Desert Love

Our 14th year love anniversary or “loveaversary” as my co-worker/friend Lisa coined it, occurs on the 8th of March every year.  We (me and James) decided to celebrate in Arizona this time around so we would literally be situated in a desert, clearly in love, and seeking a new experience.

We chose Phoenix as our city of destination not just because its the capitol of the state of Arizona, but also its largest city, boasting just over 1.6 million residents!   And we were eagerly looking forward to the sunny temps all week long, outdoor recreational  options, delish Southwestern/Mexican cuisine and a championship class golf course located right at the Hilton Phoenix Tapatio Cliffs Resort.

 

 

Day 1

Travel Day – Sunday –  Woke up in Connecticut before the crack of dawn (3am) to catch our early morning (6:05am) flight out of Bradley International Airport which, by the way, is looking mighty fine these days.  I’m truly loving all the building upgrades and seeing bits and pieces of what’s to come (smile).

After a 3-hour layover at our first stop in Chicago, not including the 1-hour long wait on the airplane for the de-ciing of the aircraft’s wings, we were finally on our way.   My legs felt like jelly 3 hours later as we walked off the airplane and into the Phoenix Sky Harbor International Airport.  We had quite literally been traveling all day long so we were barking at each other and ‘hangry’ as Hell (smile).   The number one place we looked for after we retrieved our bags and picked up our rental car was somewhere to eat.  We Googled “American Restaurants near me” and found a place that was not too far away.  It was called Culinary Dropout and it was super delish!  I was feeling very healthy so I quickly inhaled a Butternut Squash and Kale bowl with grilled chicken.

 

 

We drove around Phoenix for a while just to get a feel for things and found a Super Walmart so it was there that we picked up enough bottled waters and snacks to last us for the week.

Finally at the resort we checked in and then drove to Building 24 which was waaaay at the top of a hill.  I immediately unpacked my luggage because I’m anal like that (smile), took a shower and went to bed – my 20 hour day (and now officially on Mountain time) had finally come to an end.

 

Building 24 where we stayed

 

Day 2 – Resort Day – The Hilton Phoenix Tapatio Cliffs Resort is located just 20 minutes North of downtown and when you pull up in your car to the entrance, you truly feel like you are in a whole ‘nother world.  It is no wonder because the property is nestled into the rugged North Mountain Preserve in Phoenix.   The hotel grounds are massive and the views are breathtakingly beautiful.  Boasting 7 pools – some with hot tubs, a 138-foot water slide, waterfalls, plenty of lounge chairs with big umbrellas at each pool, spas,  dining options from the simple to the sublime, hiking trails, 16,000 square feet of conference and meeting space and a championship golf course.  We stayed in a King-sized Premium suite that was situated at the top of a hill so between our rental car, which we parked  directly in front of our building, and the 24/7 free shuttle service, we were good to go.

 

mid-sized rental car

 

convenient shuttle service call button

 

We deemed Day 2 our Rest and Relaxation day for obvious reasons so after we checked out the workout area, the championship golf course and two different pools, we wound up poolside at The Falls (smile) soaking in the sun.

 

The Falls was one of our fav pools

 

I ordered the delish Arugula salad with grilled chicken from Cascades Cafe.  By the way, the weather was awesome – 80s with a cool breeze.  And the forecast showed the same all week!

 

Seated at The Falls and getting ready to dig into my Arugula salad with Grilled Chicken

 

After a while we headed back to our hotel room to sit outside and enjoy the mountain views from our balcony.    Then we showered and changed for dinner.

 

Our hotel room balcony offered up some of the best views of the mountain

 

That night we chose A Point in Tyme for dinner – I had a flaky fried Cod fish sandwich on a brioche roll with a side salad and ice water with lemon.  It was delish!

 

Yummy!

 

After dinner the restaurant rang for our ride (shuttle) which showed up 6 minutes later to take us back to the room where we sat outside again on the balcony to enjoy the cool breezes.

