Frog Eyed and Bushy Tailed

I was raised in the small town of Groton, Connecticut (population around 40,000). I graduated from Mary Morrison Elementary School, Robert E. Fitch Jr. High School and Robert E. Fitch Sr. High School.   And, as is the case of most small towns, the “legal age” residents (like myself back then) were usually looking for something fun and/or exciting to do post graduation.

 

I was in luck that year.  It was 1980 and the nightclub scene in Groton and the surrounding towns and cities was lit!   Again this is wayyyyyyy back in the day so Disco music was very popular.   And the dance scene was all the rage.  Saturday Night Fever had already shown at the movies so everyone was looking to out-do John Travolta and his partner on the dance floor (smile).  I personally liked Disco Music because it was fast paced with heavy bass and lots of beats.   Disco dance tunes also seem to go on forever when dancing.

 

 

I so vividly remember this time in my life.  Going to nightclubs at 18 (which, incidentally, was the drinking age back then) and having plenty of options to choose from.  It was a different time, for instance I was able to survive on very little sleep (smile).   So starting the Summer before I left for college, I would ‘club’ 4 or 5 nights a week and still manage to get up in time to work not one, but two jobs – as a full-time Drive-Through-Window Cashier at Wendy’s Hamburgers in Groton and as a part-time Cashier at a small grocery store directly up the street from Wendy’s.

 

I recall on weekdays diligently packing my large overnight bag with my Wendy’s uniform, my grocery store tunic and Levi jeans, and my nightclub gear.  I had a long day ahead of me so preparation was key (smile).  After getting off from the grocery store, I would excuse myself and go to the ladies room in the rear of the store to wash off and get dressed for the evening.  My bff Connie would then pick me up If I was not driving my mother’s blue Mustang (smile).

 

And grabbing food on the go was a cinch as I truly had a cast-iron stomach.  I would inhale Wendy’s French fries dipped in tartar sauce for breakfast and wash it down with a delicious chocolate Fribble.  Lunch would sometimes consist of a Wendy’s Crispy Fried Chicken with Cheese Sandwich and a Dr. Pepper.  Dinner could be a Junior Whopper with cheese and fries courtesy of Burger King.  Healthy eating was not a factor in my life then.   And “clean eating” to me consisted of washing my hands before and after I ate and wiping the corners of my mouth while eating a messy burger (smile).

 

 

Rhana Pippins, located in a shopping center called Lighthouse Square in Groton,  was the premier Disco nightclub as well as ya girl’s personal fav.   There were other nightclubs in town but everybody went to Rhana Pippins on Wednesday nights and I mean everybody!  As it turned out, the ambience was key – it was beautiful inside with gargantuan frogs which served as the motif and doubled as speakers.  Also Wednesday nights was the traditional Ladies Night and word had spread quickly throughout Connecticut about free admission for the ladies, the Chippendale male strippers, the cheap drinks and the hunky men who arrived afterwards…

 

The iconic matches – perfect for getting those 7 digits (smile).

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

Saturday nights at Rhana’s Pippins were also Fire!  There was a different vibe on Saturday nights though, people came dressed to impress.  Saturday Night Fever had revolutionized the nightclub scene so it wasn’t uncommon to see men dressed in open collared shirts and designer threads.  It also wasn’t uncommon to be entertained with an upscale fashion show and/or other nightclub event.  I found the crowd older and more sophisticated on Saturday nights and therefore preferred the Wednesday night crowd (smile).

 

This hottie (who happens to be my older brother Michael) was def a crowd pleaser (smile)

 

Fun fact:  Rhana Pippins means frogs in Latin.  I often wondered why the dance floor was surrounded by gargantuan frogs that doubled as speakers.  I also uncovered this tidbit:   West Hartford, Connecticut’s own native Suzanne Langlois designed the interior of the nightclub.  Very Cool…

 

 

Anyway on Wednesday nights at Rhana Pippins, me and my BFF Connie, fresh out of high school and feeling ourselves, were quite literally the first females to break out with dressy shorts, nice blouses and low heels.   At first the other females were looking at us like we were crazy for wearing shorts at night (dressy or not!) and then suddenly everybody was doing it (smile).   We also couldn’t forget our sunglasses.  Sunglasses at night.  It made us look cool, dark and mysterious (smile).

