The Big Easy

I can finally check off that I traveled to The Big Easy aka New Orleans, Louisiana while on  vacation.  Ever since I saw the movie The Big Easy starring Dennis Quaid and Ellen Barkin I’ve been so wanting to go.  That movie was a hoot! And it came out in 1986 – 39 years ago!  Then 13 years ago I saw another movie about Louisiana that resonated with me but in a much different way.  It was called Beasts of the Southern Wild and it came out in 2012.  It starred then 6 year old Quvenzhane Wallis who was nominated for Best Actress Oscar at the tender age of 9 for her groundbreaking performance.  A phenomenal movie which I will never forget.  So much so that I held off traveling to Louisiana because the movie was all about the forgotten people in the aftermath of Hurricane Katrina and I did not want to even think about the horror and destruction…So here we are in 2025 and it’s the 20th anniversary of Hurricane Katrina so of course I’m going (smile).

 

In real life I make all of the travel arrangements for me and James, my life partner, so while browsing online for hotels in the French Quarter, I searched for some place real, some place authentic, a place that would speak to the New Orleans experience.  I booked our hotel stay at The Royal Sonesta – New Orleans, a luxury hotel situated right on Bourbon Street.  I chose it so that we could truly be surrounded by all the sights and sounds of the city.  I did not choose wrong.  The Royal Sonesta – New Orleans took up a whole city block, featured a doorman and was outfitted with 3 uniquely different restaurants – Desire Oyster Bar, The Jazz Playhouse and Restaurant Revolution.  As part of it there was also a lively bar facing the street called Le Booze’ as well as  PJ’s Coffee House of New Orleans which sold coffee, sandwiches, fruit, pastries and such.  Our hotel room with an interior balcony and king sized bed was located on the 3rd floor where (lucky for us!)  The Oasis Bar at the Pool was also located and open from 7am to dusk.

 

 

Wisely enough The Royal Sonesta gave us a $15 dollar a day credit to be used at any of the aforementioned properties and we had only 6 days and 5 nights to explore the French Quarter so explore it we did (smile).

 

Sunday October 12th

Did I mention that we traveled in the month of October?  You would not have known it was October because the weather felt like late August back in New England where I’m from – here it was mid to high 80s all week long, little or no humidity and sunshine for days!

 

We checked in well after the designated time of 4pm because the hotel had a huuuuuge party the night before that had just dispersed so our rooms were not ready.  We gave them our luggage to store away and headed through the courtyard to Desire Oyster Bar to try some of those chargrilled oysters we had heard so much about from friends back home.

 

Chargrilled Oysters – yummy but salty

 

After picking up and dropping off our bags in our now finished room we headed out (by the way you do not need a car in the French Quarter as everything is accessible by foot, by pedicabs, by horse and buggy carriages, by trolley, by bus, by ferry, by boat, by Uber or by limousine.

We were starving, the dozen of chargrilled oysters were good but real salty so they just exacerbated my hunger.  We stopped at a place nearby called The House of Buns where I ordered the Red Beans and Rice.

 

 

Afterwards we walked the streets and I felt like I was in the middle of Spring Break for all ages: young, old and in between.  Lots of people walking everywhere but from what we heard the crowds were thin and nothing like what was to come, i.e., Thursday night and the weekend…

 

A looooong game of Chess with Bayou Bobby and his latest prey (smile)

 

It was around this time that I started feeling tired (I had woke up that morning at 5am for our long travel day which took us from Bradley Airport in Windsor, CT to Charlotte, North Carolina and finally to New Orleans, Louisiana) so I was beat.  Not to mention the hour time change…But nothing a hot shower and a good night’s sleep wouldn’t fix.

 

Monday, October 13th 

We woke up late on Monday morning (I think it was after 830am which is late to me since in real life I wake up at 430am 5 days a week to head to the Orangetheory gym in Hamden for a kick-a– class (smile).

We decided on visiting The Garden District on our first day so we could get closer to the water.  We took a City trolley there for one low price of $3.00 (the ticket to ride lasted all day long for trolleys and/or buses).

 

You can ride the trolley or bus all day long on any given day for just 3 dollars!

 

We were starved when we arrived in the Garden District so we rang the bell and got off in front of this cute French restaurant called La Boulangerie on Magazine Street – like a lot of the fast casual restaurants – you order your food first, take your number and find a table.  The waitress or waiter then brings your food and drink to your table.  I ordered a sausage, egg and cheese on an english muffin and a double expresso.  It was delish~

 

Delish breakfast at La Boulangerie on Magazine Street

 

We headed to the Riverwalk Mall where there were restaurants, shops and you guessed it, the river (smile).  It was another beautiful day so we walked the boardwalk, went window shopping in the mall and then headed out to Caesar’s Casino to get our gambling on.

 

Loved the Riverwalk Mall

 

Caesar’s Casino – not so much…

 

We did not feel like waiting for a trolley car or bus to arrive so on the way back we caught a pedicab for just $20 bucks and our driver pedaled us back to the hotel in no time.

 

Our Nola pedicab driver

 

After a quick shower and fresh clothes,  we headed out for dinner and this time we dined at Nola because they had an upstairs balcony with al fresco dining so we could people watch while we ate.

