Yikes, it is hard to believe that it’s November already and 2019 is coming to a close. I feel like this year flew by and the top 3 goals I set for myself in the month of January were stabbed at but not completely realized…check out my blog post: .My Top 3 Goals in the New Year
I do, however, have something I’m particularly proud of this year: namely improving on my game of Golf.
Thanks to the Lyman Orchards Golf Center I spent the majority of my Summer and more than half of my Fall golfing. And Summer started late this year in Connecticut – remember the month of May?!? I had to count it out for starting play as it was rainy and miserable. Consequently I did not pick up my clubs until mid-June but then I made up for it by playing until the last weekend of October.
I learned a lot this year both on the course and off. I had previously taken Golf Fore Women 101 (last September 2018) so some of what I learned this year felt like a refresher course but in a good way – check out my blog post: Ready Fore Golf
However, the majority of what I learned I took and turned into real application on the course. And I had the added benefit of being taught and supervised by the award-winning LPGA Class A Teaching Professional Marissa Kulig Crow as well as her 2 trusty teammates Dan Hannibal and Andra Frappier…
LPGA Class A Teaching Professional Marissa Kulig Crow and her trusty teammates Dan and Andra
June
Ladies bonding over the game of golf (smile)
The Fab 4 – Jill, Lajeune, Mary Ann and Tina plus one- Amy (smile)
July
Golf 4 Women 201 with LPGA Teaching Pro Marissa Kulig Crow in black
Club selection with LPGA Teaching Pro Marissa Kulig Crow
I’ll never forget this day – the hottest day that Summer (Saturday July 20th) and we were playing 9 holes on Apple 9 and dying!
Another successful day on the Apple 9 course!
Ending the day with my old starter set of golf clubs – they served me well
August
Golf Fore Women 301 – the Apple 9 golf course is our classroom now (smile)
Coincidentally my workplace (News 8 Television) had a client golf tournament in August which I had the distinct pleasure of playing in with my own clients as opposed to driving the beverage cart (smile).
Me and Elisabeth
Evie, Elisabeth and me
Our golf cart at the News 8 golf tournament
Me and my bf at Sleeping Giant – I did not play the Apple 9 on this particular day as Sleeping Giant golf course in Hamden is mere minutes away from my house and therefore now considered my “home course”
September
Loved Practice with a Pro with our trainer Dan Hannibal because we had the opportunity to work on our golf weaknesses
One on one make-up session with Marissa
In the game of golf, it is not uncommon for the club to pair you and your golf mate with another 2 some so that you become a 4 some and keep up with the pace of play. Especially 9 hole courses like Apple 9 where you get a volume of players in a short span of time. We made fast friends with this 2 some and found we had a lot in common – you never know who you are going to be paired with and they could concievably become lifelong friends (smile)
October
My golf partner today is Mary Ann (a fav of mine) and one of the Fab 4 (smile)
The Fab 4 (Lajeune, Mary Ann, Jill and Tina) finally together again and ready to play for real on The Players course at Lyman
It was a very light day on The Players course so Fab 4 had a chance to cut up (smile)
Me and my neighbor Margot and Jill (of the aforementioned Fab 4) on the very last day of golf for the season (October 31st). In New England its still sunny in the Fall but there are so many leaves on the ground it makes it difficult to find your ball – not counting the chilly weather!
Sooooo…I finally broke down at the end of October and invested in some new clubs. And I actually played with them the last 2 weekends of the month. I must admit that my game has improved with my new set of clubs (smile). Not trying to rush time but I sure can’t wait ’till next Summer (double smile).
We were desperately in need of a vacation – the goal was somewhere warm, beachy and fun – so the Sunshine state immediately came to mind (with the help of Karen, our travel agent).
We couldn’t of timed it better – we departed from Bradley International Airport in Windsor Locks, CT on a rainy, dreary Sunday morning in mid-May at 720am and arrived to sunny Tampa International Airport in Tampa, Florida less than 3 hours later.
