My Entry into Broadcast Media Sales

The year was 1989 and I had been working as a Local Sales Assistant for the past 3 1/2 years at what was then WTNH Action News 8 Television in New Haven, CT.

I was relieved when I originally landed this support position because although I had my B.S. degree in Media Studies from Sacred Heart University in Fairfield, CT, it took a long time back then even for a college graduate to land a decent job in the media industry.

These were, what I was to find out much much later, the glory days of television.  Al Terzi, Janet Peckingpaugh and Mike Bogoslawski were the Local News Anchors at the time.  And there were only 3 networks back then (ABC, CBS and NBC) so our ABC local network affiliate’s share of pie was huge and money was flowing!

Once again, I originally took this support position because I could see how hard it was to break into “the business” so I figured if I was around those that did what I aspired to do, it would be much easier.  Boy was I wrong!  Because back in the day I wanted to be the host of my own Community Affairs program.  So I worked all day long as a Local Sales Assistant for 6 to 8 sellers and 3 sales managers; at least 2 to 3 nights a week,  I hung around and shadowed the Community Affairs Director.  To my delight, a Host position finally came up for the new Community Affairs program and it was immediately given to one of the TV News Reporters – not only was I not even considered, I wasn’t even on the list!

 

Sales Assistant by day…

 

Then along came a BIG surprise.  The Sally Jessy Raphael Show (a national program!) moved into our New Haven studios to tape their daily 10am show.  My world had now changed for the better.  I was able to sneak downstairs to check out famous people practically every week for the next 2 years.  It was a huge occupational perk and a big reason for me to stick around.  I met then President Jimmy Carter and his wife Roslyn, Suzanne Somers from Three’s Company, the infamous Donna Rice, Marlo Thomas from That Girl and her hubby Phil Donahue from the Phil Donahue Show just to name a few.  When The Sally Show moved on to New York, it was time for me to go as well.

I had decided to pursue broadcast media sales.  So on my final week the local sales team and local sales managers, whom I loved working for, presented me with a leather briefcase and ordered me to fill it up with lots of orders!  I had previously met with a few of the Local Account Executives on my own time and basically questioned them on what to expect in the world of broadcast media sales.  They were super helpful but to be honest, selling is something you truly learn by doing.  You either have it, or you don’t.  It’s not like anything I’ve ever done in my life and I still enjoy it, even in this day and age…

When I left Action News 8 I was making a paltry $19,500 a year (this is after a $3,000 raise!) which was enough to pay the rent on my super cute but tiny studio apartment in the East Rock neighborhood of New Haven, but not enough to buy or own a car.  And this was with waitressing on the weekends at Friendly’s Ice Cream in Hamden, CT.   Here I was working 2 jobs and moonlighting on Monday evenings as a Community Volunteer Radio Announcer for WYBC 94.3FM in New Haven.  Lovers Corner with Lajeune was the name of my show –  the best in R & B love songs.  A true labor of love (smile).

 

My moonlighting gig – here with the other  WYBC 94.3FM On-Air Personalities – I’m in the front row wearing a black tee

My first broadcast sales job was at WEBE 108FM in Bridgeport, CT.   Lucky for me my oldest sister Dana had bought herself a new car so she gifted me with her older AMC Gremlin to commute back and forth with everyday from New Haven to Bridgeport.  My selling territory was Fairfield and New Haven counties so I would be spending lots of time on the road.  The Gremlin wasn’t perfect but through God’s Grace and the proximity of Firestone Tire Centers, it held its own (smile).

 

My AMC Gremlin – it  actually looked just like this except it was beige

 

At the time I was hired, there were 2 radio stations in the same building and on the same floor:  WEBE 108FM and WICC 600AM.  I was hired by WEBE so I was literally selling against the account executives at WICC, who sat right around the corner from me.  It was a strange feeling for sure.  After I completed my first year of  selling, the radio station became a “Combo” which meant they would not need as many of us in sales so they trimmed the sales teams back to 9 sellers from a combined total of 15.  I just knew I was a goner because I was still green and still cutting my teeth but they said I was staying because they loved my sunny and positive ‘Can Do’ attitude (smile).

