My Current Situation Part XII

 

It is now November of 2025 and my current situation is a mixed bag.  There are lots of highlights though and that is what I will focus on here:

 

 

My 92-year old infirmed father,  Jonie B. Hollis,  just got a new and wayyyy better roommate at the Old Saybrook, CT nursing home where he resides…

 

 

My projected sales outlook for the remainder of this year at WTNH TV News 8 is ending on a high note…

 

 

The cool and brisk temperatures in the state of Connecticut this Fall are bringing out a desire in me to cook again (smile)…

 

 

I’m feeling healthy and strong and able to continue with my early bird 5am high-intensity workouts at Orangetheory Fitness in Hamden, CT…

 

 

I constantly try and remind myself  to count my blessings as I look around me and notice that the world we once knew is falling apart week by week…

 

 

Sincerely,

 

 

TVFL

 

 

My Entry into Broadcast Media Sales

The year was 1989 and I had been working as a Local Sales Assistant for the past 3 1/2 years at what was then WTNH Action News 8 Television in New Haven, CT.

I was relieved when I originally landed this support position because although I had my B.S. degree in Media Studies from Sacred Heart University in Fairfield, CT, it took a long time back then even for a college graduate to land a decent job in the media industry.

These were, what I was to find out much much later, the glory days of television.  Al Terzi, Janet Peckingpaugh and Mike Bogoslawski were the Local News Anchors at the time.  And there were only 3 networks back then (ABC, CBS and NBC) so our ABC local network affiliate’s share of pie was huge and money was flowing!

Once again, I originally took this support position because I could see how hard it was to break into “the business” so I figured if I was around those that did what I aspired to do, it would be much easier.  Boy was I wrong!  Because back in the day I wanted to be the host of my own Community Affairs program.  So I worked all day long as a Local Sales Assistant for 6 to 8 sellers and 3 sales managers; at least 2 to 3 nights a week,  I hung around and shadowed the Community Affairs Director.  To my delight, a Host position finally came up for the new Community Affairs program and it was immediately given to one of the TV News Reporters – not only was I not even considered, I wasn’t even on the list!

 

Sales Assistant by day…

 

Then along came a BIG surprise.  The Sally Jessy Raphael Show (a national program!) moved into our New Haven studios to tape their daily 10am show.  My world had now changed for the better.  I was able to sneak downstairs to check out famous people practically every week for the next 2 years.  It was a huge occupational perk and a big reason for me to stick around.  I met then President Jimmy Carter and his wife Roslyn, Suzanne Somers from Three’s Company, the infamous Donna Rice, Marlo Thomas from That Girl and her hubby Phil Donahue from the Phil Donahue Show just to name a few.  When The Sally Show moved on to New York, it was time for me to go as well.

I had decided to pursue broadcast media sales.  So on my final week the local sales team and local sales managers, whom I loved working for, presented me with a leather briefcase and ordered me to fill it up with lots of orders!  I had previously met with a few of the Local Account Executives on my own time and basically questioned them on what to expect in the world of broadcast media sales.  They were super helpful but to be honest, selling is something you truly learn by doing.  You either have it, or you don’t.  It’s not like anything I’ve ever done in my life and I still enjoy it, even in this day and age…

When I left Action News 8 I was making a paltry $19,500 a year (this is after a $3,000 raise!) which was enough to pay the rent on my super cute but tiny studio apartment in the East Rock neighborhood of New Haven, but not enough to buy or own a car.  And this was with waitressing on the weekends at Friendly’s Ice Cream in Hamden, CT.   Here I was working 2 jobs and moonlighting on Monday evenings as a Community Volunteer Radio Announcer for WYBC 94.3FM in New Haven.  Lovers Corner with Lajeune was the name of my show –  the best in R & B love songs.  A true labor of love (smile).

 

My moonlighting gig – here with the other  WYBC 94.3FM On-Air Personalities – I’m in the front row wearing a black tee

My first broadcast sales job was at WEBE 108FM in Bridgeport, CT.   Lucky for me my oldest sister Dana had bought herself a new car so she gifted me with her older AMC Gremlin to commute back and forth with everyday from New Haven to Bridgeport.  My selling territory was Fairfield and New Haven counties so I would be spending lots of time on the road.  The Gremlin wasn’t perfect but through God’s Grace and the proximity of Firestone Tire Centers, it held its own (smile).