 

Day 3 – ATV/UTV day

This was a tour that we both looked forward to.  Arizona Outdoor Fun & Tours was located about 35 minutes from our resort so we purposely left earlier then we would have since we didn’t know what the morning traffic scene in Phoenix was like.  We dressed in long pants and long sleeves which their website recommended except we wore sneakers instead of boots.  Upon arrival our tour guide asked us for one credit card and both of our state of CT driving licenses and gave us each a face mask and goggles to protect our eyes.    Next we all individually sat on folding chairs under a large tent so the staff could explain how to operate the ATVs and UTVs.    We chose the UTV as opposed to the ATV so we could ride together in one jeep and because they promised us a longer ride then we would have with the ATVs.  By the way, a UTV or Utility Terrain Vehicle rides like a car and is designed to carry anywhere from two to six people.  An ATV or All Terrain Vehicle is designed for one person and uses handlebars for hard steering.

 

This is our UTV – Utility Terrain Vehicle

 

Not surprisingly about 4 or 5 young ladies (maybe in their early 20s) showed up at the tour like they were dressed for a paid Social Media event.  They had on these teeny tight outfits and wore inappropriate footwear.   I almost felt sorry for them because they chose the ATVs not the UTVs and didn’t know it yet but they were in for a big surprise (smile).

Austin was our Tour Guide.  There were about 3 different UTVs groups going out when we left which each had their own Tour Guide.  We rode directly behind Austin which was good because in my mind there was less dust to catch (smile).   And Austin was the consummate Tour Guide,  patient, stopping for breaks if we needed them or just to tell us a story about a particular animal (donkey) or type of terrain.  And he always made sure that no one strayed.

 

Fun Fact about Donkeys in Arizona: It is illegal for a donkey to sleep in a bathtub originating from a donkey that floated away in a bathtub during a 1920s flood (smile).

 

It was a long, winding and dusty trail and quite honestly, I don’t know how Austin navigated it, as there are really no markers in the ground or trees to make it easy to remember.  He said he had been working at Outdoor Fun Adventures for almost 4 years and enjoyed taking people out for the time of their lives.  He also mentioned how the tour guides relied on tips because the pay (with no benefits) was a lot less than it would be at say, a 9 to 5 job.

 

Ready for the dusty ride of our lives (smile)

 

We were UTVing for 2 hours so when we returned there was dust everywhere – all over our shoes, our hair, our clothes.  So much so that I could not wait to get back to our hotel room to shower.  But first we stopped at Cascades Cafe on the resort for my fav Arugula salad with Grilled Chicken so I would not be “hangry” for our anniversary dinner at 730pm that evening.

 

The restaurant we chose to spend our 14th year love anniversary was literally up the hill from our building so even though we could walk, we decided to take a shuttle instead so I wouldn’t be walking up the hill in high heels (smile).  A Different Pointe of View (“American Cuisine with European Influences”) was situated right on top of a mountain so it had killer views and sunsets to die for.

Some diners chose not to eat in the dining room at all as the outdoor deck had plenty of seating and you were right in front of the beautiful sunset.  The only downside of eating on the outdoor deck was that you could only order drinks and light apps.  We stayed on the outdoor deck for a while as it was a perfect photo opp and then headed inside for our coveted table which featured a window view of the sunset.

 

photo ops abound on the outdoor deck of Different Pointe of View

 

Our dinner reservations were for 7pm that night in The Terrace Room of the 3-floors restaurant and we had 4 delicious courses.  The weather was perfect, the sunset was beautiful and the service was second to none.

 

Good choice of a restaurant to celebrate our 14th year loveaversary

 

Day 4 – Breakfast with Nephew/Driving range

One of my favorite jobs is being an Aunt.  I love all of my nieces and nephews and great nieces and great nephews and now grand nieces and grand nephews and they live all over the United States.  My 37-year old nephew Jasper lives in Mesa, Arizona which was about 30 minutes away from our resort so I arranged for Jasper to meet us at A Point in Tyme for breakfast.  I chose A Point in Tyme because they have a $25 dollar all-you-can-eat buffet as well as the regular breakfast menu.  Jasper and I ate from the regular menu and James chose the buffet.  Jasper and I had a wonderful time catching up on life before James arrived especially since he and his girlfriend had a beautiful baby boy a few weeks ago.   We were all at the restaurant for a good 2 hours before we had to say our goodbyes.

