My Current Situation Part XI

I have not followed up on My Current Situation series since 2021/2022 so I have to catch you up.   Here we go:

 

I am working 100% of the workday in the office as a Media Sales Professional at WTNH TV (ABC) News 8.  This has been the case for the past 3+ years (post-Pandemic).

 

 

I no longer wear a face mask to anywhere.  I only wash my hands when they are dirty (smile).  I don’t clean my vegetables.  I still look suspiciously on when someone coughs or especially hacks near me…I dress for work in work attire since I am actually in an office and meeting with clients.  I’m back to traveling for pleasure – both domestically and internationally.

 

 

And honestly, when someone catches Covid 19, I look on with sympathy as if they just informed me they have a nasty cold.

 

 

The former is my reality in the month of April of 2025.  Since I started my blog a decade ago, I have been diligent about not including politics as the purpose of this blog is to do one or two things:  inspire, motivate, entertain, bring joy, hope, and spread good vibes.

 

 

With this particular blog post I have to deviate off the path a bit because I am so annoyed at the state of affairs in the U.S. and beyond under our current administration.  And I am also quite saddened by some people who do not practice compassion or empathy for others whose own boat is smaller or may not even exist.

The overall mood for me is that the Pandemic was a walk in the woods compared to what is going on today (smile).

 

 

I don’t want to get too deep but I will say that despite what’s going on, I still feel hopeful that in the end, human nature’s goodness will triumph over wickedness and depravity.

 

 

My recommendation for all this madness is finding solace in a higher power, working with a Mental Health professional, practicing meditation, exercising at a gym or from home, making time for yourself to do the things that bring you joy, staying away from toxicity and negativity (people and otherwise) and finally, being grateful for having a sound mind, healthy body and spiritual soul.

 

Cheers!

 

P.S. If you are a non-drinker like me, the glass of wine may be swapped out with a fruit juice of your choice (smile).

 

Sincerely,

 

 

TVFL

 

 

 

 

 

Island Hopper

I was born in a blizzard in Newport, RI on Valentines Day, 1962 so it comes as no surprise to anyone that I have spent the majority of my birthdays bundled up in winter coats, gloves, scarves and snow boots.  So this year, as my 63rd Vday Bday was fast approaching, I decided to switch things up and spend my special day sunbathing in the United States Virgin Islands.

For our 7 days/6 nights island getaway, James and I departed Bradley International Airport on Sunday February 9th and returned on Saturday February 15th.   By the way, it snowed in Connecticut both ways (smile).

St. Thomas was our island dream destination, but we had previously discussed that while on this island we would travel by ferry on day trips throughout the week to both St. Johns, USVI and Jost Van Dyke, BVI.  My mother-in-law Irene, who was born in St. Thomas but grew up in Jost Van Dyke, reminded us to bring our passports.  I’m so glad she did as we would not have gotten on that island without them.  Jost Van Dyke is part of the British Virgin Islands (BVI) so you need your passport to get through Customs and Immigration.

We rented a car for this vacation which we picked up at the airport (it makes sense to rent a car on St. Thomas because there are no Ubers or Lyfts and taxis can get pretty pricey pretty quick) and James drove us on the wrong side of the road (smile) to our hotel, the Island View Guesthouse.  We normally stay in resorts when we travel to tropical islands and if necessary, we get around by Uber or Lyft so it felt different staying in an actual hotel and using a rental car.  What really sold me on this particular hotel was the free daily breakfasts, plus the hotel’s proximity to downtown Charlotte Amalie which featured a waterfront, local shops and restaurants and nearby beaches.

 

Our rental car in St. Thomas – a brand new 2025 Nissan Sentra

 

Our hotel suite at the Island View Guesthouse – a funny story – not so funny at the time…

 

 

 

 

 

 

Since I used a 3rd party app (Expedia) to book our travel, I chose the bundle package which in our case consisted of airfare (United Airlines), a hotel (the Island View Guesthouse) and a car (Budget Car Rental).  I would not recommend using a 3rd party app to book your travel anywhere because as I found out from Libby, the friendly and accessible owner of  the Island View Guesthouse, the 3rd party app folks take 20 to 30 percent off the top of your bundle packages which in my case meant we were put into the tiniest room at the hotel with no amenities and the car we rented came without GPS.  James quickly took care of the hotel room issue the very  next morning when he had a talk with Eileen, the Island View Guesthouse Manager.  Eileen was a dream – she not only upgraded us to the largest suite in the hotel for 3 nights, but she also managed to upgrade us into 2 more spacious hotel rooms over the final 2 nights of our week long vacation.  Libby, the hotel owner, arrived with her Executive Chef Husband Marshall on the Wednesday of our vacation and ensured that the remainder of my Vday Bday week went off  without a hitch.  Libby and I hit it off right away and even shared a similar sober conscious story that begun at the height of the Pandemic.  I can’t begin to thank both Eileen the Manager and Libby the Owner for attending to all of our needs and would highly recommend anyone looking to book a hotel on St. Thomas to make their reservations at the boutique style Island View Guesthouse.