 

My AMC Gremlin – it  actually looked just like this except it was beige

 

At the time I was hired, there were 2 radio stations in the same building and on the same floor:  WEBE 108FM and WICC 600AM.  I was hired by WEBE so I was literally selling against the account executives at WICC, who sat right around the corner from me.  It was a strange feeling for sure.  After I completed my first year of  selling, the radio station became a “Combo” which meant they would not need as many of us in sales so they trimmed the sales teams back to 9 sellers from a combined total of 15.  I just knew I was a goner because I was still green and still cutting my teeth but they said I was staying because they loved my sunny and positive ‘Can Do’ attitude (smile).

Here is the picture of me that was taken for  the newsletter the radio station sent out to Fairfield County residents to welcome the newly combined WEBE and WICC Radio stations:

 

Circa 1990

i loved selling WEBE and WICC radio stations not just because I was learning a ton working with a seasoned sales team but also because the company provided us with a comprehensive radio sales training program and plenty of  radio industry resources to back it up.  But to be honest, I had entered year 2 and was still not making any money.  I worked on 100% commission against draw but since I had no list, I basically had to constantly cold call for appointments and then start from scratch when I landed a new account.  Since I was mostly working on promotional accounts which require lots of moving parts, it was exhausting…

 

One of my many promotional accounts – the grand opening of Mobil Gas station in Stratford

Then, as luck would have it, I received a phone call from the Local Sales Manager at WNHC 1340AM, the Rhythm of the City.  WNHC was an R & B (no Rap!) radio station based in New Haven, CT so I figured I had nothing to lose.  During our interview, the Local Sales Manager basically painted the right picture for me  – yes, you are leaving a 50,000 Watt FM radio station in wealthy Fairfield County for a 1000 Watt AM radio station in New Haven, but with us, the sky is the limit.  When I told my Local Sales Manager I was leaving them for WNHC in New Haven, not only did she think I was crazy but so did the majority of the team (LOL!)

It’s no secret that I enjoy a challenge and what I saw in front of me was opportunity for growth and a new, close-knit work family that I could really get behind.  Consequently, in my 5 1/2 years at WNHC,  I more than excelled.  I moved up from Account Executive to  Local Sales Manager to finally  National Sales Manager.  I also enjoyed meeting tons of famous people at free concerts and plays –  mostly singers and performers.  I ran my own on-air African-American Book Review once a week with my partner Lamonda (L & L Book Review) and was constantly chosen to serve on numerous committees, judge area fashion shows, speak to the New Haven youth at public schools about careers in media sales, etc.

One of my most memorable interviews on the L & L On-Air Book Review was the one with the legendary Michael Baisden. He was building his career back in the day and I could see easily why he is as famous as he is today – he’s a hoot!

 

When WNHC Radio went bankrupt (that will be covered in another blog) I decided to pursue the print world.  I traveled back and forth to Bridgeport, CT to work for Umoja News, a monthly urban start-up newspaper that covered events that I felt passionate about.  The founder and I worked closely together.  She handled the day to day operations and I ran the sales department.  I wrote a sales training manual, hired 3 local sellers and handled regional accounts.  I stayed a little less than 2 years because I could not get into the pace, i.e., working like a madwoman for a little under a week every month to meet those crazy deadlines and then spending the remaining 3 weeks of the month calling on new business.  I found it cumbersome.

 

My short stint working in print media as an Advertising Sales Manager

 

In my next blog post I will talk about my journey back to broadcast radio sales this time with the know-how, negotiating skills and lots of multi-media experience.

 

Stay tuned!

TVFL

Frog Eyed and Bushy Tailed

I was raised in the small town of Groton, Connecticut (population around 40,000). I graduated from Mary Morrison Elementary School, Robert E. Fitch Jr. High School and Robert E. Fitch Sr. High School.   And, as is the case of most small towns, the “legal age” residents (like myself back then) were usually looking for something fun and/or exciting to do post graduation.

 

I was in luck that year.  It was 1980 and the nightclub scene in Groton and the surrounding towns and cities was lit!   Again this is wayyyyyyy back in the day so Disco music was very popular.   And the dance scene was all the rage.  Saturday Night Fever had already shown at the movies so everyone was looking to out-do John Travolta and his partner on the dance floor (smile).  I personally liked Disco Music because it was fast paced with heavy bass and lots of beats.   Disco dance tunes also seem to go on forever when dancing.

 

 

I so vividly remember this time in my life.  Going to nightclubs at 18 (which, incidentally, was the drinking age back then) and having plenty of options to choose from.  It was a different time, for instance I was able to survive on very little sleep (smile).   So starting the Summer before I left for college, I would ‘club’ 4 or 5 nights a week and still manage to get up in time to work not one, but two jobs – as a full-time Drive-Through-Window Cashier at Wendy’s Hamburgers in Groton and as a part-time Cashier at a small grocery store directly up the street from Wendy’s.