Here is the picture of me that was taken for  the newsletter the radio station sent out to Fairfield County residents to welcome the newly combined WEBE and WICC Radio stations:

 

Circa 1990

i loved selling WEBE and WICC radio stations not just because I was learning a ton working with a seasoned sales team but also because the company provided us with a comprehensive radio sales training program and plenty of  radio industry resources to back it up.  But to be honest, I had entered year 2 and was still not making any money.  I worked on 100% commission against draw but since I had no list, I basically had to constantly cold call for appointments and then start from scratch when I landed a new account.  Since I was mostly working on promotional accounts which require lots of moving parts, it was exhausting…

 

One of my many promotional accounts – the grand opening of Mobil Gas station in Stratford

Then, as luck would have it, I received a phone call from the Local Sales Manager at WNHC 1340AM, the Rhythm of the City.  WNHC was an R & B (no Rap!) radio station based in New Haven, CT so I figured I had nothing to lose.  During our interview, the Local Sales Manager basically painted the right picture for me  – yes, you are leaving a 50,000 Watt FM radio station in wealthy Fairfield County for a 1000 Watt AM radio station in New Haven, but with us, the sky is the limit.  When I told my Local Sales Manager I was leaving them for WNHC in New Haven, not only did she think I was crazy but so did the majority of the team (LOL!)

It’s no secret that I enjoy a challenge and what I saw in front of me was opportunity for growth and a new, close-knit work family that I could really get behind.  Consequently, in my 5 1/2 years at WNHC,  I more than excelled.  I moved up from Account Executive to  Local Sales Manager to finally  National Sales Manager.  I also enjoyed meeting tons of famous people at free concerts and plays –  mostly singers and performers.  I ran my own on-air African-American Book Review once a week with my partner Lamonda (L & L Book Review) and was constantly chosen to serve on numerous committees, judge area fashion shows, speak to the New Haven youth at public schools about careers in media sales, etc.

One of my most memorable interviews on the L & L On-Air Book Review was the one with the legendary Michael Baisden. He was building his career back in the day and I could see easily why he is as famous as he is today – he’s a hoot!

 

When WNHC Radio went bankrupt (that will be covered in another blog) I decided to pursue the print world.  I traveled back and forth to Bridgeport, CT to work for Umoja News, a monthly urban start-up newspaper that covered events that I felt passionate about.  The founder and I worked closely together.  She handled the day to day operations and I ran the sales department.  I wrote a sales training manual, hired 3 local sellers and handled regional accounts.  I stayed a little less than 2 years because I could not get into the pace, i.e., working like a madwoman for a little under a week every month to meet those crazy deadlines and then spending the remaining 3 weeks of the month calling on new business.  I found it cumbersome.

 

My short stint working in print media as an Advertising Sales Manager

 

In my next blog post I will talk about my journey back to broadcast radio sales this time with the know-how, negotiating skills and lots of multi-media experience.

 

Stay tuned!

TVFL

“Southern Girl”

 

In July I met up with my niece and twin nephews (all siblings) in San Antonio, Texas for the sole purpose of family bonding and fun in the sun: SAT, A surprise to me!

 

And now here it is August and I just returned from a 5 day 4 night mini vacay to Myrtle Beach, South Carolina or “MB” as it is affectionately known (smile).

Me and my boo decided to try something new this time around in regards to our aircraft – we flew Avelo Airlines out of Tweed Airport in New Haven (a first for both of us) and we booked our stay not at a hotel resort but rather at an Airbnb. My girlfriend Sharon’s son Brandon owns a 1 bedroom condominium on the beach in MB called Rosey Retreat so that is where we stayed.    

 

It felt different staying at an Airbnb condominium as opposed to a hotel resort because we missed out on the daily maid service, the convenience of a hotel restaurant and the front desk information gathering station.