Our destination was the Sirata Beach Resort in Clearwater, Florida a half hour from TIA airport (but it took our shuttle service over an hour and a half to get there due to heavy traffic and multiple drop-offs).
It was worth the long wait though once we saw that the resort (although not as new as the promotional video pictured it) was nonetheless cute and quaint (smile).
Sirata Beach Resort (a Marriott Hotel)
After we checked into our City View (as opposed to Ocean View) suite at Sirata Beach Resort, we headed out the door for some much needed grub and a walk on St. Pete’s Beach.
City view as opposed to Ocean view…
Our first stop at the resort for grub was Harry’s Beach Bar because we were starving and because it was literally right in front of us (smile). The food at Harry’s was okay, nothing to write home about, but the peek-a-boo views of the pool and the beach were inviting…
After lunch we went for a long walk on St. Pete’s Beach, touted as the number 1 beach in the U.S. The breathtaking beauty of this beach reminded me of vacationing in the Caribbean- – white sand, baby blue water and lots of big waves.
While walking the beach we could not help but notice how it was sectioned off by resorts in that each individual resort (over the 13 acres of premier beachfront!) had it’s own matching cabanas, beach loungers, chairs and umbrellas perfectly lined up on their own property. Sirata Beach Resort property provided 2 complimentary beach loungers per room per day to their guests. If you wanted front row access (prime real estate) you had to head to the beach by 8am and pay the the attendant $20 for a Sirata Beach umbrella. This reservation ensured that your beach loungers and umbrella would be placed in the front row and that no one could move into your spot for the entire day. Nor could anyone park in front of you. We made front row reservations every day over the next 4 days (smile).
Sirata Beach Resort is a lot of things but it is not all-inclusive. However there are a total of 4 restaurants at the resort which are all decent. One of our favorite casual dining restaurants on the resort was Rum Runners Bar and Grill which also featured live music in the evenings.
And since Sirata Beach Resort is situated on Gulf Boulevard, there are a ton of good restaurant choices – most within walking distance. We discovered a really good seafood restaurant called Crabby Bills 5 minutes from our resort a few days before we departed. It was sooooo good we ate there two days in a row (smile).
Loved Loved Loved Crabby Bills (smile)
As far as night life, we stumbled upon a beautiful hotel while walking along Gulf Boulevard during the day. It had a rooftop deck for drinks and apps and a fine dining restaurant below called Spinners (it literally spun while you dined). This hotel was called the Grand Plaza Hotel. We went there that same evening and sat outside on the rooftop deck for drinks and apps.
Grand Plaza Hotel
While reading about daily activities at the resort I saw that there was a free service called Beach Rides. These vans provide free local rides to resort guests but ask that you leave a tip since this is how they make their living. We called Beach Rides to take us to another local beach called Madeira Beach on our 3rd day. We chose Madeira as were interested in seeing the marina, stopping in the boardwalk shops and taking a dolphin watch tour.
Our Dolphin Watch Tour boat
Our dolphin watch tour was for 1.5 hours and we found it was a quick and easy way to learn about the residents who lived around the bay as well as information about dolphin life. There were a lot of dolphins out that afternoon and we even saw a baby dolphin that the Captain told us had just been born 24 hours ago!
Very active Dolphin tour which we learned that day is not always the case
Excited to see baby dolphins – a rare sight indeed!
Afterwards we ate outdoors at The Hut Bar and Grill while we watched lots of other tours and boat activity. Great day at Madeira Beach.
The following day we were back at our resort. Oh, I forgot to mention that every night during the week the resort offered free drinks at the tiki bar from 730pm to 8pm. You had your choice of beer, wine or rum punch. It was here that we met a nice couple that happened to be Clearwater locals. They were telling us where to go in the short time we had remaining on our trip.
The Tiki Bar party featured free drinks to resort residents every night!
