So glad I finally got off my duff last summer and signed up for golf lessons for women (smile).
Here’s what happened: I was leafing through the Hamden/North Haven Adult Ed catalog when I happened upon a course listing in the Enrichment Class section called Golf Fore Women 101. It felt serendipitous as I have been talking about taking golf lessons for what felt like ages so I promptly called to register for the Saturday morning 5-week session.
Then I called my girlfriend and broadcast industry colleague Ginger, who, like me, owned her own set of golf clubs but still did not know how to play. Ginger was grateful that I thought of her and I felt lucky to know her (smile).
Me and Ginger on Day 1 of our lessons and the women we met in Golf 101
The reason why I felt so lucky was because I actually bought my own starter set of golf clubs 11 years ago but for some reason or another, nothing ever seemed to come together for me in terms of taking golf lessons or being consistent about actually wanting to play. Here’s the rundown:
2007
I purchased my own set of “lady” golf clubs for $105 dollars (down to the shoes, hat, gloves, pink golf balls, etc.) and although I initially had good intentions, this set sat in my garage year after year collecting dust…
My starter set of lady golf clubs
2011/2012/2013/2014
Since by now I stillhad not learned how to play, I spent multiple years volunteering as a “Beverage Cart Driver” at our News 8 annual golf tournament where we invited our clients out for a day of golf.
2015
I finally took two private lessons (a gift from my bf) at Lyman Golf Center in Middlefield, CT with John Wilson, who came highly recommended from a former News 8 co-worker and female golfer.
At the annual Travelers Tournament in Cromwell, CT (one of my fav live golfing events and spectator sports)
At the annual Traveler Tournament in Cromwell, CT. Always a good time. Turns out my cousin Bear from Rhode Island was working there that week
2018
By now I was so desperate I even fake caddied for my boyfriend last Summer while he enjoyed ‘the game’ (smile).
And it was right after this fake caddy momentwhen I happened upon the Enrichment course listing in the Hamden/North Haven Adult Ed catalog…
Golf Fore Women 101
The Saturday morning Fall classes I registered for ran from September 15 – October 13 (10am -11am) and consisted of about ten women. Our first session was mostly in the classroom where we talked about ourselves and what brought us there and then learned about Golf from a theoretical perspective.
My Saturday morning classmates – I’m gonna miss these ladies
Let me tell you, there is a lot to learn here. Golf is truly a game of and for life… Throughout our introductory 5-week course Marissa Kulig Crow, our LPGA Coach and Club Professional, very patiently taught us the following:
Essentials – equipment selection and appropriate golf attire
Golf Clubs
Golf Course Layout
Golf Terms
Golf Scores
Forms of Golf Games
Golf Shots
Networking
Stretching and Yoga
Golf Etiquette 101
Lesson 1– The Driving Range
Here we are lined up and on our way to the driving range
Lesson 2 – The Full Swing
The full swing – one of my favorite golf swings
Lesson 3 – Chipping/Pitching/Sand
Chipping Pitching Sand Wedge was probably one of the most difficult lessons we took – here is me and Mary Ann – one of my favs
Lesson 4 – On the Putting Green
Today’s practice will be on the putting green – the short game – where a lot of golfers struggle
Lesson 5 – The Apple 9 Golf course
It felt so funny because today’s lesson #5 (final lesson of Golf Fore Women 101) was actually golfing on the Apple 9 Golf course. We played 3 holes during our last lesson. It was so fun! I am looking forward to next Summer and Fall so I can take Golf Fore Women 201 and 301 and work on perfecting my game!
Me and my girls – enjoying our last day of Golf Fore Women 101!
I was having a tough time deciding where to go away on vacation this year as funds were tiiiiight! However I kept at it as I knew we both neededand wanteda place far far away from Connecticut to unwind and decompress. And we were looking for a place that involved the sun, the sand, and the beach.
As luck would have it, my friend and broadcast industry colleague Marnie listed her Freeport, Bahamas timeshare on Social Media. Turns out that she and her family were not able to use their 2 weeks this year. So she ended up selling me a one bedroom condominium unit for one of those two weeks for just $750 – the price of their maintenance fees! We were, however, on our own for airfare, ground transportation, food and drinks…
We chose the last week of May (which included the Memorial Day holiday) to go on our 7 day vacation so that we could use 4 of my vacation days instead of 5 (smile).