Cozy albeit quirky rose interior

 

But what it lacked in hotel amenities it more than made up for as it had the perfect view from our balcony to the beach, the cozy, albeit quirky rose interior and beachy touches inside the unit such as beach chairs and a beach umbrella complete with a sand anchor.

 

Can’t beat this view!

 

Our morning view to Paradise

 

We spent the majority of our vacay mornings and afternoons enjoying the surf and sun at the beach (did I mention that the temps averaged 85 degrees Fahrenheit all 5 days!) and almost pinched ourselves for picking the right week of the month to travel.

I think this is when I lost my Fitbit!

 

Since we left on a Sunday of the last week in August, most people with children were already in full ‘Back to School’ mode so the beach felt somewhat secluded and a little private.

It feels so good to be on the beach when its not wall to wall people…

 

Our condominium had a galley kitchen with pots and pans and stuff so we went shopping for food, snacks and adult beverages at the Piggly Wiggly (smile).

 

Love that name!

 

And afterwards we had breakfast at Shoney’s – I remember this restaurant from a couple of Summers I spent in Fayetteville, North Carolina with my big sister Dana. I was 15 years old at the time and Dana was 23. She was serving in the Air Force and had recently purchased her own home and it was ‘my turn’ to spend the Summer with her.  Dana took me to Shoney’s as they were legendary back then for their huge Southern breakfasts. However, on the day me and my boo went, the managers were cooking (never a good sign) as they were short on wait staff so the food and service were not quite what I expected.

 

Shoney Bear


The breakfast was just okay…

 

Speaking of food, the best meal in MB that week bar none was the Jamaican take-out restaurant we discovered after leaving the Piggly Wiggly. It was across the street from Piggly Wiggly and to their left. We both luvvvv Jamaican food so we ordered 3 plates to go – 2 plates of Oxtails with rice and peas and cabbage and 1 plate of Jerk Chicken with peas and rice and cabbage.

 

3 plates to go please!

 

I inhaled my oxtails, peas and rice and cabbage poolside back at the crib

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

We had a lively conversation with the owner and his wife around the U.S. dominance in track and field at the most recent Paris Olympics which was precipitated by Usain Bolt’s picture on the wall… 😜

 

Usain Bolt

As for lunch and dinner ‘dine-in restaurants,’ we surfed online and found at least 3 or 4 that were decent and within walking distance. We did not rent a car – in all honesty South Myrtle Beach is easy to navigate on foot as everything is relatively close by.  The Uber ride from the Myrtle Beach airport to our condominium took just 15 minutes!

 

The first restaurant where we ate was recommended by a hotel concierge named Will whom we met on the street – he said it was popular with tourists so he knew we would like it. Will was not wrong (smile). It was named River City Cafe. I had a delish veggie burger with cheese and a side salad. Before our meal came we were served salty roasted shelled peanuts in a cup and afterwards we got to throw the shells on the wooden floor😀. It took me back to my days growing up in Groton, Connecticut when we ate at The Ground Round 😀.

 

The license plated wall of the River City Cafe
Delish veggie cheese burger with a side salad

Cool ice water with salty roasted shelled peanuts and yes, we gladly threw the empty shells on the floor (smile).

 

For dinner that night (really apps since I was still full from lunch!) we chose RipTyde Rooftop Bar because it overlooked the beach and it had a cool indoor/outdoor vibe. I had a delish Frozen Mango Margarita Mocktail that froze my brain every time I took a sip (smile). There was live music playing and from our seats, we could watch the hotel guests enjoying a game of Corn Hole on the beach.

 

 

We had the best view from RipTyde indoor outdoor restaurant

The following night we headed back to the Myrtle Beach boardwalk to check out Pier 14 Restaurant but while walking on the boardwalk we met a friendly middle -aged couple from Washington state who had just arrived in town to attend NASCAR.  We exchanged our respective life stories and went on our way 😉.