 

 

Then we bar hopped (not for drinks but for live bands and karaoke) and were back in our hotel room by midnight.

 

 

Tuesday October 14th

We ate breakfast at the hotel this morning – Desire Oyster Bar (yes, they serve breakfast too!).  I had a huge bowl of steel cut oats with candied pralines, brown sugar and raisins and a large coffee.   It was delish!

 

Desire serves breakfast, lunch and dinner and even boasts a happy hour!

 

After breakfast we spent the day poolside at The Oasis Bar at the Pool to soak up the sun and relax before taking a shower, changing our clothes and heading out to Mother’s Restaurant.  My girlfriend Jeani in Atlanta works for Delta Airlines and she and her husband Brian travel everywhere so when she makes a recommendation, we listen (smile).  We walked to the restaurant as it was only about 12 minutes away.  It was crowded!  We waited in the ordering line, took our number and looked for a table way in the back because the front of the restaurant was already jam packed with people.  I had Jerry’s Jambalaya with cabbage and red beans and rice.  I drank iced water with lemon (actually I drank iced water with lemon with all of my meals as number 1: I don’t drink alcohol anymore and number 2: I knew I would be consuming an extraordinary amount of food on this vacay (smile).

 

 

 

At night we bar hopped again (for live music and karaoke) and found a spot where the singer originally from New Orleans had a rich and powerful voice.  We stayed out that night ’till 11pm then went back to our room and hung out on our balcony deck which faced the courtyard, not the street.

 

The hotel room door which led to our balcony

 

Wednesday October `15th

We woke up late again and headed to Desire Oyster Bar for breakfast where I had the same thing – a huge bowl of steel cut oatmeal with candied pralines, brown sugar and raisins.  Then we headed to the Nola Visitor Center to buy 2 tickets to an Airboat Swamp Tour (James’s pick).  We purposely opted to not go on a lot of tours for this trip as we felt as if we could navigate the city without them.  But this tour spoke to James so I agreed (smile).

Our Swamp tour was on a small airboat which carried up to 10 passengers.  With transportation to the pier and the tour it cost us $119 per person.  It was worth it though because we went deep into the swamp and stayed for almost 2 hours with a tour guide who was native to the area – 5th generation bayou family member – he regaled us with stories of him and his friends hanging out in the swamp when they were little boys looking for alligators and snakes.  He called the swamp his “backyard.”  I called him our Crocodile Dundee (smile).

 

Crocodile Dundee (smile)

 

The picture that was made for us before we even stepped into the Airboat (smile).

 

The alligators loved the marshmallows we fed them because of their white color

 

For lunch we found a cool looking restaurant called Crescent City Brewhouse on Decatur Street where I ordered the wild tagliatelle pasta with grilled chicken and a side salad.

 

 

Fun Fact:  Our waiter, Joshua G. was also a budding actor.  He told us he was on pins and needles about a 2nd call back he just received for a role he was praying about and then told us he played the Jamaican dude in Kevin Hart and Will Ferrell’s Get Hard movie.  I googled “Jamaican in Get Hard with Kevin Hart” later that day and watched Joshua’s scene with a big smile on my face.  He was very good!

 

After we ate we went out for a long walk where we ran into the Louie Armstrong Park and more street performers.  Even one who sounded like so much like John Legend that we thought the outdoor restaurant was playing his song, Ordinary People on loud speakers.  It was another beautiful day.

 

I notice there is a lot of talent in this town – American Idol should take notice – this singer sounds just like John Legend~

 

We then took the trolley back to Bourbon Street and walked into a record store called Peaches Records!  I was so surprised because it’s not every day you see a record store in a city.  As it turned out, this record store was unique in that it used to be a Woolworth’s Store back in the 1960s where one of the more notable sit-ins took place.  Seven students staged a sit-in at the Woolworths lunch counter to protest racial segregation.

 

 

Thursday October 16th

We were running out of time but could not leave New Orleans without at least trying a beignet – so many people, including my gym friend Penthy, told me how goooood the beignet was.  As it turned out there was a Cafe Beignet right across from our hotel.  At this Cafe Beignet the  dining was al fresco and it featured live jazz musicians, in this case a 3 piece band.  I had scrambled eggs with white cheddar cheese and bacon on a plain bagel with black coffee.  James had 3 different flavored beignets so I took a bite out of one of his beignets (smile).  It was tasty for sure.

 

 

That night for dinner we ate at Acme Restaurant which my gym friend Anne M. highly recommended.  We had tried to go to Acme Restaurant on Monday night but there was a large water main break that night which shut down all of the restaurants and bars on the street.  The TV news reporter was there interviewing one of the chefs so I had to smile since I’m in the TV industry.

 

Can’t go anywhere without seeing a TV news reporter (smile)

 

Anyway, we waited in line at Acme because it was so popular and then were seated in the back.  I enjoyed the seafood medley which was well worth the wait.

 

 

That night we listened to live jazz music but this time at The Jazz Playhouse in our hotel.  I drank 2 mocktails as we listened to the sounds of The Brass-A-Holics.  This group was incredible as they all played musical instruments including the saxophone which is my personal favorite. I would have taken pictures of these gorgeous male musicians but my phone had died – bummer!   At the end of the night The Brass-A-Holics summoned everyone out of their seats to follow them around the restaurant where we all marched/danced to When the Saints Go Marching In.  It was another memorable evening spent with people whom I’ll probably never see again in my life (smile).