 

The view of Charlotte Amalie from our hotel room window

 

Sunday — Day 1 – Travel Day

All things considered, the trip to St. Thomas, VI from Bradley International Airport in Windsor Locks, CT was not too shabby.  There were no delays and the time spent in the air was, for the most part, uneventful.  We flew from Windsor, Connecticut to Washington, D.C. in record time and the same can be said for our 2nd flight from Washington D.C. to St. Thomas, VI.

The very first restaurant we ate at was The Greenhouse – it was okay – popular for tourists because of its location…

 

My dinner at The Greenhouse – I was starving so anything would have tasted good – and St. Thomas is one hour ahead of Connecticut so I was “hangry” by then (smile)

 

Monday – Day 2 (Coki Beach at Coral World on St. Thomas)

Coki Beach is a small and very quaint public beach on St. Thomas (one of the 11 beaches on the island!).  The sand is silky smooth and the water, crystal clear.  We rented a large beach umbrella and 2 beach chair loungers for just $40 dollars.  Thank goodness we did because it rained off and on all day with blustery winds.  The large umbrella saved us from running back to our car for cover.

 

All smiles in between the raindrops at Coki Beach

 

What I could not help but notice at Coki Beach were all of the yachts that were parked in the beautiful crystal blue water annoyingly blocking our view…

 

Tuesday – Day 3  (Trunk Bay on St. Johns)

The first of two day trips that week was to St. Johns.  And everything I heard about it was true.  It is truly paradise, the weather was picture perfect and it was not too crowded.  We drove to the Red Hook marina to catch our island ferry – the round trip fare was only 16 dollars and the entire ferry ride took all of 20 minutes.  We then caught a trolley/cab to Trunk Bay (one of the 10 beaches on the island!) and spent the entire afternoon there.  Trunk Bay Beach is gorgeous with fine, silky smooth sand and crystal clear baby blue water.  It was 80 degrees outside but the sun did not seem that strong so we laid out on our beach blankets and soaked it up.

Love the contrast of the green mountains against the crystal blue waters

This soft and supple sand feels so good between my toes

 

James taking a quick nap

 

The snack bar where we ordered lunch – the food was soooo good! There were outdoor Tiki bars selling exotic drinks but I did not indulge since I gave up alcohol 5 years ago at the onset of the Covid 19 Pandemic…

 

Wednesday – Day 4 – Downtown St. Thomas  – Charlotte Amalie  (Walking on the Waterfront, Shopping for gear and Lunch at Gladys Restaurant)

Wednesday was primarily a rainy day (way too much rain to dry up on the beach) so we turned it into a shopping day – there are a ton of shops downtown in Charlotte Amalie (mostly local merchants) selling lots of wares.  By the way, if you are looking for any kind of jewelry, downtown Charlotte Amalie is the place to be to buy gold, silver and diamonds all in one central area and best of all everything is tax free!

 

James and I finally seated at Gladys’s Restaurant (smile).

 

Gladys’s Restaurant did not disappoint – I all but inhaled the brown stew chicken, plantains, fresh cabbage and peas and rice!

 

Thursday – Day 5 (Magens Bay Beach on St. Thomas)

We spent our 2nd to last day at Magens Bay Beach which had come well recommended by the trip advisors.  It truly is a beautiful must see and do beach. Magens Bay was super crowded the day we arrived with rows and rows of beach chairs and umbrellas lined up in formation.  There was also a sun and surf rental shop, a souvenir shop and an indoor/outdoor bar and grille.  Lots going on.  We were in the mood for peace and quiet that day so we headed further down the mile long beach where there were no beach chairs, and very few people.  Another well thought out idea…

 

 

That evening we went out for a late dinner in downtown Charlotte Amalie to a restaurant that was recommended by one of the locals in town.  It was called the Sugarcane Grille at Bunker Hill.  It was way up a hill on a narrow winding road with no parking.  We lucked out though because we managed to squeeze our rental car into a tight space.  The restaurant was so cute.  We had to walk a bunch of stairs to get there but at the top was the dining room with a view of a well-lit swimming pool.  The food was awesome.  Our super friendly waiter even talked me into a delish mocktail made with Ginger, yummy!

