LJ’s style…where did this conversation come from…oh, now I remember: one of my gfs was talking to me about her 15 year old daughter and how she had so much style for her age. Not just the style of her clothes but also how she wore each piece – well. She made such an impression that she was constantly receiving praise from her teachers, family members, other girls her age, etc…It definitely got me thinking, Growing up Hollis I really didn’t have any style. I was the baby girl of the Hollis family and one of 9. My father Jonie B., my mother Jean, one older brother, one younger brother and 4 sisters. And since I was the “baby girl” of the family, my style was whatever clothes I could fit into that year that had been passed down to me (smile).
To this day, my style will forever be eclectic and sometimes even out of the ordinary. I’m not complaining, merely stating a fact (double smile).
Here are some of the many styles that I possess today…
Breakfast/Lunch/Dinner:
My Caffeinated Wake Up look
My Healthy Lunch Choices look
My fav Sushi Dinner look
Work:
My chit chat at the water cooler look
My Taking Care of Business look
My I’m Feeling Myself look
Church:
My 2 Blessed to be Stressed look
Gym:
My Daily Workout Gear look
Post Work Events:
My i Hope They Like This Arrangement look
My I Hope I Picked Out The Right Outfit For This Event look
Romantic Dates:
My Valentines Day Birthday look
My Dinner and a Movie Date look
Play Dates:
My jumping into the weekend look!My Ski Date look
My pool party look
Vacations:
My On my way to vacay look
Bedtime:
My Hot Bubble Bath before bedtime look
And finally my thanks to God for blessing me with a good life, good family, good friends, good health, good work, good love in my life and a sunny, positive attitude.
Have you ever heard the saying, It’s hotter than July? Well, that’s how most of us feel right now in Connecticut.
It’s Hot, Hot, Hot! And we no longer have the the luxury of complaining about the slow start to Summer because the 3 H’s – Hazy, Hot and Humid – have officially arrived!
Another thing: it’s About That Time Of The Year to think about where to vacate – so here’s the good news – you don’t have to hop on a train, a bus or a plane – you can simply gas up your ride and go! With these super high temps, your vacation destination can be found right here in Connecticut!
The following are some suggested “StayCations” for you and your family in some (but not all) of Connecticut’s counties:
New London County
Beat the heat at Ocean Beach Park in New London, CT. Ocean Beach Park has a spectacular beach, a boardwalk, activities, a pool, a Spray Park, a cafe and event space. Parking can get pricey especially on the weekends but if you pile up your car and stay all day, it will be worth your while.
New Haven County
Lighthouse Park in New Haven, CT is always an affordable option for good, clean, family fun. Nice beach area, picnic area, Spray Park, concessions, and that famous Carousel (smile). There are parking fees but they are pretty reasonable.
Middlesex County:
Go to Lyman Orchards in Middlefield , CT and Pick Your Own Fruit – great family fun. And visit the Corn Maze while you are there – it is always appropriately themed…And catch the hayrides, visit their bakery and try the kettle corn – you’ll be back for more!
Right after Golf Fore Women, me and my girlfriend Ginger made a day of it
Hartford County:
Why not catch a minor league baseball game at Dunkin Donuts Park in Hartford, CT. The Hartford Yard Goats season runs from June through September and tickets start at just $10.00. Perfect for singles, couples and families.
Fairfield County:
Have the time of your life on a day trip to Connecticut’s Beardsley Zoo in Bridgeport, CT. It’s priced right and a great way to enjoy the day with the kiddos.
Lions and Tigers and Bears…oh my!
So remember it’s Summertime so there’s no need to go away on vacation. Your Summer Staycation Vacation starts right here in Sunny Connecticut!
It’s officially Winter in Connecticut which for the most part makes me feel low-keySAD (Seasonal Affective Disorder) as it means the weather is extremely cold, the days short and the nights, super dark on my drive home from work…
To compensate, I try my darndest to look for fun, free, enlightening and/or educational things to do just to keep me from participating in my favorite pastime, i.e., sitting in my La-Z-Boy to watch TV and eat snacks (smile).