 

I recall on weekdays diligently packing my large overnight bag with my Wendy’s uniform, my grocery store tunic and Levi jeans, and my nightclub gear.  I had a long day ahead of me so preparation was key (smile).  After getting off from the grocery store, I would excuse myself and go to the ladies room in the rear of the store to wash off and get dressed for the evening.  My bff Connie would then pick me up If I was not driving my mother’s blue Mustang (smile).

 

And grabbing food on the go was a cinch as I truly had a cast-iron stomach.  I would inhale Wendy’s French fries dipped in tartar sauce for breakfast and wash it down with a delicious chocolate Fribble.  Lunch would sometimes consist of a Wendy’s Crispy Fried Chicken with Cheese Sandwich and a Dr. Pepper.  Dinner could be a Junior Whopper with cheese and fries courtesy of Burger King.  Healthy eating was not a factor in my life then.   And “clean eating” to me consisted of washing my hands before and after I ate and wiping the corners of my mouth while eating a messy burger (smile).

 

 

Rhana Pippins, located in a shopping center called Lighthouse Square in Groton,  was the premier Disco nightclub as well as ya girl’s personal fav.   There were other nightclubs in town but everybody went to Rhana Pippins on Wednesday nights and I mean everybody!  As it turned out, the ambience was key – it was beautiful inside with gargantuan frogs which served as the motif and doubled as speakers.  Also Wednesday nights was the traditional Ladies Night and word had spread quickly throughout Connecticut about free admission for the ladies, the Chippendale male strippers, the cheap drinks and the hunky men who arrived afterwards…

 

The iconic matches – perfect for getting those 7 digits (smile).

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

Saturday nights at Rhana’s Pippins were also Fire!  There was a different vibe on Saturday nights though, people came dressed to impress.  Saturday Night Fever had revolutionized the nightclub scene so it wasn’t uncommon to see men dressed in open collared shirts and designer threads.  It also wasn’t uncommon to be entertained with an upscale fashion show and/or other nightclub event.  I found the crowd older and more sophisticated on Saturday nights and therefore preferred the Wednesday night crowd (smile).

 

This Hottie, who just so happens to be my brother Michael, was def a crowd pleaser back in the day…

 

Fun fact:  Rhana Pippins means frogs in Latin.  I often wondered why the dance floor was surrounded by gargantuan frogs that doubled as speakers.  I also uncovered this tidbit:   West Hartford, Connecticut’s own native Suzanne Langlois designed the interior of the nightclub.  Very Cool…

 

 

Anyway on Wednesday nights at Rhana Pippins, me and my BFF Connie, fresh out of high school and feeling ourselves, were quite literally the first females to break out with dressy shorts, nice blouses and low heels.   At first the other females were looking at us like we were crazy for wearing shorts at night (dressy or not!) and then suddenly everybody was doing it (smile).   We also couldn’t forget our sunglasses.  Sunglasses at night.  It made us look cool, dark and mysterious (smile).

 

 

Connie and I were at the age where we didn’t think we were cute, we knew we were cute (LOL!) and we went to Rhana Pippins on Wednesday Nights not because the Chippendale dancers were there but because of the free admission, cheap drinks and hunky men who came in later.

 

 

My drink of choice back then was at first Seagrams 7 & 7 and then Alabama Slammers or better known as a “Southern Slammers.”   By the time I was in my early 20s,  I had graduated to Long Island Iced Teas (you can’t go wrong with 7 different liquors – LOL!).

 

Alabama Slammer

 

As soon as the Chippendale dancers begin to come out on the dance floor me and my BFF Connie quickly headed to the rear of the nightclub close to the large bar, sipping our drinks on the bar stools and watching the comedy parade unfold.  The “30+ something” married women were always one of the largest demographics on Wednesday nights and seemed to also be the most aggressive, waving their dollar bills in the air and gyrating their hips like they just don’t care (smile).   The former was so the Chippendale dancers would come over to give them big kisses and more…

 

Connie and I weren’t paying them any mind, we were doing our own thing,  chit chatting, snapping our fingers to the music and slowly sipping our drinks until the “real men” arrived.   By this time we were thoroughly liquored up and ready to partaaay!!!   We were young and cute and therefore always asked to dance.  Once out on the dance floor we gravitated towards the middle where the huge mirror ball hung with its sparkling multi-colored lights and lost ourselves in the music…

 

Must be the music (smile)

 

At 2am, Rhana Pippins shut down for the night but Connie and I were not ready to go home.  IHOP in Groton was the place to be after all the nightclubs closed.   And around that time we were famished so we ordered large breakfast food (pancakes and sausage and coffee or eggs, bacon, toast and coffee) and talked throughout the night with our respective dates.