 

Friday October 17th

Travel day – I have to note: Traveling by air today is exhausting and it really tries your nerves – we almost missed our connection two times (one time on the way to Louisiana, one time on the way back from Louisiana) through no fault of our own.   Another thing –  on the flight headed to New Orleans our Pilot informed us that he thought he was going home after his shift had ended but was asked at the last minuteto stay on and take our flight so I’m thinking, Oh no, he’s really tired… Anyway, he then proceeded to tell us that 3 things needed to be fixed before we could actually take off so our flight would be delayed but he would keep us posted as each one was completed.  He came back after each one was completed to let us know the status.  On the 3rd “thing” he accidentally said it was ‘good enough’ and then changed it to mean it easily passed all of the tests but all I kept thinking was ‘good enough.’  Yikes!  As it turned out, God protected us and got us back safely so I really have nothing to complain about right?!? (smile).

 

At any rate, here are my memories of New Orleans in October:

Beautiful sunny and hot weather

Bare legged tattooed ladies

Daiquiris and pizza shops

Jello Shots

Po’Boys

Loud competing music in the streets

Independent art galleries in the Art District

Apartments, condos and homes with unique architecture and ironwork balconies

Street sweepers in the early morning cleaning up the mess from the night before

Poverty stricken children of color drumming on empty canisters for dollars

Homeless sleeping in the street

Young male street performers holding court on Bourbon Street while entertaining the crowds

Caleb the funny doorman at The Royal Sonesta

 

Sincerely,

 

TVFL

 

Island Hopper

I was born in a blizzard in Newport, RI on Valentines Day, 1962 so it comes as no surprise to anyone that I have spent the majority of my birthdays bundled up in winter coats, gloves, scarves and snow boots.  So this year, as my 63rd Vday Bday was fast approaching, I decided to switch things up and spend my special day sunbathing in the United States Virgin Islands.

For our 7 days/6 nights island getaway, James and I departed Bradley International Airport on Sunday February 9th and returned on Saturday February 15th.   By the way, it snowed in Connecticut both ways (smile).

St. Thomas was our island dream destination, but we had previously discussed that while on this island we would travel by ferry on day trips throughout the week to both St. Johns, USVI and Jost Van Dyke, BVI.  My mother-in-law Irene, who was born in St. Thomas but grew up in Jost Van Dyke, reminded us to bring our passports.  I’m so glad she did as we would not have gotten on that island without them.  Jost Van Dyke is part of the British Virgin Islands (BVI) so you need your passport to get through Customs and Immigration.

We rented a car for this vacation which we picked up at the airport (it makes sense to rent a car on St. Thomas because there are no Ubers or Lyfts and taxis can get pretty pricey pretty quick) and James drove us on the wrong side of the road (smile) to our hotel, the Island View Guesthouse.  We normally stay in resorts when we travel to tropical islands and if necessary, we get around by Uber or Lyft so it felt different staying in an actual hotel and using a rental car.  What really sold me on this particular hotel was the free daily breakfasts, plus the hotel’s proximity to downtown Charlotte Amalie which featured a waterfront, local shops and restaurants and nearby beaches.

 

Our rental car in St. Thomas – a brand new 2025 Nissan Sentra

 

Our hotel suite at the Island View Guesthouse – a funny story – not so funny at the time…

 

 

 

 

 

 

Since I used a 3rd party app (Expedia) to book our travel, I chose the bundle package which in our case consisted of airfare (United Airlines), a hotel (the Island View Guesthouse) and a car (Budget Car Rental).  I would not recommend using a 3rd party app to book your travel anywhere because as I found out from Libby, the friendly and accessible owner of  the Island View Guesthouse, the 3rd party app folks take 20 to 30 percent off the top of your bundle packages which in my case meant we were put into the tiniest room at the hotel with no amenities and the car we rented came without GPS.  James quickly took care of the hotel room issue the very  next morning when he had a talk with Eileen, the Island View Guesthouse Manager.  Eileen was a dream – she not only upgraded us to the largest suite in the hotel for 3 nights, but she also managed to upgrade us into 2 more spacious hotel rooms over the final 2 nights of our week long vacation.  Libby, the hotel owner, arrived with her Executive Chef Husband Marshall on the Wednesday of our vacation and ensured that the remainder of my Vday Bday week went off  without a hitch.  Libby and I hit it off right away and even shared a similar sober conscious story that begun at the height of the Pandemic.  I can’t begin to thank both Eileen the Manager and Libby the Owner for attending to all of our needs and would highly recommend anyone looking to book a hotel on St. Thomas to make their reservations at the boutique style Island View Guesthouse.

 

The view of Charlotte Amalie from our hotel room window

 

Sunday — Day 1 – Travel Day

All things considered, the trip to St. Thomas, VI from Bradley International Airport in Windsor Locks, CT was not too shabby.  There were no delays and the time spent in the air was, for the most part, uneventful.  We flew from Windsor, Connecticut to Washington, D.C. in record time and the same can be said for our 2nd flight from Washington D.C. to St. Thomas, VI.