So here (in no particular order) are some of the ways (in the past) I have kept myself occupied (and far, far away from the snacks) during the dark, dreary days of Winter in CT:
Ice skating – Since I enjoyed this activity so much as a child growing up in Groton, CT I figured I would try it out again as a full-grown adult – I must admit it was easier said than done (smile).
We spent the afternoon at Northford Ice Skating rink – what surprised me the most was the noise level, the coldness of the rink and the fact that I could not easily stop myself from falling (smile).
This is a fun and easy activity, especially in the Winter: taking a hot bubble bath after a long day of work: Check out my blog post: Put your slippers on…
Visiting a local museum – this free activity is not only educational but truly enlightening.
Visiting a salt cave – this activity was so enlightening I had to write a blog about it – check out my blog post: Cave Girl
Going to a live taping of The Viewin NYC – a truly magical day from beginning ’till end: Check out my blog post: The View (from Lajeune)
Going to a free lecture at the local university. I recall the event we attended at Quinnipiac University in Hamden, CT – Margot Lee Shetterly – the author of Hidden Figures – quickly becoming “standing room-only.” To me this proved the staying power of the written word…
Spending a relaxing day at the spa – this never gets old…
Skiing at a local ski resort – Super fun and exhilarating! Check out my blog post: SkiDate
Spending time (and money) at the casino…in Connecticut we are lucky enough to have two: Mohegan Sun Casino and Foxwoods Resort Casino.
That’s it. So whatever activity you choose to participate in this Winter in Connecticut, do try to make it memorable 🙂
Anyone who knows me knows I love me some Doxies! “Doxies,” short for dachshunds, are those “short-legged, long-bodied, hound-type dogs.” Dachs meaning badger, hund meaning dog.
Dachshunds originated in Germany and were developed to “scent, chase and flush out badger and other burrow-dwelling animals.” Some people refer to them as the Hot Dog, or the Weiner Dog or even the Sausage Dog. I just call them adorable (smile).
So whether I’m on a staycation in Connecticut or on a real vacation in the U.S. or Abroad, I am often on the look-out for what my girlfriends have come to know as a “Cute Doxie Surprise.” These are the moments when I spot a Doxie in an unexpected place and go nuts – running after it, taking pictures of it, rolling down my car window to ask questions of the pet parent, etc.
Fun fact: While Growing up Hollis in Groton, CT, a neighbor named Mrs. Brown had a beautiful long-haired golden Doxie aptly named Goldie Von Bruen. Goldie gave birth to a litter of full-bred Dachshund puppies. I’m not sure when but at some point my late mother Jean did something kind for Mrs. Brown that caused her to offer my mother one of her prized and valued Doxies at no charge. My mother happily picked out a male puppy. We were so excited because this was our family’s very first canine pet. My older brother Michael came up with the name. He called him Rapper and it stuck (smile). Rapper was a standard (or loooooooooong) red, smooth-haired dachshund with a good disposition. Dogs were not pampered back in the day so Rapper was not “walked,” rather he ran from the house, sometimes disappearing for days at a time (smile).
This is the closest image I could find of what Rapper looked like back in the day as I could not find any of the Polaroid pictures we took of him!
This is the closest image of what Rapper look liked and it’s pretty close!
Rapper mostly ate from our plates (often times eating what we didn’t want) despite the fresh, dry dog food sitting in his bowl on a daily basis…
And it was apparently clear who Rapper loved the most – my mother Jean. So much so that when she and my father Jonie B went out on a date, we Hollis girls would take turns putting on my mother’s coat, hat and shoes to trick Rapper into believing she was still home. It worked like a charm (smile).