We flew from Bradley International Airport on Saturday May 27th and returned the following Saturday, June 3rd.
We arrived at Island Seas Resort on the Saturday (2 flights and one taxi cab ride later) at midday and boy were we starving!
It didn’t take us long to discover that there was only one bar and grille at the resort (Coconuts Bar and Grille) and one restaurant (Seagrape Grille).
We also found out from our new “friends” that the resort’s Wi-Fi, although ‘free’ in the units, was at best, ‘spotty.’ They did however tell us it was completely clear as long as you were poolside…
Our new vacation “friends” – we hadn’t even changed out of our traveling gear yet!
Enjoying good but pricey resort food
So after inhalingour lunch at Coconuts we finally headed to our unit. Island Seas Resort consists of 10 buildings – all named after mammals – we were booked at Dolphin and found, to our surprise, that our building was just one of two buildings on the resort that were deemed ocean side!! Yay!
Long shot of the two oceanside buildings on Island Seas Resort
We literally had an ocean view – we walked right out of our balcony deck into the sand – yay!
On Monday morning we (and a bunch of other resort couples) took advantage of the complimentary shuttle into Port LuCaya for the Island Seas Grocery Run. It was a trip though because we had exactly one hour to shop for groceries or we would be forced to take a cab back. I felt like we (and the other couples from the resort) were all on a reality game show as we dashed around with our shopping carts from one aisle to the next frantically searching for the right food and other stuff to make it through the week. Not easy to do when you first of all don’t know the store, or the merchandise, or the prices. If it wasn’t so serious it would have been funny but at the time we were on a ‘mission’ (smile).
Lucky for us our Condo had a kitchenette
The 1 bedroom oceanside unit was comfy and spacious
On Tuesday night, after spending all day on the beach, we headed to the ‘Bonfire on the Beach’ event which we heard cost just 20 bucks and included BBQ, 2 drinks, and live entertainment.
On our way to “Bonfire on the Beach” – we could not help but take advantage of this beautiful beachy backdrop and perfect photo op
On Wednesday (after finding out that we could not participate in any of the tours that we were looking to book due the effects of Hurricane Matthew) we spent the day at Port LuCaya Outdoor Marketplace for shopping and the much talked about fresh conch salad at the marina…we inhaled the yummy fresh conch salad prepared right before your eyes!
We were officially on Island Time now and can I tell you?!? It was sooooo nice sleeping in late everymorning despite being greeted at the crack of dawn with bright rays of sunshine and 80 degree temps.
Picture perfect weather each and every morning
Can’t help but take selfies when its this nice out!
And how freeing it was regularly sporting shorts, tank tops and flip-flops and eating fattening fried foods (smile).
The buffalo wings were to die for!
The fried conch balls were heavenly!
And I won’t lie, decisions still had to be made, so here is what became the biggest decision of our loooong, leisurely sunny days…
The ocean…
Or the pool…
At night our decisions were a tad simpler:
The Mango Bahama Mama or the Frozen Strawberry Margarita…
By the way, before I forget, here are some good local spots to support that are within walking distance of the resort and which serve up authentic Bahamian food and drinks:
The $2 dollar Bar at the end of the beach (wish I had a picture of it…)
and Michelle’s Kitchen located right on the beach – mouthwatering island grub & good prices!
Michelle’s Kitchen – good prices!
Delicious food!!!
Michele’s Kitchen is the best!
On our final night (Friday) we took the last free shuttle from the resort back to Port LuCaya Marketplace for some outdoor shopping/dining/bars/marina activities. We had just spent the entire day there a couple of days earlier but had heard it was much more interesting and exciting at night.
It took us while to find a restaurant to eat dinner at as there were so many to choose from — each with attractive food and drink specials — but we finally settled on Agave and were not disappointed…
Dinner and Drinks at Agave Restaurant – delish!
Afterwards we walked down to the marina to hear live entertainment. We saw and heard a really talented 3 piece band at Port LuCaya Marketplace.
We ended up taking a cab back to the resort as it was late and the resort’s shuttle service had already ended at 615pm. It was real easy hailing a cab and it felt very safe.