 

My handsome nephew Jasper who I miss already

 

After Jasper left, James and I headed right next door to Lookout Mountain Golf Course to get in some practice shots as we were booked for a 3pm tee time the very next day.

We had a light snack after our practice session since we made reservations for an early 530pm dinner that evening at Restaurant Progress – a place that my gym friend Penthy’s son Scott recommended.  As it turns out, Scott and his wife live in Phoenix and know the restaurant scene pretty well.  Penthy texted me a long list of places Scott provided – the list included where to eat for breakfast, lunch and dinner but between the delish resort restaurants and the places nearby our planned outdoor tours and activities, Restaurant Progress was the only place from the list we had time to try out.

 

 

Restaurant Progress (a New American Restaurant) was a short 20 minute drive from our hotel.  James and I decided to take our knowledgeable waiter’s recommendation on what to order (small world – our waiter was also our shuttle driver at the resort from the night before) “Garrett” told us he has to work 4 jobs so he can afford his own apartment in Phoenix!

 

You might not be able to tell but I am stuffed in this picture as we were one course away from dessert (smile)

 

At Garrett’s recommendation we ordered the 5-course Chef’s Pick where the Chef prepared us 2 different dishes each course over the 5 courses so we could swap them out between each other and therefore sample the most variety of dishes.  We were sooooo stuffed by the time we got to the last course (dessert) but somehow managed to fit more food in our tummies (smile).

 

9 of the 10 courses from Chef’s Pick that we were served – can’t fit number 10 in this collage

 

Day 5 – Rainbow Ryders Hot Air Balloon Ride Day

Another early morning start to our day – up at 4am so we could make the check in time of 545am from the meeting point which was about 30 yo 35 minutes from our hotel resort.  This experience and tour was completely new to both of us.  I have to admit that I did not feel nervous at all.  Even after we signed our lives away (waivers) and they packed us all in multiple vans to head to the destination.  Each group had it own pilot as well as 2 staff members.  The 3 men collectively unfolded and used various equipment to inflate the balloon.  It was amazing to watch.  And it took a minute.  I saw a huge basket nearby and wondered how all 10 of us in the group were going to fit but somehow we did.  I remember a question on the waiver pertaining to our weight in pounds and now I understand why they asked.  The basket was bigger on the inside than it looked on the outside.  And the actual ride was peaceful and serene.  It was very early in the morning so the dress code was casual wear with a jacket since it’s cold (55 degrees or less) in Phoenix that early in the morning.  I was happy I dressed for the date because the wind was pretty strong and the air was chilly.  Lucky for us our Pilot kept firing up our balloon to make it go higher as we benefited from the blasts of heat.

 

An experience like no other – I would absolutely recommend it – just don’t look down!

 

While up in the sky we looked down at multiple housing developments with swimming pools,  miniature cars, lots and lots of empty land lots and plenty of mountains.  We were floating around for about an hour before we started to head back to the ground.   The actual landing was rough like an airplane’s landing but without the fear factor.  Climbing out of the basket was definitely one for the books – Ha!

 

Back on the ground

 

After we all settled our Pilot poured us a glass of Champagne and/or Juice and made a short toast to another successful journey.

The hot air balloon ride’s entire experience made us hungry so we stopped in Glendale, AZ for breakfast at a placed called Biscuits Cafe.  We figured you can’t go wrong with that name.  I was wrong.  I ordered the Biscuit Breakfast Sandwich (Eggs/Sausage/Cheese) with Hash Browns and a Coffee.  When the breakfast arrived I asked our waitress (once she got back to our table) how come my sandwich was on a roll and not a biscuit which I expected.  She said it’s called Biscuit Breakfast Sandwich because it is named after the restaurant. Aha!  She felt bad though and brought me a biscuit to swap the roll out with but by then I had already ate more than half of the sandwich as I was starving from the excitement of the morning (smile).