 

Love the ambience in the dining room and the Caribbean dishes were delish!

 

Friday – Day 6 – My Vday Bday – Jost Van Dykes, British Virgin Islands

We popped out of bed at 530am that morning to catch the 730am ferry leaving from Red Dock marina to Jost Van Dyke, BVI.   There are only 3 ferry rides a week to Jost Van Dyke so if you miss one, you have to wait a few days for the next one.  It’s much more involved than going to St. Johns.  First of all you need your passport.  Second it’ll cost you $120 round trip per Adult to ride the ferry plus 10 dollars to enter the island and 20 dollars to exit it.  Third, you have 7 hours on the island to spend as you wish and believe me, the time flies by.  We spent half the day on White Bay beach which we had to catch a cab from the harbor to get to.  White Bay beach was breathtakingly beautiful. I felt like I was in a Hollywood movie because it painted the picture of a true tropical beach scene.  There  was so much all at once to take in.  And the beach wasn’t even crowded!

 

White Bay beach has beauty written all over it! By far my most favorite beach this week! So happy I got to spend my Valentines Day Birthday there.

I kept pinching myself – I could not believe how beautiful and uncrowded White Bay Beach was!

 

I had to take a picture in front of Gertrudes – a landmark and treasure – in spite of the perfectly set up photo op (smile)

 

The second half of our day was spent at Great Harbor – we were on a mission to grab lunch at Pinky’s restaurant and we could not leave without visiting the likes of Foxy’s Restaurant Bar and Grille!

 

Pinky’s Restaurant was easy to spot – love the Caribbean themed spot and enjoyed meeting and chatting with Pinky herself

 

Pinky herself cooked us her signature dish while chatting it up

 

Our official Ferry boat to Jost Van Dyke

 

Our ferry ride back from St. John to St. Thomas – feeling sunburnt but accomplished

Day 7 – Saturday – Travel Back Home

We purposely took our sweet time on Saturday morning because our flight was not leaving until 3pm and we would not arrive into Connecticut until 12midnight.  We realized we had a long day of travel ahead of us which included 3 airplane trips this time around – St. Thomas, Virgin Islands to San Juan, Puerto Rico; San Juan, Puerto Rico to Washington, D.C.; and finally Washington, D.C. to Windsor Locks, CT.  We spent the better part of the morning shopping in downtown Charlotte Amalie at one of our fav surf shops, Ocean Surfari, which,lucky for us, was having a huge storewide sale.   Then we picked up our lunch at a local grocer.  We arrived at the airport at 115pm and dropped off our rental car so we could relax, eat and soak up a little sun before we headed to Cape Air Airlines to check in.  This is where the disconnect happened.  Neither one of us realized that because we were flying from St. Thomas, VI to San Juan, PR it would be necessary to go through Customs and Immigration so consequently, after we checked in at Cape Air Airlines, we were told to get in line with the rest of the travelers.  The said line was super long and wrapped around and around  and around the airport about 3 times!   I looked at my Fitbit and it said 215pm which meant we had all of 45 minutes to catch our 3pm flight.  There was no way in Hell we were going to make that flight.  After about 10 minutes panic started to set in and James said ‘why don’t you call Cape Air and see if there is something they can do to get us to the front of the line?’  I looked at my Fitbit again – it was 230pm now and I saw 3 missed calls from Cape Air.  I immediately called them back and explained that we were stuck in line and was there anything they could do for us.  They said they would send someone to get us but we could not find that person and ended up trying to move through the line ourselves as time was ticking by.  I said a quick prayer to God and the rest of the time was a blur as we were pushed and pulled and stopped and started before we found ourselves at the point where you take your shoes off and load your stuff into gray bins.  One of the airport workers familiar with our situation stopped us and told us that we were wasting our time, it was 250pm and our plane was now preparing to leave without us.  We felt dejected but went through the motions of looking for and finding our original departure gate.  When we arrived to that gate an employee mysteriously appeared out of nowhere and told us that this never happens but they had a backup plane outside and a pilot who would get us to San Juan well in time for our Washington, D.C. connection!   The pilot had a Cessna 402 and James and I  were the only 2 passengers on board.  The pilot flew 6500 feet up in the air to San Juan, Puerto Rico in 35 minutes!  Not only did we make our next connection to Washington, D.C., but we were only a half hour behind what would have been our original time of arrival to San Juan airport!  I thanked God for answering my prayers so quickly and thanked the pilot of Cape Air Airlines for safely flying and landing us.

 

Too Blessed to be Stressed – at this point of the trip I am still pinching myself as we travel on what is now a tiny aircraft from St. Thomas VI to San Juan, PR – this flight took just 35 minutes and was truly a Godsend…

Cheers to our next Great Adventure!