 

 

Connie and I were at the age where we didn’t think we were cute, we knew we were cute (LOL!) and we went to Rhana Pippins on Wednesday Nights not because the Chippendale dancers were there but because of the free admission, cheap drinks and hunky men who came in later.

 

 

My drink of choice back then was at first Seagrams 7 & 7 and then Alabama Slammers or better known as a “Southern Slammers.”   By the time I was in my early 20s,  I had graduated to Long Island Iced Teas (you can’t go wrong with 7 different liquors – LOL!).

 

Alabama Slammer

 

As soon as the Chippendale dancers begin to come out on the dance floor me and my BFF Connie quickly headed to the rear of the nightclub close to the large bar, sipping our drinks on the bar stools and watching the comedy parade unfold.  The “30+ something” married women were always one of the largest demographics on Wednesday nights and seemed to also be the most aggressive, waving their dollar bills in the air and gyrating their hips like they just don’t care (smile).   The former was so the Chippendale dancers would come over to give them big kisses and more…

 

Connie and I weren’t paying them any mind, we were doing our own thing,  chit chatting, snapping our fingers to the music and slowly sipping our drinks until the “real men” arrived.   By this time we were thoroughly liquored up and ready to partaaay!!!   We were young and cute and therefore always asked to dance.  Once out on the dance floor we gravitated towards the middle where the huge mirror ball hung with its sparkling multi-colored lights and lost ourselves in the music…

 

Must Be The Music

 

At 2am, Rhana Pippins shut down for the night but Connie and I were not ready to go home.  IHOP in Groton was the place to be after all the nightclubs closed.   And around that time we were famished so we ordered large breakfast food (pancakes and sausage and coffee or eggs, bacon, toast and coffee) and talked throughout the night with our respective dates.

 

 

I would get home just in time to get in 2 hours of sleep before the alarm clock went off then I would shower, dress and start my day all over again.  Frog eyed and Bushy Tailed (smile).

 

P.S.  Rhana Pippins was my number one nightclub choice back then but here are some notable mentions:  The Love Boat, Christopher’s and Atlantis in Misquamicut, Rhode Island just to name a few.   However, they still didn’t compare in my eyes to Rhana Pippins which to me had it all: ambience, music, fashion shows, dance-offs, a variety of specialty drinks and lots of eye candy (smile).

 

And incidentally, Sundays were for Church service and Mondays were our ‘official rest days’ (smile).

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

My Current Situation Part IX

It’s the season of what we like to call “Fall” in New England.  The days are short, the air is brisk and the leaves are “falling” from the trees.   I happen to like this season because the temperatures in Connecticut tend not to be too extreme plus it’s a great time to enjoy backyard bonfires.

 

 

It’s also cold and flu season so I scheduled my flu shot this coming week at my place of employment.  I was advised by my Primary Care Physician to get the Shingles shot this year which by the way comes in two separate doses.  I’m well over 50 but for some reason was advised to take care of it this year.  Our local pharmacy (Walgreens) made it real simple for me.

 

 

The drawn-out Covid pandemic (which could easily turn into a “Twindemic” with the upcoming Flu season upon us) is still causing me to pause as to what activities I should or should not participate in.  For instance, I went to see Erykah Badu a few weeks ago at the Hartford Healthcare Amphitheater in Bridgeport, CT because the people in charge were asking all attendees to be fully vaccinated and wear their masks.  However, I skipped going to an outdoor festival in Hamden, CT because there would be children there under the age of 12 who, at this time, cannot be vaccinated.   Decisions, decisions…

 

 

And as far as work goes I am currently in month 15 of working hybrid for the News 8 local sales department and I’m not mad about it (smile).  You see I enjoy working from home every other day because it keeps me in the practice of dressing up to go into work in the first place (smile).  I am forced to put on a nice dress or blouse and skirt every other day.  Otherwise I would just live in yoga pants and baseball caps (double smile).