 

The beautiful and well-lit Myrtle Beach 1.2 mile long boardwalk

We ate that night at Pier 14 which was known for their seafood and specialty drinks. It was late for dining (9pm) so I ordered something light – Poke Tuna and it hit the spot ☺️

 

Pier 14 Restaurant

 

From there we went to The Arcades (old school gaming) which really took me back in time…

 

The following evening (after once again spending all day on the beach) we dined at LandShark Bar and Grill where I had a Caribbean Chicken salad before people watching along the Boardwalk.

Perfect photo op inside Landmark Shark Bar and Grill retail store

 

And we couldn’t leave MB before riding on the SkyWheel – it was truly a stress free ride – more observational than anything else – as we checked out the city lights and carnival rides.

 

Could not miss the SkyWheel on any given day, it was literally always in our sight

Entering the Sky Wheel to buy our tickets

Felt no stress whatsoever on this wheel 😜the ride lasted about 14 fun-filled minutes.

Our 5th and final day was spent in our condominium- eating, packing and admiring the view from our balcony…

 

The view from our balcony was impressive

So long MB 😘

For those of you who are wondering why we did not golf, well we figured that just gives us another reason to head back 😜 ⛳️

 

Sincerely,

 

 

TVFL

 

 

 

 

A Quick Dash to Nash

I had a truly memorable Memorial Day weekend this past May of 2023.  The goal was to visit my big sister Casandra who moved to Nashville almost a year ago.  And of course to see her daughter MoNa, her son-in-law Kevia and their rambunctious 6 year old son, Harlem.

 

Memorial Day is not called the “unofficial start to Summer” for nothing.  It seems as if everybody and their grandmother (smile) was driving that weekend on the road, flying in the air, or using some mode of public transportation during this much anticipated prelude to Summer.

 

What usually happens when we now adult Hollis children go to a new place or space to visit family, is we try and incorporate at least one African American cultural activity into the trip.

 

In this case it was easy, almost too easy:  a trip to the National Museum of African American Music or NMAAM as it is referred to.   NMAAM is conveniently located in downtown Nashville so we did not have to travel far as my sister Casandra lives only about 15 to 20 minutes outside the city limits.

National Museum of African American Museum (NMAAM)

 

Parking the car in a garage was pretty steep ($45) and you really have no choice if you drive as there is very little if any available street parking downtown.

 

The ticket prices to the museum (which we ordered online on the NMAAM website the night before) were $24.95 for Adults (me) and $18.75 for Senior Citizens (Casandra).  Just so you are aware, the rest of the ticket prices are as follows:  $18.75 for Students and Teachers with ID, Military and Senior Citizens; $13.50 for Museum Guests aged 7 to 17 and Free for Visitors 6 years of age and under.

 

Very easy to navigate

 

While there, for just $5.00 more you will receive a NMAAM wristband which allows you to  download multiple genres of music (up to 500 songs!) to create your own music playlist as you touch and explore your way throughout the museum.  This music link is sent to your email address a week or so later for you to  download to your Apple or Spotify account.  Very cool!

 

Wearing my wristband and building my playlist – so much music to choose from!

 

Incidentally, NMAAM also offers visitors an annual membership with lots of special perks and education and programs for groups and special outings.

 

The NMAAM brochure tells you it takes 90 minutes to explore the museum (as it features timed admission) but it took me and Casandra 3 hours as there is so much to see and do!  By the way, there is no extra charge if it takes you longer than the 90 minutes (smile).

 

One of the many photo opps at NMAAM

 

The museum is broken up into 6 rooms which each feature a different genre of music and its history.

 

Hip Hop Nation

 

It is fascinating to discover just how intertwined the music is with the historical happenings of each era.

The Roots Theater focuses on African American history and its music.