 

Sincerely,

 

TVFL

Back to Broadcast Media Sales!

In my last blog, My Entry into Broadcast Media Sales, I ended it with how I was starting to feel antsy working in print sales at Umoja Newspaper which led to me thinking about my next challenge.  Coincidentally I received a phone call from the local sales manager at WEBE 108FM and WICC 600AM.   She said one of their seasoned players did not work out and there was a “list” for me if I wanted it.  A “list” in broadcast media sales is a written guarantee of  accounts that show that a seller is going to make a certain amount of money within the year by servicing these accounts.  I was very happy to return to WEBE and WICC, this time with a “base” to work from as well as a team that I felt more aligned with.  This was back in the 90s when there were lots of incentives put forth for good sellers to stick around.  At WEBE and WICC these included trips to the Caribbean if  quarterly team budgets were met, cash bonuses and lots of local restaurant trade for sellers to use on their advertising clients.  Here’s another: if we lived in a nearby city (at the time I lived in New Haven, CT) we were encouraged to get a gas and oil change trade to use for our own car(!) as well as to be shared with the radio stations news vehicles.  Win Win!  I got it done and spent the following year enjoying free gas and free oil changes!  Again, very different times (smile).

 

It gets better.  On my first day back to work, I found out the WEBE and WICC combo sales team had just achieved their quarterly sales budget so, as they say,  I stepped into it.  Since I was the one who had replaced the dismissed Senior Account Executive, I automatically qualified for an All-Inclusive 6 day 5 night trip to Half Moon Bay in Montego Bay, Jamaica!  Since I wasn’t a “real winner” like the rest of the sales team  I could go,  but I could not bring a date.   No matter, I still enjoyed my very own Junior Suite, copious amounts of  delish food and drink, quality beach time and plenty of sight seeing  with the only other 2 “single ladies” on the trip and I had a blast!  What a way to start a new job (smile).

 

Half Moon Bay Resort
Truly loving my free trip to Jamaica!

 

With my co-worker Tom – hated to leave…

 

I truly enjoyed being back at WEBE and WICC radio for the second time around.  Now I was making good money, I got along very well with the staff and the local sales team, dined out at some of the finest restaurants in Fairfield County, and enjoyed many other occupational perks.  However, I still felt like something was missing.  So when I got a phone call from the then General Sales Manager of Star 99.9FM, WPLR 99.1FM, and WYBC 94.3FM, I took it.  We met up and he told me in person that they had created a position just for me.  I would be the New Business Director of WYBC 94.3FM.  I would have my own office at their Milford, CT headquarters and I was to be charged with creating a media kit from scratch as well as sales one sheeters and such.  I would also hire local Account Executives strictly for WYBC and train them as well as train the Star 99.9 and WPLR 99.1 Account Executives on how to sell a black radio station and more importantly, how to sell to the Urban community.  Management had evidently did their homework on me…I was up to the task and lasted 5 and a half years.   I was forced out in the end when things started to get ugly in the Radio industry.  It was transitioning to Wall Street which meant lots of mergers and the introduction of satellite radio.  Positions like mine were cut and heads rolled out the door.  My beloved Radio was becoming a part of my not too distant past and I had no choice but to finally let go…

 

I started interviewing for Account Executive positions with local television stations while I took advantage of my time off with severance pay.  A good friend of mine named Catherine (who is now one of my fav clients!) suggested I start there.  I also met with another industry friend of mine named Paul who worked in local sales for both radio and television stations and told me that it’s like “going from the basement to the penthouse.”  Paul was not wrong (smile).  I ended up back at WTNH News 8 (ABC) my first choice even though I interviewed with all of the other local network affiliates:  CBS, NBC and FOX.  WTNH News 8 was appealing to me because of my previous (and positive) work history there and because I truly loved the station and it programming  – Me and my family watched Channel 8 back in the day when I was Growing up Hollis in Groton, CT – Sports Nut.  Again, WTNH News 8 was the last tv station I interviewed with.  On purpose as I learned a lot from the other interviews and used that knowledge to convince the then Local Sales Manager to hire me in a week’s time (including getting a drug test)!  I basically said something to the affect of, you can hire me here to bring in New Business or you can watch while I bring it to your competition and he was SOLD (smile).

 

It is now 20 years later and I sell 2 local TV stations – WTNH News 8 and WCTX My TV; a station website, WTNH.com; Integrated Sponsorships for our local lifestyle show, CT Buzz; and local News and Community sponsorships.  Since we are now owned by Nexstar Media Group out of Texas, I also sell Nexstar digital products including  but not limited to SEM/SEO, Video Marketing, Email Blasts, Social Media platforms (Facebook, Instagram and You Tube) and OTT/CTV.