The very first restaurant we ate at was The Greenhouse – it was okay – popular for tourists because of its location…

 

My dinner at The Greenhouse – I was starving so anything would have tasted good – and St. Thomas is one hour ahead of Connecticut so I was “hangry” by then (smile)

 

Monday – Day 2 (Coki Beach at Coral World on St. Thomas)

Coki Beach is a small and very quaint public beach on St. Thomas (one of the 11 beaches on the island!).  The sand is silky smooth and the water, crystal clear.  We rented a large beach umbrella and 2 beach chair loungers for just $40 dollars.  Thank goodness we did because it rained off and on all day with blustery winds.  The large umbrella saved us from running back to our car for cover.

 

All smiles in between the raindrops at Coki Beach

 

What I could not help but notice at Coki Beach were all of the yachts that were parked in the beautiful crystal blue water annoyingly blocking our view…

 

Tuesday – Day 3  (Trunk Bay on St. Johns)

The first of two day trips that week was to St. Johns.  And everything I heard about it was true.  It is truly paradise, the weather was picture perfect and it was not too crowded.  We drove to the Red Hook marina to catch our island ferry – the round trip fare was only 16 dollars and the entire ferry ride took all of 20 minutes.  We then caught a trolley/cab to Trunk Bay (one of the 10 beaches on the island!) and spent the entire afternoon there.  Trunk Bay Beach is gorgeous with fine, silky smooth sand and crystal clear baby blue water.  It was 80 degrees outside but the sun did not seem that strong so we laid out on our beach blankets and soaked it up.

Love the contrast of the green mountains against the crystal blue waters

This soft and supple sand feels so good between my toes

 

James taking a quick nap

 

The snack bar where we ordered lunch – the food was soooo good! There were outdoor Tiki bars selling exotic drinks but I did not indulge since I gave up alcohol 5 years ago at the onset of the Covid 19 Pandemic…

 

Wednesday – Day 4 – Downtown St. Thomas  – Charlotte Amalie  (Walking on the Waterfront, Shopping for gear and Lunch at Gladys Restaurant)

Wednesday was primarily a rainy day (way too much rain to dry up on the beach) so we turned it into a shopping day – there are a ton of shops downtown in Charlotte Amalie (mostly local merchants) selling lots of wares.  By the way, if you are looking for any kind of jewelry, downtown Charlotte Amalie is the place to be to buy gold, silver and diamonds all in one central area and best of all everything is tax free!

 

James and I finally seated at Gladys’s Restaurant (smile).

 

Gladys’s Restaurant did not disappoint – I all but inhaled the brown stew chicken, plantains, fresh cabbage and peas and rice!

 

Thursday – Day 5 (Magens Bay Beach on St. Thomas)

We spent our 2nd to last day at Magens Bay Beach which had come well recommended by the trip advisors.  It truly is a beautiful must see and do beach. Magens Bay was super crowded the day we arrived with rows and rows of beach chairs and umbrellas lined up in formation.  There was also a sun and surf rental shop, a souvenir shop and an indoor/outdoor bar and grille.  Lots going on.  We were in the mood for peace and quiet that day so we headed further down the mile long beach where there were no beach chairs, and very few people.  Another well thought out idea…

 

 

That evening we went out for a late dinner in downtown Charlotte Amalie to a restaurant that was recommended by one of the locals in town.  It was called the Sugarcane Grille at Bunker Hill.  It was way up a hill on a narrow winding road with no parking.  We lucked out though because we managed to squeeze our rental car into a tight space.  The restaurant was so cute.  We had to walk a bunch of stairs to get there but at the top was the dining room with a view of a well-lit swimming pool.  The food was awesome.  Our super friendly waiter even talked me into a delish mocktail made with Ginger, yummy!

 

Love the ambience in the dining room and the Caribbean dishes were delish!

 

Friday – Day 6 – My Vday Bday – Jost Van Dykes, British Virgin Islands

We popped out of bed at 530am that morning to catch the 730am ferry leaving from Red Dock marina to Jost Van Dyke, BVI.   There are only 3 ferry rides a week to Jost Van Dyke so if you miss one, you have to wait a few days for the next one.  It’s much more involved than going to St. Johns.  First of all you need your passport.  Second it’ll cost you $120 round trip per Adult to ride the ferry plus 10 dollars to enter the island and 20 dollars to exit it.  Third, you have 7 hours on the island to spend as you wish and believe me, the time flies by.  We spent half the day on White Bay beach which we had to catch a cab from the harbor to get to.  White Bay beach was breathtakingly beautiful. I felt like I was in a Hollywood movie because it painted the picture of a true tropical beach scene.  There  was so much all at once to take in.  And the beach wasn’t even crowded!

 

White Bay beach has beauty written all over it! By far my most favorite beach this week! So happy I got to spend my Valentines Day Birthday there.

I kept pinching myself – I could not believe how beautiful and uncrowded White Bay Beach was!

 

I had to take a picture in front of Gertrudes – a landmark and treasure – in spite of the perfectly set up photo op (smile)

 

The second half of our day was spent at Great Harbor – we were on a mission to grab lunch at Pinky’s restaurant and we could not leave without visiting the likes of Foxy’s Restaurant Bar and Grille!