 

I spent about 3 hours poolside with my magazine while James took a nap.  We had a 3pm tee time at the much anticipated Lookout Mountain Golf course.  We borrowed a set of clubs from the resort and they gifted us each our own signature set of golf balls – 6 in all so I knew I had to make as many of my shots as possible (smile).

 

As all golf clubs do, we were matched up with 2 solo golfers (one named Christian who with his 2 brothers was staying on the same resort as us and the other named Jorge’ who actually lived in Phoenix and had enjoyed playing this course multiple times).

 

L to R – Me, James, Jorge’ and Christian – Jorge was a life saver because he knew the course well and therefore saved us a lot of lost balls

 

We set out for a sunny and beautiful afternoon of golf with our new golf friends.

 

This picture was taken right before sunset when the weather had turned cold and blustery

 

James and I played 14 holes before it got too cold for me (it was unusually windy that afternoon which caused the air to become cold).  It was also starting to become dark as sunset was near.  Christian and Jorge’  were happy to continue golfing but between the impending sunset and the now fierce winds I wanted to get back to our hotel to warm up.   We were starving though so we ate first right next door at the clubhouse – I had blackened shrimp tacos, chips and salsa.  The food was delish.  That night we packed our clothes as (sigh) we were leaving the next day for Connecticut.

 

My last delicious meal at the clubhouse – Blackened Shrimp tacos with salsa and tortilla chips

 

Day 6 – Travel Back to Connecticut Day

We got up at 730am, ate a light breakfast, checked out of the resort and then headed to the rental car facility which was not too far from the airport to drop off our car.  Then we took the sky train to the airport.  Our flight from Phoenix to Denver was delayed by 1 hour which ended up turning into 2 hours and then we discovered that our next flight, where we already had a long 3 hour layover, was now going to be delayed for another 2 and a half hours!   By the time we got back to Hartford, Connecticut it was 345am Eastern time.  We made it home around  4am so I unpacked (yes I am still that anal girl), showered and slept for 3 hours as I had to get up at 730am for my weekly Saturday morning hair appointment.

Was the trip to  the Desert worth it – YES!  Will we do it again – YES, but next time we will stay in Sedona or closer to the Grand Canyon for a different kind of experience.  #YOLO

 

Sincerely,

 

 

TVFL

 

Before my entry into the media Industry

In my latest blog post Back to Broadcast Media Sales! of the Broadcast and Media Industry series,  I ended with how much the media industry has changed over the past 35+ years and how it continues to evolve due to the impact of  the internet and streaming channels.  You should really read the aforementioned blog post before you continue with this one…

 

 

But I need to back up now because my real beginning in the Media industry was at the tender age of 22 at a community led public broadcast TV station in Bridgeport, CT.

I graduated from college back in 1985 with a Bachelor of Science degree in Media Studies from Sacred Heart University in Fairfield, CT.  Media Studies was an interesting field because we were taught a little bit about different media industries such as Public Relations, Television, Radio, Newspaper, Magazines and Photography.  It was just enough to peak your interest in what you might want to pursue further.  In my case I was fascinated my both Broadcast Television and Broadcast Radio.

However, once I earned my college degree, I continued to work the next 3 to 4 months in the same sales support position I held in college.  It was at a Bridgeport, CT financial services firm.  I also continued with my internship from the Summer before where I worked at a Bridgeport, CT Public Broadcasting TV station for a Minister from a local African American Baptist church.  Minister John and I collaborated on this gospel TV show called Lifeline Gospel Videos.  He was the host of  the show and I was responsible for interviewing gospel artists over the telephone, writing up and editing their biographical stories and broadcasting these stories on air in 2 to 3 minute increments.  My segment was called Bio-Line Gospel Videos. And it took me all week long to write, create, produce and serve as the talent for one segment.  This was back in the 80s so the videos stories were saved on Betacam and converted to VHS for home use.  Working on these video stories with the gospel artists was truly a labor of love.  I am particularly fascinated by everyday peoples’ stories and I also love to share them with others so this opportunity was Win/Win.   What wasn’t Win/Win was that this was an internship so I did not get paid one thin dime and as much as I loved my job, it did not pay the rent or the bills so consequently when it came time to put in my notice to the financial services firm so I had time to devote to the field I just earned a degree in, I quickly shed the public broadcasting TV station internship as well.