5 years ago I had two Doxies of my own…I was living at that time in New Haven, CT in a 90-year-old Colonial style house that I owned in the Edgewood neighborhood.
The colonial style home I owned in New Haven
I named my 2 Doxies Coby and Crimson Hollis. Coby was a black and tan smooth-haired, male miniature Doxie and Crimson, a red, smooth-haired female miniature Doxie …They were equally energetic, loveable and fun so lots of good memories were made in that house.
Coby Hollis sitting on his favorite rug in front of the refrigerator
Crimson Hollis in one of her favorite pastimes
I adopted them both from the same breeder in Canterbury, CT. Coby was just 3 months old when I adopted him and I had him until the ripe old age of 17 (in people years). Unfortunately he died of kidney failure in May of 2012. Coby was 8 years old when I adopted Crimson, a “breeder dog” who wasn’t producing many pups so the owner “fixed” her to sell her off. On top of this Crimson had social interaction issues since in her world adults coming to “visit” were coming for the sole purpose of taking away what little puppies she had so I was able to get her at a much lower price than I did with Coby. She was 4 1/2 when I adopted her and lived a happy and “normal” pet life to the age of 9 before she was struck (1 month after Coby passed!) by a hit and run driver on a busy residential street…Life was rough without my 2 Doxies and it took the passing of a very long time to heal my broken heart…
Today I am an Insta girl who loves her Instagram pix and I’m happy to admit that the majority of my own collection of saved pix are from the Dachshunds of Instagram (smile).
Doxie Love – it’s no small wonder that the Dachshund, my fav breed, remains one of the top 10 breeds of dogs in the United States according to the American Kennel Association.
Today is Friday, September 22nd, or as my good friend and News 8 Chief Meteorologist Gil Simmons would say, it is the “Autumnal Equinox.” Fancy! And really just another way of saying Fall (smile). Fall in Connecticut means it’s that time when folks can truly enjoy festivals, fairs, carnivals and outdoor expos.
Speaking of festivals, on Saturday, September 16th I had the distinct pleasure of attending the 10th annual Garlic Festival at Olde Mistick Village in Mystic, CT.
Free admission and free parking so I expected it was going to be crazy busy and I was so-ooooooo right…
I must admit I’ve always had a fondness for Mystic…you see I grew up in Groton, CT (right next door to Mystic) so I spent a lot of time in that town (especially while in high school) visiting friends, eating Mystic Pizza, working after school at the ABC Film Lab, hanging out at “The Village,” as we called Olde Mistick Village back in the day, walking downtown during the annual Mystic Arts and Crafts Fair, chilling out at the Marina, visiting the Seaport, watching my sister Casandra conduct tours during her kick a– Summer job at the Mystic Aquarium, etc…
So I was looking forward to spending time at The Village once again, albeit now through the eyes of my middle-aged old self (smile).
On that particular Saturday, as luck would have it, the weather was sunny and delightful – – perfect for walking around and enjoying the sights and sounds.
Folks (couples, singles, families, dogs, and babies) came from all over Connecticut and beyond.
One of the first things I did was head over to the duck pond. I was not disappointed…
Sampled the wide varieties of olive oil and artisanal honey at Sticky Situations, which was jam-packed with folk!
Bought a souvenir gift from Sophia’s Magical Christmas Shop.
Hung out at Franklin’s General Store for free samples of delish fudge and the experience of a trip back in time…
Spent time at Garden Store Specialties to check out the whimsical gifts for the lawn and garden.
Even made time for lunch with my client Joyce at my new fave, Pink Basil…delish!
Enjoyed a ‘cold one’ at Jealous Monk, a social hall and beer garden.
Garlic galore! You cannot get away from it – which is of course the whole point (smile).
You don’t even need to like the taste of garlic to attend this annual festival as there is truly something for everyone. There’s live entertainment, farm fresh goodies, specialty food carts, vendors, crafters, artists and even authors. And it all takes place at the coolest Village in Connecticut!
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