 

Pinky’s Restaurant was easy to spot – love the Caribbean themed spot and enjoyed meeting and chatting with Pinky herself

 

Pinky herself cooked us her signature dish while chatting it up

 

Our official Ferry boat to Jost Van Dyke

 

Our ferry ride back from St. John to St. Thomas – feeling sunburnt but accomplished

Day 7 – Saturday – Travel Back Home

We purposely took our sweet time on Saturday morning because our flight was not leaving until 3pm and we would not arrive into Connecticut until 12midnight.  We realized we had a long day of travel ahead of us which included 3 airplane trips this time around – St. Thomas, Virgin Islands to San Juan, Puerto Rico; San Juan, Puerto Rico to Washington, D.C.; and finally Washington, D.C. to Windsor Locks, CT.  We spent the better part of the morning shopping in downtown Charlotte Amalie at one of our fav surf shops, Ocean Surfari, which,lucky for us, was having a huge storewide sale.   Then we picked up our lunch at a local grocer.  We arrived at the airport at 115pm and dropped off our rental car so we could relax, eat and soak up a little sun before we headed to Cape Air Airlines to check in.  This is where the disconnect happened.  Neither one of us realized that because we were flying from St. Thomas, VI to San Juan, PR it would be necessary to go through Customs and Immigration so consequently, after we checked in at Cape Air Airlines, we were told to get in line with the rest of the travelers.  The said line was super long and wrapped around and around  and around the airport about 3 times!   I looked at my Fitbit and it said 215pm which meant we had all of 45 minutes to catch our 3pm flight.  There was no way in Hell we were going to make that flight.  After about 10 minutes panic started to set in and James said ‘why don’t you call Cape Air and see if there is something they can do to get us to the front of the line?’  I looked at my Fitbit again – it was 230pm now and I saw 3 missed calls from Cape Air.  I immediately called them back and explained that we were stuck in line and was there anything they could do for us.  They said they would send someone to get us but we could not find that person and ended up trying to move through the line ourselves as time was ticking by.  I said a quick prayer to God and the rest of the time was a blur as we were pushed and pulled and stopped and started before we found ourselves at the point where you take your shoes off and load your stuff into gray bins.  One of the airport workers familiar with our situation stopped us and told us that we were wasting our time, it was 250pm and our plane was now preparing to leave without us.  We felt dejected but went through the motions of looking for and finding our original departure gate.  When we arrived to that gate an employee mysteriously appeared out of nowhere and told us that this never happens but they had a backup plane outside and a pilot who would get us to San Juan well in time for our Washington, D.C. connection!   The pilot had a Cessna 402 and James and I  were the only 2 passengers on board.  The pilot flew 6500 feet up in the air to San Juan, Puerto Rico in 35 minutes!  Not only did we make our next connection to Washington, D.C., but we were only a half hour behind what would have been our original time of arrival to San Juan airport!  I thanked God for answering my prayers so quickly and thanked the pilot of Cape Air Airlines for safely flying and landing us.

 

Too Blessed to be Stressed – at this point of the trip I am still pinching myself as we travel on what is now a tiny aircraft from St. Thomas VI to San Juan, PR – this flight took just 35 minutes and was truly a Godsend…

Cheers to our next Great Adventure!

 

Sincerely,

 

TVFL

SAT, A surprise to me!

San Antonio, Texas (SAT)

My most recent mini vacay was to San Antonio, Texas which is located in South Central Texas with a population of 1.5 million people.  San Antonio is 150 miles from the Mexican border and to say the Tex Mex influence is strong would simply be an understatement (smile).  Why San Antonio?   Well, because my fraternal twin nephews, Marcus and Marshall who will be 40 this year, have been living there for well over a decade and up until this point, I had yet to visit them.   Their sister and my niece, Dimitrica, who will be 46 this year and resides in North Carolina with her husband and son, arranged to meet me so we could share a hotel room.  This was to be a short trip but one where we planned on lots of  family fun, bonding and catching up on lost time.

 

La Fogata with L to R: Marcus, Me, Marshall, Dimitrica

 

Our very first meal when we arrived was at a restaurant called La Fogata.  Dan Fenyn, my sales manager Jocelyn Fenyn’s husband, highly recommended it.  Dan was not wrong,  not only was the food we ordered delish but the ambience spoke to a highly authentic and true Mexican experience.

 

Standing in the doorway of La Fogata

 

My dish at La Fogata – Cheese quesadillas with specially seasoned shrimp and spinach

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

Canopy by Hilton San Antonio Riverwalk

This is the hotel I booked for our 4 day, 3 night stay.   I purposely chose this hotel because it is across the street from the Riverwalk plus it is right in downtown San Antonio where all the restaurants, shops and outdoor activity were located.  Plus we needed a place that we could easily walk to and from.  It’s amazing what you can do in a 4-day weekend (Friday  – Monday) trip when you travel from another coast and are given an extra hour to work with (smile).

 

Canopy by Hilton San Antonio Riverwalk
Clean room, comfy beds, nice showers and strong coffee

 

Modes of transportation

We noticed there were may different modes of transportation for those people who were not driving.   Scooter rentals, Electric bike rentals, even Segway rentals lined the downtown streets.   I could not help but notice the very large, very loud pick-up trucks flying up and down the downtown streets adding to the traffic congestion.