 

 

I also get to touch base with my fav co-workers and experience a change of scenery from the home decor.  But working from home also has its perks:  those aforementioned yoga pants and baseball caps, no commute, noontime walks and healthy lunches.  Truth be told I actually work harder when I’m working from home as I still get up at the same time every day but on those days can begin at least an hour earlier, multi-task at lunchtime and end whenever I feel like it (after quitting time) since I’m already home.

 

 

Being a true fan of  Social Media, I am noticing more and more posts of people in general spending quality time with their families and their friends.  In my opinion the notion of Family is back in a Big Way and it is very apparent.  If nothing else comes from this pandemic, it will have shown us that Family and Relationships are truly what we all have been missing.

 

 

TVFL readers, have a Great Week.

 

 

20 Things I do not want to give up in 2020

With the arrival of Lent it got me thinking of what I would like to give up this year.  But before I get to that, here are 20 things I do not want to give up in 2020 (in no particular order):

 

 

Kombucha – I discovered this delish drink during Dry January at the beginning of the year when I was purposely seeking out cool refreshing drinks with a kick (smile).  Kombucha hit the spot and the fact that it is Gluten Free and Dairy Free is an added bonus.

 

Red Wine – It’s no surprise that this one made my list before:  9 things I do not want to give up in 2019.     My new favorite reds are Pinots and my new favorite Pinot (discovered on my recent trip to Fort Lauderdale, FL) is Meiomi.

 

 

Kickboxing – I joined the specialty gym I Love Kickboxing this month because I needed something that was going to challenge me and kick my butt all at the same time (smile).  So far…so good.

 

Golf – It’s still cold here in New England (at least for another month or so) but once it warms up I will be back with my ladies hitting the links in Golf Fore Women 401.

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

Hot Green Tea – I like to order hot green tea when I eat in or out of a Japanese restaurant.  It not only tastes good but it’s extremely good for you.

 

 

Speaking of Japanese, I def do not want to give up Sushi this year, it’s become a regular part of my bi-monthly cuisine and just thinking of it makes me want to call in an order or two (smile).

 

 

Staycations – what a novel idea – discovering fun things to do in your own state.  I feel like when we staycate in Connecticut the time to go back to work moves slower (smile).

 

 

Bikini Waxes – Summer is not the only time to get a bikini wax (Vacays count too!) and Tommy K’s Wax Center offers your first bikini line for free, if you are a first time customer.

 

 

Blueberry Ale – I’ve never been a big beer drinker but Elm City Market in New Haven has this delish brand from Wachusett Brewing Company that tastes more like something you eat than drink.

 

 

Oysters – I can eat this delicacy any season of the year but I have to admit that they taste infinitely better in the Summer than they do in the Winter.

 

Homemade Soups – I love soups made from scratch especially in the Winter so I’m truly enjoying the likes of homemade Lentil, Split Green Pea, Red Kidney Bean, 16 Bean Soup and more~

 

 

Candles –  I like burning things in a safe way (smile) so scented candles are high on the list Put your slippers on….

 

Bananas – I buy and eat bananas on a daily basis as the potassium and fiber help me out during super intense workouts  – and I buy organic so I don’t have to worry about pesticides.

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

Salad – This was on my list before because it is also something I can eat any time of the year (as long as it contains protein).  Cafe Java in New Haven has my all time fave Bosco Salad which I probably eat at least once a week…

 

 

Spinach and Mozzarella Pie  – Bar Pizza in New Haven has the best Spinach and Mozzarella Pizza I have ever eaten – I love veggie pizza and this place gets it done!

 

Edamame –  Steamed lightly salted soybeans are my favorite appetizer before a japanese meal.   They are high in protein and fiber and relatively low in calories so for me they are an obvious snacking choice.

 

Trail Mix – I might have hiked maybe once, maybe twice in my lifetime but if you saw me eating raw trail mix you might think I was an avid hiker (smile).