What stuck in my mind was when this couple told us about going to downtown St. Petersburg at night. From the way they described it, it sounded like our kind of town so we took their advice and caught a Beach Rides van to St. Petersburg, FL (15 minutes from Clearwater). We paid a flat fee of $25.00 since it was out of the beach zone and enjoyed a nice stroll at the marina, sightseeing downtown St, Petersburg, a free movie night on the Green, late night snacks outdoors at a popular restaurant and live music session at Ruby’s.
Here we are on a rooftop lounge indulging in adult beverages
Late night snacks on the street (smile)
We loved our time in St. Petersburg and we plan on heading back when we have more time (smile).
Our final day at the resort was spent packing up, spending time on the beach for a last walk and eating out at Crabby Bills. Here is a picture of one of our last nights on the beach.
I’m that girl who happens to love the change of seasons that living in New England affords me…However, if April showers are supposed to bring May flowers, what do May showers bring?!?
That’s the $64,000 question in Connecticut today as we head into the 2nd week of May and those pesky intermittent Aprilshowers trail right behind us…
Why do Icare? Well for one I simply cannot seem to decide what to wear to work anymore – should I wear dark clothes to reflect the dim and gloomy skies or light clothes in anticipation of brighter days?
And this iffy weather is even affecting down time on the weekends: our grass is growing like wildfire so our lawnmower service cannot keep up!
But being the eternal optimist that I am, I try real hard not to take it too seriously, i.e., let it affect my mood but sometimes I’m not successful…
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So here’s the glass half-full point of view: Have you taken a look outside lately?!? All of that icky persistent rain this past month and a half has turned the bare brown ugliness of Winter into a beautiful Green paradise.
And wait, there’s more: Summer! One of my fave seasons is only about 6 weeks away. I have a lot to look forward to…
Early sunrises and late sunsets…
Carefree Summer work clothes with open-toed sandals
Weekend Golf lessons with my female Golf mates
And a promise to not complain when it’s too hot outside (smile).
So glad I finally got off my duff last summer and signed up for golf lessons for women (smile).
Here’s what happened: I was leafing through the Hamden/North Haven Adult Ed catalog when I happened upon a course listing in the Enrichment Class section called Golf Fore Women 101. It felt serendipitous as I have been talking about taking golf lessons for what felt like ages so I promptly called to register for the Saturday morning 5-week session.
Then I called my girlfriend and broadcast industry colleague Ginger, who, like me, owned her own set of golf clubs but still did not know how to play. Ginger was grateful that I thought of her and I felt lucky to know her (smile).
Me and Ginger on Day 1 of our lessons and the women we met in Golf 101
The reason why I felt so lucky was because I actually bought my own starter set of golf clubs 11 years ago but for some reason or another, nothing ever seemed to come together for me in terms of taking golf lessons or being consistent about actually wanting to play. Here’s the rundown:
2007
I purchased my own set of “lady” golf clubs for $105 dollars (down to the shoes, hat, gloves, pink golf balls, etc.) and although I initially had good intentions, this set sat in my garage year after year collecting dust…
My starter set of lady golf clubs
2011/2012/2013/2014
Since by now I stillhad not learned how to play, I spent multiple years volunteering as a “Beverage Cart Driver” at our News 8 annual golf tournament where we invited our clients out for a day of golf.
2015
I finally took two private lessons (a gift from my bf) at Lyman Golf Center in Middlefield, CT with John Wilson, who came highly recommended from a former News 8 co-worker and female golfer.
At the annual Travelers Tournament in Cromwell, CT (one of my fav live golfing events and spectator sports)
At the annual Traveler Tournament in Cromwell, CT. Always a good time. Turns out my cousin Bear from Rhode Island was working there that week
2018
By now I was so desperate I even fake caddied for my boyfriend last Summer while he enjoyed ‘the game’ (smile).