 

Electric bikes for rent

Scooters for rent

And I was blown away by the carriage rides populating downtown streets – so many at once and all decorated in different seasonal themes and colors!  It seemed like everywhere we turned we would come upon a family or a couple or a group of friends on a horse drawn carriage ride!  At nighttime it was super cool to see because the carriage was now brightly lit with different colored lights and music played throughout.  I looked at what it cost to take a ride on the horse drawn carriage:  $75 dollars for 1 person and $35 dollars for each person thereafter for a 20 minute ride.  $100 dollars for 1 person and $50 dollars for each person thereafter for a 30 minute ride.  And one child rides free with each paying adult.

 

From daytime to nighttime, these horse carriage rides suited everyone’s wish lists

 

The Alamo

Aptly described as an “18th century Spanish mission preserved as a museum.”  We could not leave San Antonio without at least visiting The Alamo.  It was just as I expected…

 

The Alamo

 

The Canopy hotel restaurants

Another reason me and Dimitrica  enjoyed staying at the Canopy was because you did not have to leave the hotel for good breakfast food.   We ate hearty breakfasts every morning at Domingo Restaurante and for nighttime mocktails, the rooftop deck at Otro was the place to hang out and relax after a fun-filled busy day.

 

Domingo Restaurante by day

 

Texas sized bowls of oatmeal for breakfast at Domingo!

Otro on the rooftop at night for mocktails and apps

The Riverwalk

We discovered the San Antonio Riverwalk on our second day.   It had become a source of conversation to me by so many people the very second I mentioned I was visiting family in San Antonio.  The Riverwalk is just like it sounds.  It’s a miles-long pedestrian walkway with a river running through it.  It is truly underground so you have to get to it by taking steps down from the street.  The river is surrounded by restaurants, cafes, bistros, shops, retail clothing stores, boutique hotels and the like.  Every time we walked down the steps to the Riverwalk, (for short cuts or to find a new shop) we would see masses of people browsing around, shopping, eating and/or sight seeing.

 

My niece at the top of the stairs

 

Me at the top of the walkway from The Riverwalk

 

Go Rio

While walking around the Riverwalk, we kept seeing river boat cruises filled with tourists passing us by.  We were told by the hotel staff that if we decide to take a river cruise we should to catch one at night as it’s cooler in temperature, the boat is well lit and decorated and music is played throughout the promenade.  We finally took them up on it on Day 3 of 4 – the 35 minuted guided tour was so fun and festive and the cost was a small $14.00 per person!

 

Our young and very comedic Go-Rio tour guide kept us in stitches the entire ride!

Passing another passenger-packed Go Rio cruise boat while on our own tour

 

La Cantera Resort and Spa

We purchased a Resort Day Pass for $65 (Marshall’s brilliant idea) to the La Cantera Resort and Spa.  This luxury resort and spa is known for its private villas, fine dining, wellness spas, championship golf and celebrity sightings.  By purchasing a Resort Day Pass we were able to have access to the pool side of things.  So on day 3 we spent half the day poolside where we enjoyed the infiniti pool, delicious  lunch and laying out on lounge chairs.  We also took advantage of the hot tub where we met a loud and raucous middle aged man who was pretty accurate at guessing our personality traits (smile).   At the lazy river pool we played pool games with floaties and then rode down what were kiddie slides just for Ha Ha’s.

 

Well maintained Infiniti pool

 

Pool games, fabulous food and lots of fun

 

Making memories poolside at La Cantera Resort and Spa

 

Pandora’s Bookstore & Coffee Bar/Pure Aloha Bath & Beauty

Marshall (my nephew and our unofficial tour guide) told us about an African-American owned bookstore-cafe downtown which collaborated on space with a natural plant based beauty, cosmetic and personal care shop.  We were so impressed when we stepped into this cute shop which had a nice collection of goods and a real positive vibe.  I enjoyed meeting the owners (who have now become good friends) of both of these shops as they complement each other in the best way.  Be sure to check them out if you visit San Antonio as you will not be disappointed.

 

I had a Deja Vu moment when I met Barbara Thomas the bookstore cafe owner – I can’t explain it – I just felt like that scene had already played out…
Enjoyed meeting and chatting with the owner of Pure Aloha. She is a wife, mother, and now small business owner living the dream

 

Bohanan’s

Bohanan’s (another Marshall pick) was a place Dimitrica and I had walked by during our daily recreational walks throughout downtown.  The storefront truly did not do it any justice as when we entered the jazz supper club and restaurant, we were pleasantly surprised by piano bar and the funky vibe.  I ordered a mocktail garnished with jalapeño peppers and Marshall and Dee each had a specialty expresso martini drink.

 

The exterior of Bohanon’s

 

Mocktails and Cocktails at Bohanon’s Jazz club

 

Marcus’s family home

My nephew Marcus, his wife Asuka and kids live in a house in the suburbs of San Antonio.  His wife was gracious enough to offer up a traditional japanese meal made from scratch.  We had the best time at their house that day.  It rained for a spell so we stayed inside and ate handmade Sushi and Sashimi and Tofu Salad with sesame seed dressing and a deliciously prepared thinly cut beef ribs and chicken.  I ate 2 plates and then understood why Marcus said he does not eat out at restaurants anymore (smile).  We also played games with the kids in the game room which featured game chairs for Street Fighters, a basketball net and more.

