’s Jazz club
Marcus’s family home
My nephew Marcus, his wife Asuka and kids live in a house in the suburbs of San Antonio. His wife was gracious enough to offer up a traditional japanese meal made from scratch. We had the best time at their house that day. It rained for a spell so we stayed inside and ate handmade Sushi and Sashimi and Tofu Salad with sesame seed dressing and a deliciously prepared thinly cut beef ribs and chicken. I ate 2 plates and then understood why Marcus said he does not eat out at restaurants anymore (smile). We also played games with the kids in the game room which featured game chairs for Street Fighters, a basketball net and more.
Family pictures – making memories in San Antonio
This is all homemade Japanese cuisine – courtesy of Marcus’s wife Asuka – can’t blame him for not wanting to eat out anymore (smile)
Historic Market Square
Ironically the evening Dimitrica and I decided to walk to this collection of restaurants and shops in an indoor space, mostly all of the shops were closed. Not too surprising though because it was a Sunday night and it was about 10pm…However the much talked about Mi Tierra Cafe and Bakery was still open which pleased Dimitrica, who was in search of the authentic Mexican Hot Chocolate and a sweet treat to go with it. The lively decor featured live Mexican music, mariachi dancers, a fun atmosphere, costumed staff and instagram-worthy photo backdrops! Oh and Dimitrica said the hot chocolate was delish!
I feel like me and Dimitrica were right inside of a festive carinival!
Mi Tierra is known not just for their delish authentic Mexican cuisine but also for their lively atmosphere
Centro San Antonio
One of the most interesting things I discovered during my quick trip to San Antonio is that there are a group of uniformed ambassadors called Centro San Antonio who are based downtown and work to keep it clean, safe and welcoming for the merchants as well as City visitors. Whether you are looking for directions to someplace or need assistance or information, they are trained to help. As it turns out, there are a number of homeless people in this large City who live downtown so another very important part of Centro’s mission is to offer them a safe place to live, food to eat, clothing to wear, a drug free program if needed and a safe space where they feel welcome. Sixto or “Six,” as he is referred to on the street, was a welcoming source of information to me and my niece while we walked around downtown.
Centro Ambassador Sixto
This Centro Ambassador set-up is for the homeless when they are thirsty and looking for a free bottle of cold water
TV News station
I work in local sales at an ABC affiliated TV news station in New Haven, CT called WTNH News 8 so whenever I travel, I always look to see what the local news looks and feels like. Here is a snapshot of what I saw in in San Antonio:
Good Morning San Antonio
And finally, if you are looking for an affordable place to live and work, my nephews (who both work in IT) tell me that San Antonio fits the bill. Housing is cheaper, jobs are available, ethnic food is plentiful, there’s lots to see and do and the residents are friendly. I am so glad I finally made the trip.
I had a truly memorable Memorial Day weekend this past May of 2023. The goal was to visit my big sister Casandra who moved to Nashville almost a year ago. And of course to see her daughter MoNa, her son-in-law Kevia and their rambunctious 6 year old son, Harlem.
Memorial Day is not called the “unofficial start to Summer” for nothing. It seems as if everybody and their grandmother (smile) was driving that weekend on the road, flying in the air, or using some mode of public transportation during this much anticipated prelude to Summer.
What usually happens when we now adult Hollis children go to a new place or space to visit family, is we try and incorporate at least one African American cultural activity into the trip.
In this case it was easy, almost too easy: a trip to the National Museum of African American Music or NMAAM as it is referred to. NMAAM is conveniently located in downtown Nashville so we did not have to travel far as my sister Casandra lives only about 15 to 20 minutes outside the city limits.
National Museum of African American Museum (NMAAM)
Parking the car in a garage was pretty steep ($45) and you really have no choice if you drive as there is very little if any available street parking downtown.
The ticket prices to the museum (which we ordered online on the NMAAM website the night before) were $24.95 for Adults (me) and $18.75 for Senior Citizens (Casandra). Just so you are aware, the rest of the ticket prices are as follows: $18.75 for Students and Teachers with ID, Military and Senior Citizens; $13.50 for Museum Guests aged 7 to 17 and Free for Visitors 6 years of age and under.
Very easy to navigate
While there, for just $5.00 more you will receive a NMAAM wristband which allows you to download multiple genres of music (up to 500 songs!) to create your own music playlist as you touch and explore your way throughout the museum. This music link is sent to your email address a week or so later for you to download to your Apple or Spotify account. Very cool!