 

Wade in the Water (one of my personal favs) showcases how gospel music and its rich history has more than influenced religious music.  This gallery featured an interactive room where me and Casandra went in, donned the requisite church choir robes and stood in front of the Green Screen so we could sing along with the Gospel Choir.  The ending was sweet as we were both magically inserted into the Gospel Choir (smile).  We saved this download to our NMAAM wrist band so we could view it later on at home.

 

 

Crossroads chronicles the time in the Deep South (and after slavery) when work songs and field songs (i.e., the Blues) was prevalent.

Lots of photo ops throughout the museum

 

A Love Supreme highlights the Jazz era in African American music and culture.

 

Louis Armstrong, An African American pioneer in Jazz music and Trumpeteer

 

One Nation Under A Groove records the time following World War I with the emergence of Rhythm and Blues…

 

The Message clearly narrates Hip Hop and Rap music and how it influenced (and continues to influence) pop culture in and around the World…this room featured a interactive DJ booth where we were able to select from one of 3 different rappers and then rap along with them.  Not surprisingly, the line to this interactive feature stayed long (smile).

 

Tupac Shakur, an influential and highly regarded and recognized African American Rapper

 

Rivers of Rhythm featured the touch panels (found on the large glass tables)  throughout the NMAAM theater which allow the user to touch their way into an artist’s songs and biographies.  We downloaded lots of music to our NMAAM wristbands from these touch panels.  Incidentally every half hour or so a concert  played on the interactive walls (that day we jammed to the sounds of Prince, Tina Turner, and James Brown).

 

 

 

And just before you leave the museum, you will notice an art gallery featuring the works of very talented community artists.

 

My sister Casandra in the Art Gallery right before we left

 

There- also is a museum store called Amplify which sells beautiful NMAAM memorabilia at reasonable prices.

 

Amplify had lots to offer at different price points

 

By the way, Casandra and I had the pleasure of bumping into Left Eye Lopez’s little sister Reigndrop who was at the museum that day creating a documentary  about her late sister Left Eye Lopez.  Here she is entertaining the lobby crowd in her own eclectic way.

 

Reigndrop is cool and talented too!

 

Also while in the lobby we could not help but notice the tribute to the legendary Tina Turner – who recently passed – you can’t showcase black music without including Miss Tina…may she Rest in Peace…

 

Rest in peace Tina Turner

 

All in all, we had the best time eva and I would highly recommend this museum to anyone visiting the city of Nashville (or Nash as it is called).

 

Fun Fact:  I remember years ago my sister Casandra telling me that if we were not sisters, she would want me as a friend – I feel the same sis (smile).

 

Sincerely,

 

TVFL

 

My Clean Living Life Part VII

It’s been a minute since I blogged in TVFL about anything – 10 months to be exact – call it the ‘Pandemic Blues’ but I’ve been feeling pretty unmotivated when it comes to writing about my life.

 

 

It could also be because I’ve been having GI issues of late which are more annoying than painful.  Between doctor’s appointments, getting my Vitals checked, eliminating certain foods from my diet, it’s not been a fun start to the New Year…

 

 

One thing’s for sure, the issue is not related to alcohol since I stopped drinking anything but Mocktails at the onset of the Pandemic.

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The silver lining is that my GI office is real close to figuring out what’s wrong with me so that they can prescribe the correct course of action.

 

 

And I can try and get back to a more normal way of living which includes a positive mindset and healthier version of clean eating.

 

Sincerely,

 

 

TVFL

Grown and Sixty

I turned 60 years old on February 14th 2022.  I was tripping about my “advanced age” (smile) for a minute because it suddenly hit me that I more likely then not have more years behind me then I have in front of me…

However, on the flip side, I consider my age to be a blessing because not everyone lives to the ripe old age of 60.

And to truly celebrate this milestone birthday, as well as our 10th year love anniversary, me and my boo embarked on a much needed and long overdue vacation to Cancun, Mexico.  My travel agent Karen booked our stay at an Adults -Only, All-Inclusive Iberostar resort.  We upgraded to an oceanfront junior suite on the 13th floor which had a spiral staircase on the bottom deck leading up to the top deck which featured a hot tub, an outdoor shower plus a small table and two lounge chairs.   It was so cozy looking especially at night when the warm ocean breezes slid into our room.