 

Family pictures – making memories in San Antonio

 

This is all homemade Japanese cuisine – courtesy of Marcus’s wife Asuka – can’t blame him for not wanting to eat out anymore (smile)

 

Historic Market Square

Ironically the evening Dimitrica and I decided to walk to this collection of restaurants and shops in an indoor space, mostly all of the shops were closed.  Not too surprising though because it was a Sunday night and it was about 10pm…However the much talked about Mi Tierra Cafe and Bakery was still open which pleased Dimitrica, who was in search of the authentic Mexican Hot Chocolate and a sweet treat to go with it.   The lively decor featured live Mexican music,  mariachi dancers, a fun atmosphere, costumed staff and instagram-worthy photo backdrops!  Oh and Dimitrica said the hot chocolate was delish!

I feel like me and Dimitrica were right inside of a festive carinival!

 

Mi Tierra is known not just for their delish authentic Mexican cuisine but also for their lively atmosphere

 

Centro San Antonio

One of the most interesting things I discovered during my quick trip to San Antonio is that there are a group of uniformed ambassadors called Centro San Antonio who are based downtown and work to keep it clean, safe and welcoming for the merchants as well as City visitors.  Whether you are looking for directions to someplace or need assistance or information,  they are trained to help.  As it turns out, there are a number of homeless people in this large City who live downtown so another very important part of Centro’s mission is to offer them a safe place to live, food to eat, clothing to wear, a drug free program if needed and a safe space where they feel welcome.  Sixto or “Six,” as he is referred to on the street, was a welcoming source of information to me and my niece while we walked around downtown.

 

Centro Ambassador Sixto

 

This Centro Ambassador set-up is for the homeless when they are thirsty and looking for a free bottle of cold water

 

TV News station

I work in local sales at an ABC affiliated TV news station in New Haven, CT called WTNH News 8 so whenever I travel, I always look to see what the local news looks and feels like.  Here is a snapshot of what I saw in in San Antonio:

 

Good Morning San Antonio

 

And finally,  if you are looking for an affordable place to live and work, my nephews (who both work in IT) tell me that San Antonio fits the bill.  Housing is cheaper, jobs are available, ethnic food is plentiful, there’s lots to see and do and the residents are friendly.  I am so glad I finally made the trip.

 

Sincerely,

 

 

TVFL

No Shoveling Sunshine

Me and my man just returned from a 6 day 5 night vacay to the sunshine state of Florida.  We chose Pompano Beach in Fort Lauderdale on the East Coast for this  trip because we had most recently (back in May of 2019) traveled to the West Coast and stayed on St. Pete’s Beach in Clearwater.

My 58th birthday was another reason why we chose this destination.  Instead of taking turns shoveling snow with our teeth chattering in the wind and/or  dealing with the super drab Winter blahs,  we opted instead to celebrate my Valentines Day Birthday in 80 degree weather along with the cool breezes of the Atlantic ocean.

Besides, there’s no shoveling sunshine right (smile).

Our travel agent Karen made all of the arrangements once she learned of our needs: namely warm sunny weather, cool ocean breezes, nearby golf courses,  outdoor music, a decent nightlife, good restaurants, sightseeing and shopping.

We stayed at the Marriott Pompano Beach Resort and Spa in a standard King room with ocean views.

 

 

You could literally see the ocean from our small balcony…

 

 

A view of our hotel through the swaying palm trees

 

And the Concierge James truly lived up to the reputation of his position.

 

Pompano Beach time – Day 1- soaking up the Sun is one of my fave things to do at the beach

 

Nice and hottt – 80’s perfect beach weather

 

Loved the resort lounge chairs all set up for us at the beach and on prime real estate

 

On our first night (of Day 1) we dined at And Fish Kitchen and Bar (the Marriott Hotel Restaurant and Bar)

 

 

Our waiter Chris at And Fish Kitchen and Bar was spectacular!

Our Waiter rocked and he introduced us to Meiomi wine which we loved!

 

Day 2 – Carlucci’s Trattoria – a Pompano Beach Restaurant  – I was famished after walking a couple of miles and this place hit the spot!

 

 

We enjoyed al fresco dining on the street while under a big umbrella

 

Seaside Grill – Pompano Beach restaurant (night of Day 2)

 

Our Concierge James recommended this restaurant which was quite literally up the street from our hotel

 

We were not disappointed as the ambience was comfy cool and the food and wine delish!

 

Day 3 – 9Face Sushi – another Pompano Beach restaurant – dining al fresco – out here it seems as if everyone and their grandmother owns a dog (smile)

 

9Face Sushi – in the corner of this pix

 

By the way, even though we were on vacay we still took the time every day to work out in the hotel gym

 

The fact that the hotel gym faced the ocean was a pleasant surprise

 

On Day 4 we Uber’d over to Nauti Dawg Marina Cafe in Lighthouse Point – a restaurant my friend and former News 8 co-worker Terri recommended.

 

Couldn’t go all the way to the East Coast of Florida without looking up my good friend and former co-worker Terri Guerra and her husband Paul Guerra. We all met for a fab lunch at the Newt Dawg Marina Cafe – a must try restaurant 😎

 

Sun Surf Sand (S3)  – Fort Lauderdale Beach (night of Day 4)

S3 came highly recommended by another News 8 former co-worker – we were late to the party so to speak so we could not get inside but we still enjoyed drinks and apps in front of the restaurant🥰.