 

 

Sirius (XM) radio – I love listening to music and happen to have eclectic tastes so my satellite radio (at just $6.99 a month) puts Terrestrial radio to shame and keeps me entertained (smile).

 

Netflix TV and Movies  – I just love the original content of the re-occuring Series on this channel as well as the Movies.  It takes binge watching to a whole ‘nother level for me…

 

 

My Iphone  – I won’t leave the house without it, I won’t sit still anywhere without it nearby, I won’t rest knowing that it needs re-charging, am I addicted (the answer is a resounding Yes!)

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

Getting my game on: GFW 201 & 301

Yikes,  it is hard to believe that it’s November already and 2019 is coming to a close.  I feel like this year flew by and the top 3 goals I set for myself in the month of January were stabbed at but not completely realized…My Top 3 Goals in the New Year

I do, however, have something I’m particularly proud of this year:  namely improving on my game of Golf.

Thanks to the Lyman Orchards Golf Center I spent the majority of my Summer and more than half of my Fall golfing.   And Summer started late this year in Connecticut  – remember the month of May?!?   I had to count it out for starting play as it was rainy and miserable.   Consequently I did not pick up my clubs until mid-June but then I made up for it by playing until the last weekend of October.

I learned a lot this year both on the course and off.   I had previously taken Golf Fore Women 101 (last September 2018) so some of what I learned this year felt like a refresher course but in a good way Ready Fore Golf

However, the majority of what I learned I took and turned into real application on the course.   And I had the added benefit of being taught and supervised by the award-winning LPGA Class A Teaching Professional Marissa Kulig Crow as well as her 2 trusty teammates Dan Hannibal and Andra Frappier…

 

LPGA Class A Teaching Professional Marissa Kulig Crow (in the purple Calloway Golf hat)

 

PGA Associate Teaching Professional Dan Hannibal

 

PGA Apprentice Teaching Professional Andra Frappier (in the lime green golf shirt and glasses)

 

June

 

Golf Fore Women 201 with LPGA Class A Teaching Professional Marissa Kulig Crow – club selection

 

Trying out my swing on the putting green

 

Getting good use out of my club on the course, as opposed to the driving range

 

July

 

Golf Fore Women 201 with Marissa Kulig Crow in black

 

Golf Fore Women 201 – learning how to stand correctly

 

It was a hotttttt one on the Apple 9 today!  I’ll never forget this day:  Saturday, July 20th!

 

Golf fore Women 201 – Marissa’s in black

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

Golf fore Women 201 – another fun day with my new lady golf friends

 

Ending the day with my old (starter) set of clubs

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

August

 

Golf fore Women 301 –  The Apple 9 course is our classroom now (smile).

 

Coincidentally my workplace, News 8, held a client golf appreciation day at Lyman’s Player Course which I had the distinct pleasure of playing in (as opposed to volunteering to drive the bar cart)

 

I didn’t only play at Lyman this Summer – me and my bf managed to squeeze in 9 holes at Sleeping Giant in Hamden the last Saturday in August

 

September

 

Practice with a Pro x 2  with Dan Hannibal

 

Make-up session with Marissa Kulig Crow

 

Happy Surprise on the Apple 9: me and my bf (a 2some) had the pleasure of being matched up as a 4some with this young lady and her husband on a crowded Sunday in late September – we played a good match and made some new friends

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

October

 

Player Course this time with my new lady golf friend Mary Ann, one of The Fab 4 (smile)

 

The Fab 4 now at Player Course honing our skills – on an overcast and rainy day

 

The Fab 4 at Player Course cutting up (smile)

 

The Fab 4 at Player Course  – photo shoot (smile)

 

On the  Apple 9 – the very last day of the season for me

 

Margot me and Jill on the Apple 9,  my very last day of Golf for the season- it was sunny but quite chilly…

 

Sooooo…I finally broke down at the end of October and invested in some new clubs.  And I actually played with them the last 2 weekends of the month.  I must admit that my game has improved with my new set of clubs (smile).   Not trying to rush time but I sure can’t wait ’till next Summer (double smile).