 

Our beautiful Junior suite – fit for a King and a Queen (smile)

 

Our beautiful view from the room…

Our private hot tub on the upper deck complete with 2 lounge chairs, a small table and a private shower

And this is where we spent our days on the beach right outside our Junior Suite:

 

We spent more time resting in these beach huts during the daytime especially fighting the surf all morning

 

On our 2nd night at the resort, we met, conversed for 5 minutes and subsequently had dinner together at an American Bistro with this couple from Southern Virginia.  They had been married for 40 years and told us over dinner that although they were no longer working for a living, they had not “retired” but rather re-set.  I’m going to use that term when I officially ‘retire'(smile).  Anyway, towards the end of the night, they shared with us that their next vacation stop was at a semi-nude beach in the islands…

 

La Parilla Restaurant (steakhouse) on our 3rd night was where we received a cheesecake after our dinner with Happy 10th Anniversary written on it…this was a big surprise to us although we did recall our lovely waiter asking us if we were celebrating anything special that night…

 

Lovely dinner with delish cheesecake

 

We missed the reservations we made for the Japanese restaurant on our 4th night because we got caught up in downtown Cancun at La Isla Shopping Village.  This village was a super wide open indoor/outdoor market consisting of retail clothing stores, souvenir shops, restaurants, travel excursion booths and much, much more.  We were solicited by a man on the street who worked for one of the travel agencies and he sold us on a speedboat and snorkeling tour that costs $150 (including the snorkeling gear) and left the dock everyday at 9am, 12noon and 3pm.   We agreed it was a good deal and returned the very next day to take advantage of it.  The iconic Cancun tour was a blast – so glad we made the decision to go – first up our own speedboat!

 

Captain James and Lajeune – ready for take-off!

 

The most memorable dinner of all was on our 5th night – A private dinner for 2 with special menu and upgraded wine (courtesy of Quinn/Panzer Travel Agency at a resort restaurant of our choice).    We chose La Horma, a gourmet restaurant where the wait staff literally treated us like a King and Queen the minute we walked through the doors.  They were quite literally tripping over themselves as they sat us at a table with a view of the ocean.  Plus they anticipated all of our needs, fed us way too much food – James had sushi appetizers with breaded shrimp, crostini bread topped with veggies, meaty beef tacos with ceviche and for his entree: flank steak and sides.   I ordered off the menu – I chose linguini with pesto sauce topped with parmesan cheese which looked as good as it tasted.   I also devoured the piping hot extra long dinner rolls with olive oil and parmesan cheese.   In recognition of our 10th year love anniversary, I received beautiful roses from our waiter.

 

Delish linginin with pesto sauce and shaved parmesan cheese

 

A piping hot extra long dinner roll

 

Olive oil with fresh parmesan cheese for the piping hot extra long dinner roll

This night just keeps getting better – courtesy of our waiter

 

 

Now posing on the lovely staircase outside the restaurant with my beautiful new roses

 

I stopped drinking alcohol (wine) almost 2 years ago in 2020 when the Pandemic first started so I probably lost money to the resort since for beverages I threw back grapefruit juice, mineral water, beet juice, coffee, expresso, virgin strawberry daiquiris, green smoothies and bottled waters (smile).

 

The Green monster (smile)

 

Fresh resort waters and Frozen Strawberry Daiquiri – my beach drinks

 

Our 6th and final day consisted of breakfast outdoors at the resort (now sporting our street clothes) and waiting on the emailed results of our Covid tests which, of course, were negative.

 

I’m gonna miss these healthy and hearty breakfasts every morning – back to the gym when I return!

 

We caught our airport shuttle the designated 3 hours before our flight and mentally prepared ourselves for the trip back to Connecticut.

 

So long Cancun, hope to see you soon!

Sincerely,

 

 

TVFL