 

 

I would get home just in time to get in 2 hours of sleep before the alarm clock went off then I would shower, dress and start my day all over again.  Frog eyed and Bushy Tailed (smile).

 

P.S.  Rhana Pippins was my number one nightclub choice back then but there are some notable mentions:  The Love Boat, Christopher’s and Atlantis in Misquamicut, Rhode Island just to name a few.   However, they still didn’t compare in my eyes to Rhana Pippins which to me had it all: ambience, music, fashion shows, dance-offs, a variety of specialty drinks and lots of eye candy (smile).

 

And incidentally, Sundays were for Church (service) and Mondays were our ‘official rest days’ (smile).

 

Sincerely,

 

TVFL

 

My Current Situation Part IX

It’s the season of what we like to call “Fall” in New England.  The days are short, the air is brisk and the leaves are “falling” from the trees.   I happen to like this season because the temperatures in Connecticut tend not to be too extreme plus it’s a great time to enjoy backyard bonfires.

 

It’s also cold and flu season so I scheduled my flu shot this coming week at my place of employment.  I was advised by my Primary Care Physician to get the Shingles shot this year which by the way comes in two separate doses.  I’m well over 50 but for some reason was advised to take care of it this year.  Our local pharmacy (Walgreens) made it real simple for me.

 

The drawn-out Covid pandemic (which could easily turn into a “Twindemic” with the upcoming Flu season upon us) is still causing me to pause as to what activities I should or should not participate in.  For instance, I went to see Erykah Badu a few weeks ago at the Hartford Healthcare Amphitheater in Bridgeport, CT because the people in charge were asking all attendees to be fully vaccinated and wear their masks.  However, I skipped going to an outdoor festival in Hamden, CT because there would be children there under the age of 12 who, at this time, cannot be vaccinated.   Decisions, decisions…

 

And as far as work goes I am currently in month 15 of working hybrid for the News 8 local sales department and I’m not mad about it (smile).  You see I enjoy working from home every other day because it keeps me in the practice of dressing up to go into work in the first place (smile).  I am forced to put on a nice dress or blouse and skirt every other day.  Otherwise I would just live in yoga pants and baseball caps (double smile).

 

I also get to touch base with my fav co-workers and experience a change of scenery from the home decor.  But working from home also has its perks:  those aforementioned yoga pants and baseball caps, no commute, noontime walks and healthy lunches.  Truth be told I actually work harder when I’m working from home as I still get up at the same time every day but on those days can begin at least an hour earlier, multi-task at lunchtime and end whenever I feel like it (after quitting time) since I’m already home.

 

 

Being a true fan of  Social Media, I am noticing more and more posts of people in general spending quality time with their families and their friends.  In my opinion the notion of Family is back in a Big Way and it is very apparent.  If nothing else comes from this pandemic, it will have shown us that Family and Relationships are truly what we all have been missing.

 

 

TVFL readers, have a Great Week.

 

 

My Current Situation Part VIII

There was a small window in time at some point in July of 2021 where life was beginning to feel a little normal, albeit, the “new normal,” as masks were flung off, dressy outfits were put back on and baseball caps were sent back to the ball field.

 

 

 

Then along came Delta, it sounds like a movie title but instead it’s the name of the new variant that is quickly turning our everyday lives into a mini nightmare.  The medical doctor on the last WTNH News 8 segment I watched explained that even if you are fully vaccinated, you can still catch and/or transmit the COVID virus –  Yikes!  It’s no wonder that it’s spreading like wildfire.

 

 

 

And now the Connecticut Department of Public Health recommends that all state residents go back to wearing masks inside public buildings.

 

 

 

Yes.  Again…Wait, Really?!?

 

 

So as of today, me and my fellow News 8 Account Executives continue to work (masked up outside our cubicles) in the same hybrid fashion we started about 14 months ago.  Call me crazy but I happen to like working 50 percent from home and 50 percent from the office.  I have even created a cozy home office in one corner of my dining room that easily fits my desk, office supplies, desktop computer, office chair, printer and work files.  I can’t lie: I’m not looking forward to going back to work in the office 100 percent of the time.  Especially since I’ll have to face those crazy, unhinged drivers every day as opposed to just half the week.

 

 

Being the Optimist that I am though, I take a deep breath and remember what I am truly grateful for: I am truly grateful that me, my family and my loved ones are all healthy, fully vaccinated and presently living Covid- free lives.

 

 

 

And I certainly hope and pray the same for all of my TVFL readers.