And it was right after this fake caddy momentwhen I happened upon the Enrichment course listing in the Hamden/North Haven Adult Ed catalog…
Golf Fore Women 101
The Saturday morning Fall classes I registered for ran from September 15 – October 13 (10am -11am) and consisted of about ten women. Our first session was mostly in the classroom where we talked about ourselves and what brought us there and then learned about Golf from a theoretical perspective.
My Saturday morning classmates – I’m gonna miss these ladies
Let me tell you, there is a lot to learn here. Golf is truly a game of and for life… Throughout our introductory 5-week course Marissa Kulig Crow, our LPGA Coach and Club Professional, very patiently taught us the following:
Essentials – equipment selection and appropriate golf attire
Golf Clubs
Golf Course Layout
Golf Terms
Golf Scores
Forms of Golf Games
Golf Shots
Networking
Stretching and Yoga
Golf Etiquette 101
Lesson 1– The Driving Range
Here we are lined up and on our way to the driving range
Lesson 2 – The Full Swing
The full swing – one of my favorite golf swings
Lesson 3 – Chipping/Pitching/Sand
Chipping Pitching Sand Wedge was probably one of the most difficult lessons we took – here is me and Mary Ann – one of my favs
Lesson 4 – On the Putting Green
Today’s practice will be on the putting green – the short game – where a lot of golfers struggle
Lesson 5 – The Apple 9 Golf course
It felt so funny because today’s lesson #5 (final lesson of Golf Fore Women 101) was actually golfing on the Apple 9 Golf course. We played 3 holes during our last lesson. It was so fun! I am looking forward to next Summer and Fall so I can take Golf Fore Women 201 and 301 and work on perfecting my game!
Me and my girls – enjoying our last day of Golf Fore Women 101!
There’s something about the number 7 that is lucky for me. Here are a few reasons why:
I am one of 7 children
My birthdate2-14, with the single digits added together, equals 7
My actual birthday 14, divided by my birth month, 2 equals 7
My first name Lajeune has exactly 7 letters in it
The first letter of my first name L and all of the letters in my last name Hollis equal 7
And finally, the city I was born in Newport (RI) has 7 letters in it
Speaking of the number 7: 7 years ago, after experiencing excruciating stomach pains, I finally got a colonoscopy and was subseqently informed by my Gastrointestinal doctor that I had colon cancer – Check out my blog post: A Place ofDesert…(almost) 4 years cancerfree.
At my pre-surgery consultation I told my soon-to-be Yale New Haven Healthcare surgeon, Dr. Schlessel, that I had already planned a trip to Hilton Head, South Carolina the following month (July) to spend some quality time with my niece, great niece and 3 great nephews from New Jersey. I also told Dr. Schlessel I had already rented the condo, the mini -van and even bought additional car insurance…
Incidentally, while this was all happening, I was getting some serious opposition from different people in my life who collectively felt that I was crazy to take the trip. They all pretty much said the same thing: ‘you have Cancer, what if something happens to you on that long road trip?!?’ I listened to everything these folks had to say and then asked my surgeon for his honest advice. He said (and I’ll never forget it) “Go! And when you return we head straight to surgery!” Here is a what I remember of that fateful trip:
The mini van
You should not take a long road trip involving children without the use of a mini-van (smile). I rented a Chrsyler Town Car Mini-Van for our 10 day vacation…I left New Haven, CT very early on a Friday morning in mid-July and approximately 2 1/2 hours later, picked up my niece, great niece and 3 great nephews from their home in New Jersey.