 

Love my burgundy and gray Ping Golf clubs

 

 

 

 

Fun Things to do in Connecticut – Part III

There’s lots to do in the state of Connecticut during the Summer, especially when the weather is cooperating.  It is truly ‘hotter than July’ so there is really no need to travel anywhere, we have sun filled days and long nights right here in CT (smile).

Here is a short list of annual events that occur in the Summer months and involve food, fun, music, festivities, entertainment and more!  The good news is that most are free to attend and some even offer free parking.

 

 

A Taste of Mystic (New London County)

This annual event takes place at the Olde Mistick Village (OMV) around the second weekend in June (Friday/Saturday/Sunday) and involves food and drinks, live bands, loads of entertainment, merchant specials and more!

 

Decisions…Decisions…

 

Admission is free (parking is also free).  To participate in The Taste you buy sleeves of tickets for $1.00 each to be exchanged for food and drinks from the vendors.

 

Joyce of OMV being interviewed by Meteorologist Joe Furey of News 8

 

And the OMV Merchants offer money-saving specials as well!

 

OMV/Munson’s Chocolates, OMV/Sticky Situations and OMV/Jealous Monk

 

New Haven Music on the Green (New Haven County)

In New Haven the unofficial start to Summer kicks off with Music on the Green!

 

Ryan Kristafer and Teresa DuFour from CT Style along with Lifestyle Expert Jo Jo Pastors and her girlfriend

 

In Summers past we have been entertained (in our VIP seats) by such notable acts as Ronnie Spector,  Debbie Gibson, Taylor Dayne, KC and the Sunshine Band and En Vogue, just to name a few.

 

Ryan Kristafer of CT Style getting down with the ladies from En Vogue!

 

And this year we had the pleasure of seeing Lisa Lisa on Saturday 7/20/19 and Morris Day on Saturday 7/29/19!

 

Lisa Lisa and her entourage
Morris Day and The Time put on a phenomenal performance!
Morris Day – 61 years young (smile)

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

The Hamden Free Summer Concert Series (New Haven County)

Beginning late June on Friday nights at 6pm at the Hamden Town Center Park, live bands play to diverse crowds made up of singles, couples, families, dogs and more!  This free annual outdoor event truly features something for everyone.  There’s no VIP but at the same time there is truly not a bad seat in the house.  And if you come hungry you can feast off of the nearby food trucks or better yet, pack your own picnic complete with adult beverages.  Bring your lawn chairs and blankets and make a space on the lawn as happy people jam to the music.

 

Plenty of room at the Hamden Summer Free Concert Series. Lines galore at the delicious and ethnically diverse food trucks!

 

This year (2019) on Week 4 The Wailers, featuring Julian Junior Marvin, delighted the Friday night crowd.

 

The Wailers featuring Julian Junior Marvin

 

The Greater Hartford Festival of Jazz (Hartford County)

Jazz is alive and well outdoors at Bushnell Park in Hartford!  This free annual event takes place over an entire weekend (Friday/Saturday/Sunday) in mid July.   There are food and retail clothing vendors and folks completely covering the Bushnell park lawn with their blankets, lawn chairs, coolers and sun umbrellas.  Big screen TVs on both sides of the stage ensure that everyone gets a decent view.

 

There’s no need for a VIP as the big TV screens ensure that everyone gets a decent view of the performers

 

The line-up of jazz musicians is awesome and the party lasts all day long and well into the night.

 

Could not help but enjoy the beautiful weather, good company and awesome jazz performers

 

Although this is a free event donations are gladly accepted…

 

 

New London Sailfest (New London County)

This coastal city comes alive during the Summer with its signature event, the New London Sailfest!

July is the month and the entire mid month weekend (Friday/Saturday/Sunday) offers something for all family members.

 

From Tall Ships to face painting to patriotic costumes, there’s something for everyone

 

Speaking of which, there are amusement park rides, face painting, delicious food options plus sailboat and people watching.

 

The food…the rides…the atmosphere…

 

So that’s my short list of fun things to do during Summers in Connecticut – enjoy!