 

 

Pompano Beach Municipal Golf Course – on Day 5 it was not as windy as the first half of the week so we decided to borrow clubs, buy balls and tees and go golfing up the street at the municipal course

 

Rusty but ready to play – not used to golfing with borrowed clubs either (smile)

 

Speaking of weather – It was in the mid 70’s the first half of the week with strong winds and the early 80s the second half…

 

This is what weather looked like in South Florida (smile)

Traffic – It wasn’t really a concern for us as we Uber’d everywhere (smile)

This is what traffic looked like in South Florida (smile)

 

Day 5 – Delray Beach  – this town was highly recommended by Karen our travel agent because it offered up the type of vacation lifestyle we were seeking – so we ended up spending the entire day here…

 

Loved Delray beach!

 

This strip reminded me of California with the palm trees and all

 

We had just missed seeing Coco Gauff play at home by a week!

One of Delray Beach’s many cruise boats

We love, love, love oysters so City Oysters was an obvious choice for drinks and apps

 

For dinner we decided on Italian at Vic and Angelo’s – it was decent

 

Our last night in Pompano Beach…

 

Cocktails outside on the moonlit deck of the Marriott hotel tiki bar and later, a warm inviting hot tub.

 

The End (sigh…)

 

 

Getting my game on: Golf Fore Women 201 & 301

Yikes,  it is hard to believe that it’s November already and 2019 is coming to a close.  I feel like this year flew by and the top 3 goals I set for myself in the month of January were stabbed at but not completely realized…check out my blog post: .My Top 3 Goals in the New Year

I do, however, have something I’m particularly proud of this year:  namely improving on my game of Golf.

Thanks to the Lyman Orchards Golf Center I spent the majority of my Summer and more than half of my Fall golfing.   And Summer started late this year in Connecticut  – remember the month of May?!?   I had to count it out for starting play as it was rainy and miserable.   Consequently I did not pick up my clubs until mid-June but then I made up for it by playing until the last weekend of October.

I learned a lot this year both on the course and off.   I had previously taken Golf Fore Women 101 (last September 2018) so some of what I learned this year felt like a refresher course but in a good way – check out my blog post:  Ready Fore Golf

However, the majority of what I learned I took and turned into real application on the course.   And I had the added benefit of being taught and supervised by the award-winning LPGA Class A Teaching Professional Marissa Kulig Crow as well as her 2 trusty teammates Dan Hannibal and Andra Frappier…

 

LPGA Class A Teaching Professional Marissa Kulig Crow and her trusty teammates Dan and Andra

 

June

 

Ladies bonding over the game of golf (smile)

 

The Fab 4 –  Jill, Lajeune, Mary Ann and Tina plus one- Amy (smile)

July

 

Golf 4 Women 201 with LPGA Teaching Pro Marissa Kulig Crow in black

 

Club selection with LPGA Teaching Pro Marissa Kulig Crow

 

I’ll never forget this day – the hottest day that Summer  (Saturday July 20th) and we were playing 9 holes on Apple 9 and dying!

 

Another successful day on the Apple 9 course!

 

Ending the day with my old starter set of golf clubs – they served me well

 

August

 

Golf Fore Women 301 – the Apple 9 golf course is our classroom now (smile)

 

Coincidentally my workplace (News 8 Television) had a client golf tournament in August which I had the distinct pleasure of playing in with my own clients as opposed to driving the beverage cart (smile).

 

 

Me and my bf at Sleeping Giant – I did not play the Apple 9 on this particular day as Sleeping Giant golf course in Hamden is mere minutes away from my house and therefore now considered my “home course”

 

September

 

Loved Practice with a Pro with our trainer Dan Hannibal because we had the opportunity to work on our golf weaknesses

One on one make-up session with Marissa

 

In the game of golf, it is not uncommon for the club to pair you and your golf mate with another 2 some so that you become a 4 some and keep up with the pace of play. Especially 9 hole courses like Apple 9 where you get a volume of players in a short span of time.  We made fast friends with this 2 some and found we had a lot in common – you never know who you are going to be paired with and they could concievably become lifelong friends (smile)

 

October

 

My golf partner today is Mary Ann (a fav of mine) and one of the Fab 4 (smile)

The Fab 4 (Lajeune, Mary Ann, Jill and Tina) finally together again  and ready to play for real on The Players course at Lyman

 

It was a very light day on The Players course so Fab 4 had a chance to cut up (smile)

Me and my neighbor Margot and Jill (of the aforementioned Fab 4) on the very last day of golf for the season (October 31st). In New England its still sunny in the Fall but there are so many leaves on the ground it makes it difficult to find your ball – not counting the chilly weather!

Sooooo…I finally broke down at the end of October and invested in some new clubs.  And I actually played with them the last 2 weekends of the month.  I must admit that my game has improved with my new set of clubs (smile).   Not trying to rush time but I sure can’t wait ’till next Summer (double smile).

 

My old starter clubs

 

My new set of Ping golf clubs custom made for me

 

Sincerely,

 

 

TVFL