The Chrysler minivan was equipped with all of the amenities for the kiddos (smile)
After about 4 or 5 food/gas/bathroom-breakstopsalong the way (each time resulting in a driving-duty swap with my niece Keedah) we made it (18 hours later!) to Hilton Head, South Carolina. Miraculously my stomach did not bother me at all the entire time and my energy level felt pretty normal…
Hilton Head, South Carolina
My first thought was: Hilton Head is lovely. This was my first time here and I was so impressed with the look of the town as well as the good vibes I felt in the air. The endless sunshine didn’t hurt either…But first things first, our ‘home away from home’ for the next 10 days:
The condo complex
We had a mini-nightmare when we arrived after 12 Midnight on Hilton Head Island. Our GPS took us to the wrong condominium complex! Apparently there are a ton of condominium complexes in Hilton Head plus the roundabouts throw the GPS’s off. Long story short, we almost thought we would be sleeping in our mini van the first night as my key would not work to what we thought was our unit. Thank God the realtor was up and returned my frantic call. He quickly re-directed us to the right complex and we were happy, tired campers. Whew, that was close (smile).
This is the condo complex which we called Home for the next 10 days – as it turns out, Hilton Head is chock full of condominium complexes hence the confusion at the very beginning of our trip
The grounds of our condo complex
The natural pond
The pool at the complex – thank God my sister Dana raised her children and grandchildren to be strong swimmers (smile)
We spent the first morning in town doing some heavy duty grocery shopping at at the Piggly Wiggly. Incidentally, I never worked so hard in my life while on vacation, I was the Driver, the Hostess, the Cook, the Waitress, the Bottle Washer and the Dirty Clothes Washer and Dryer (smile).
The kiddos at dinnertime – never a dull moment (smile) Here they are fighting over who gets control of the remote tonight.Here I am in my bedroom at the condo around 7pm where I would start losing energy and therefore get ready for bed…
The outdoor pool at the condo complex
It sure was nice to have a pool at the complex for those few occasions when we did not feel like packing up the car and heading to the beach…
Rambunctious Rasoul
Ready for the world Rashidah
Kuddle bug Kenyon
Coligny Beach Park
I was so impressed with the South Carolina beaches (they truly are beautiful). However, one of the nearby beaches – Coligny Beach – stood out! The sun, the sand, the surf was unbeatable! And all of that Vitamin D was good for my illness…
Me contemplating life I suppose…
Me soaking up the South Carolina sun
Kenyon building a sand castle
Kenyon, Rasoul, Ahmad and Aunt Keedah
Kenyon, Rasoul and Ahmad
Rashidah, Rasoul, Kenyon and Aunt Keedah with Rasould
My niece Dimitrica drove down from North Carolina to spend 4 days with us – we all had a blast
Savannah, GA
We decided to spend Day 5 of our 10th vacation day in this beautiful, cultural city which was less than an hour away.
I had heard nothing but good things about Savannah and I liked what I had watched on The Travel Channel. So it was a no-brainer to take a Day-cation there, especially since we were so close to the border.
Keedah and I drove the mini-van and once we arrived, the first thing we did was head to the free ferry to explore the 4 corners of the city…but not before feeding the meter…
Parking is no joke! We lucked out and found a good space close to everything!
Our free ferry boat
Dimitrica checking out the shops
Rashidah, Ahmad, Kenyon and Rasoul
Ahmad playing as usual
The kiddos around the wishing well
Rasoul inhaling his ice cream
Ahmad playing it cool as per usual
After our ferry ride we did some sightseeing and explored some African American historical exhibits, ate lunch and then headed back to Hilton Head.
Back in Hilton Head, SC
We spent the remaining days of our vacation ‘Beaching’ at Coligny or ‘Pooling’ at the condo complex. We ate breakfast, lunch and dinner inmost days and truly enjoyed the lovely weather. I was starting to feel tired earlier in the day now so I was glad it was nearing time to head back.
And driving back was much easier as well because this time we left on a Saturday night (approximately 12Midnight to be exact) and drove straight through the night with only one or two stops – getting back in record time the following Sunday.
Can’t say I’ve driven so far since that time but it was most definitely an adventure to remember (smile).
And, as a bonus, I was not only tanned but refreshed. And as my surgeon would have noted, ‘ready for surgery.’
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