 

Looking back over the past 35+ years, the media industry has certainly changed.  Local media continues to evolve.  My story will not be fully written until I retire and can really kick back and look at things from a perspective not clouded by the  stress of my daily work life.  Stay tuned…

 

TVFL

 

Baby Blues

We truly enjoyed our recent vacation to the Gulf coast of Florida, namely Clearwater Beach.  Me and James stayed for 7 nights and 6 days at the Sandpearl Resort, a classy hotel on the beach featuring 253 guest rooms and suites, 2 restaurants, a coffee shop, outdoor pool, full service spa and fitness center, outdoor fire pit and plenty of family activities.

 

Sandpearl Resort lived up to its promotional video, that’s for sure!

Incidentally, in the state of Florida, all hotel patrons are automatically charged a $35 a day room fee.  According to the brochure, our daily fee at the Sandpearl Resort covered the following:

2 in room bottled waters, Wireless internet, In room coffee, pool towel services at the resort pool and beach, beach chairs for use on resort’s private beach, fitness center, bike rental at the resort, daily newspaper, shoe shine, daily turndown service, business center for computing and printing needs, unlimited local calls and toll-free number access.

This same brochure also makes it quite clear that the daily room fee does not replace tips or gratuities (smile).

But I digress…on our very first day at the resort we ate at Tate Island Grill – one of the only two restaurants at the resort – mainly because we were over tired from traveling all day and hungry as Hell (smile).  I devoured a grilled chicken salad with a large iced water while staring at the ocean in my street clothes.

 

Tate Island Grill – located right on the resort – no need to travel for good eating (smile). And we had a very nice, very attentive waitress by the name of Taylor

On our second day we went to the Activities desk where we received 2 beach loungers and free towels but were charged $30 for the beach umbrella.   We found out real soon that the sun rose early and stayed out late so the beach umbrella came in handy.  Plus, if we felt overheated, we could always cool off in the baby blue ocean water just ahead.

 

Our complimentary beach loungers and towels and our already-paid-for beach umbrellas (smile)

 

Besides the beach, we found we also liked spending time at the hotel resort pool because the restaurant and bar were so close by, the beach loungers sat close to the edge of the pool and the cool pool water felt so good on my skin (smile).

 

Pool side and loving it!

 

As far as dining out, Caretta on the Gulf held the distinction of being “Clearwater’s Triple AAA Four Diamond Restaurant.”  Lucky for us it was one of  2 restaurants on our resort.  The sushi and sashimi we ordered our first date night there was so fresh and delish, we came back a second time later in the week for more.

 

The sushi and sashimi tasted as fresh as it looks!

Caretta on the Gulf – by far our fav restaurant!

Did I mention the sunsets at Clearwater Beach?!?  They were truly an event.  People came from near and far to Pier 60 where at a certain section of the pier you are charged one dollar to view the most stunning sunsets you have probably ever seen in your life!

 

However don’t blink or you’ll miss the fiery sunset

The restaurants outside the resort were yummy and delish as well.  And there were so many to choose from,  We ate breakfasts most mornings right outside the resort at  Clear Sky Beachside Cafe.  Our breakfasts were big and consisted of 2 eggs with cheese, Turkey sausage or Applewood bacon, grits and an english muffin.  Thank God for Orangetheory Fitness Center in Hamden back home (smile).

 

Clear Sky Beachside Cafe – yummy breakfasts and convenient location

 

Could not help but take advantage of a convenient photo op (smile)

 

Most days of the week we usually skipped lunch (as we were still full from breakfast) and after a day spent at the pool or the beach, showered, dressed and headed straight to dinner.  Whether at the resort at Caretta on the Gulf or off resort at either Blinkers Beachside or Crabby’s Hideaway,  the Clearwater Beach cuisine was def worth writing home about (smile)

 

Dining out at Blinkers Beachside

 

Blinkers Beachside – delish Miso Salmon with Mushrooms and Asparagus – and I washed it all down with cool, sparkling Saratoga water – yum!

 

After dinner we either walked along the bustling lively streets of Clearwater Beach or else strolled the actual beach at sunset with shoes in hand and sugary white sand landing between our toes.

 

Ahhhh…I’ll miss the sugary white sand and fiery sunsets the most…

 

But then I’ll remember that Clearwater Beach is just a phone call away…

 

Sincerely,

 

TVFL

Divas in the desert!

There are soooooo many reasons why I love love love Las Vegas and as what usually happens with me, I discover something good later on in life. Why …

Divas in the desert!