We awoke early the next morning (Saturday) and made preparations to leave. We felt sad saying goodbye to the cool ocean breezes, the bright sunshine and the lazy, carefree days. Truly our new Happy Place…
I love love love to travel by air, train, car or bus and try to do it as often as possible. But that’s not always easy for a working girl in a crazy fast-paced world (smile). However this girl can dream so it is my hope to someday have the opportunity to do the following touristythings in places that I have heard about, watched on TV or read about.
Here they are and not in any particular order:
Napa Valley, CA – Vineyards, sweet Vineyards…Napa Valley Wine tours by trolley and picnic lunches on a scenic terrain come to mind…
Chicago, IL – I could pinch myself for not visiting Chicago during Oprah’s reign! I still want to visit if for nothing else then…to window shop along The Magnificent Mile, take a stroll through Grant Park or roller skate along the lakefront…
Austin, TX Here is where I would jump into Barton Springs Pool with its 70-degree year round water temps, watch the fireworks over Lady Bird Lake from a small boat or speed walk the full loop of the Lady Bird Hike and Bike Trail.
Seattle, WA – I would visit the Central Public library, head on over to Pike Place Market to check out the original Starbucks. And then take a ride on the Space Needle to see panoramic views of Puget Sound.
Denver, CO – Love to visit the Downtown Aquarium, the Denver Zoo and Confluence Park.
San Francisco, CA – I would take a drive across the famous Golden Gate bridge, or catch a Cable car, or walk up those steep streets to view beautiful Victorians, what’s not to love!
New Orleans, LA – Always wanted to visit the “Big Easy.” I’d check out The French Quarter, the House of Blues, and of course, experience Mardi Gras.
Myrtle Beach, SC – I’ve had the pleasure of visiting Hilton Head, S.C. which was beautiful but pricey. I hear that Myrtle Beach is much more affordable with good, clean fun so I hope to make it there soon. Especially for those South Carolina beaches and the boardwalk…
Honolulu, Hawaii – Who in my age group (we grew up watching Hawaii 5-0!) has not wanted to visit Hawaii?!? Diamond Head Wet ‘n’ Wild Hawaii, Halona Blowhole, Kuhio Beach Park, the list is endless…
The Outerbanks, NC – I just know I would enjoy the Stand Up Paddle at Cape Hatteras, touring the Bodie Island Lighthouse, and swimming in the Outerbanks.
I promise that If/when I do visit these places, I will be sure to blog about it (smile).
Over the past 2 years I have published almost 50 blog posts on The View from Lajeune so I think this is a good time to highlight my top 10 faves. So here they are:
The View (from Lajeune) Check out this blog post: The View (from Lajeune) I chose this blog post because the entire day was truly magical from beginning to end!
A Place of Desert Check out this blog postL A Place of Desert…(almost) 4 years cancer free This blog post will always hold a special place in my heart as I truly learned what it is like to survive colon cancer…
My Very First Bug Check out this blog post: My Very First Bug… This post took me back to a time when I was asserting my independence but too hard-headed to see that the route I chose actually costs me in more ways than one (smile).
Clams on the half shell… Check out this blog post: Clams on the half shell…and roller-skates! This blog post speaks to me as it happens during the 70’s, one of my most favorite decades!
Like Moths to the Flame Check out this blog post: Like moths to the flame… This blog post is special to me because it brought me back 31 years to when I first started my career in broadcast media…
CT “Summatime” Eats Check out this blog post: Connecticut “Summatime” Eats! This blog posts was real popular with TVFL readers who, like me, love Connecticut in the Summertime and the delicious variety of food choices!
Divas in the Desert Check out this blog post: Divas in the desert! My good friend and former co-worker Tony Marinaro, who is a faithful TVFL reader, chose the title to this blog post and I will forever be grateful to him for it 🙂
Cave Girl: Check out this blog post:Cave GirlI thoroughly enjoyed doing the research on this blog post and tremendously benefited from my ‘R & R’ day. I was not allowed to take pictures of us inside the actual cave so what I showed will have to suffice.
Taking Fun Seriously Check out my blog post: Taking fun seriously…my very first golf lesson I had fun writing and doing the research for this blog post and still hope to one day have that golf date with my Dad…
Thank you for reading my blog posts from The View from Lajeune. I have plenty more stories to share…
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