Wearing my wristband and building my playlist – so much music to choose from!
Incidentally, NMAAM also offers visitors an annual membership with lots of special perks and education and programs for groups and special outings.
The NMAAM brochure tells you it takes 90 minutes to explore the museum (as it features timed admission) but it took me and Casandra 3 hours as there is so much to see and do! By the way, there is no extra charge if it takes you longer than the 90 minutes (smile).
One of the many photo opps at NMAAM
The museum is broken up into 6 rooms which each feature a different genre of music and its history.
Hip Hop Nation
It is fascinating to discover just how intertwined the music is with the historical happenings of each era.
The Roots Theater focuses on African American history and its music.
Wade in the Water (one of my personal favs) showcases how gospel music and its rich history has more than influenced religious music. This gallery featured an interactive room where me and Casandra went in, donned the requisite church choir robes and stood in front of the Green Screen so we could sing along with the Gospel Choir. The ending was sweet as we were both magically inserted into the Gospel Choir (smile). We saved this download to our NMAAM wrist band so we could view it later on at home.
Crossroads chronicles the time in the Deep South (and after slavery) when work songs and field songs (i.e., the Blues) was prevalent.
Lots of photo ops throughout the museum
A Love Supreme highlights the Jazz era in African American music and culture.
Louis Armstrong, An African American pioneer in Jazz music and Trumpeteer
One Nation Under A Groove records the time following World War I with the emergence of Rhythm and Blues…
The Message clearly narrates Hip Hop and Rap music and how it influenced (and continues to influence) pop culture in and around the World…this room featured a interactive DJ booth where we were able to select from one of 3 different rappers and then rap along with them. Not surprisingly, the line to this interactive feature stayed long (smile).
Tupac Shakur, an influential and highly regarded and recognized African American Rapper
Rivers of Rhythm featured the touch panels (found on the large glass tables) throughout the NMAAM theater which allow the user to touch their way into an artist’s songs and biographies. We downloaded lots of music to our NMAAM wristbands from these touch panels. Incidentally every half hour or so a concert played on the interactive walls (that day we jammed to the sounds of Prince, Tina Turner, and James Brown).
And just before you leave the museum, you will notice an art gallery featuring the works of very talented community artists.
My sister Casandra in the Art Gallery right before we left
There- also is a museum store called Amplify which sells beautiful NMAAM memorabilia at reasonable prices.
Amplify had lots to offer at different price points
By the way, Casandra and I had the pleasure of bumping into Left Eye Lopez’s little sister Reigndrop who was at the museum that day creating a documentary about her late sister Left Eye Lopez. Here she is entertaining the lobby crowd in her own eclectic way.
Reigndrop is cool and talented too!
Also while in the lobby we could not help but notice the tribute to the legendary Tina Turner – who recently passed – you can’t showcase black music without including Miss Tina…may she Rest in Peace…
Rest in peace Tina Turner
All in all, we had the best time eva and I would highly recommend this museum to anyone visiting the city of Nashville (or Nash as it is called).
Fun Fact: I remember years ago my sister Casandra telling me that if we were not sisters, she would want me as a friend – I feel the same sis (smile).
The season of Fall happened about 3 weeks ago in the state of Connecticut and with it comes decreasing temperatures, lots of fallen leaves on the ground, dark skies and squirrels running amok. Soon I will be packing up my golf clubs in advance of the next season: Winter. But for now I am still managing to hit golf balls despite the broken twigs, crispy leaves and tree debris.
Fall for me also means it’s time to head back to the kitchen. Anyone who knows me knows cooking is not my thing but I do enjoy cooking when Autumn arrives…
We have also finally entered Phase 3 in the state of Connecticut which means that restaurants can serve folks indoors at 75% instead of 50% capacity…
personal services, hair salons, barber shops and nail salons can also operate at 75% percent capacity, indoor performing art venues at 50% capacity, and churches and other places of worship can have 50% capacity, capped at 200 people. All, of course, with masks and social distancing…
Working hybrid continues for me and my colleagues on the News 8 sales team. What this means is we are split into 2 teams and half the team works from the office on one day and the other half of the team works from the office on the following day. The managers all go into the office each and every day. It has been like this since mid-March 2020 when Covid 19 totally rocked our world.
The Presidential election is quite literally right around the corner so I encourage everyone to exercise their right to vote. It’s more critical now more than ever…
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