In my mind I was still on the right track though as the goal post college was to gain as much experience in the media industry as possible so by starting early with the Public Broadcasting TV gig, I had a little leg up on building my resume.  I called myself being “paid in experience” so I could command a certain salary for when I entered the field of Media.  In my opinion, back in the 80s, the media industry was like a closed fist.  There were lots and lots of people looking to get in and very few openings.  So it took a lot to pry open that “fist” and receive an open position (and this was both behind the scenes and in front of the scenes) as the supply of jobs truly exceeded the demand.  And this was at a time where the pay scale in Media (especially for behind the scenes positions) was extremely low but this did not deter people from trying to get into what was perceived as the “glamour field.”

 

 

As I mentioned, post college was when I discovered that living in Bridgeport, CT was not working for me anymore as I needed to be closer to a TV station and the closest,  WTNH “Action News 8,” was located in New Haven, CT.  As luck with have it, my sister Casandra and her husband Alfredo were living in New Haven, CT at the time.  They had not yet purchased their forever home in Ledyard, CT so they were living in a large 2 bedroom apartment in the Edgewood neighborhood.  I asked Casandra (since my plans of moving to the Washington, DC area after college and working in Media recently imploded) if I could stay with her and Alfredo until I got on my feet and they both graciously agreed.  I stayed with the two of them all Summer long rent free while looking for work as well as looking for an apartment.  Casandra was instrumental in finding me my first apartment, a Studio apartment on Whitney Avenue in the East Rock neighborhood of New Haven, CT.   The rent was $375 a month plus utilities for essentially one large room with a teeny tiny kitchenette, a teeny tiny dining area and a separate full bathroom.  I bought a tiny dining table and chairs for the dining area, a daybed for the living area because it served the dual purpose of a couch in the daytime and a bed at night.  The kitchenette was way too small to fit in any furniture.  Oh and yes, housing was very affordable back then and this unit was perfect for me (smile).

My apartment was located right on a bus line which was ideal because my car had died on the Merritt Parkway earlier that Summer and I really had no other way to get around.

As far as work, I chose to register with an employment agency so I could make money while focusing on finding a job in Media.  Right after registering, I was sent by the agency the following day to Easter Seals Goodwill Industries in New Haven, CT to work as a Job Coach.  As it turned out, the supervisors and Administrators loved me so much that they tried to convince me to stay and make a career of it.  I made it clear to them that I was on a mission to break into the Media industry and nothing was going to get in my way (smile).  I liked everyone there and I believed in their mission but not working in media was not an option (double smile).

 

 

As luck would have it, a few months down the road I spied a Want Ad in the Classifieds section of the New Haven Register newspaper for a Local Sales Assistant at WTNH Action News 8!   I was overqualified so of course I got the job (smile).

 

 

I was elated.  This was my first entry into Broadcast Media as well as my first real paying job in the Broadcast Media industry so life was good – for reference please read My Entry into Broadcast Media Sales.

 

 

In the next entry of the Broadcast and Media industry blog post series I will chat about the differences between working in the sales departments of Print Media, Broadcast TV and Broadcast Radio stations.

 

 

Sincerely,

 

TVFL

 

Just Around The Bend…

I am feeling just a little melancholy today and it could be because I am unwell.  When I am unwell my heads veers off in many directions and it’s hard for me to stay focused on any one thing.  I’m normally happy, bubbly, and full of positive energy so this is quite a departure from my personality.  And to add insult to injury,  it is the end of the year which means both Christmas and New Year’s are a stone’s throw away.  The holidays tend to bring out the melancholy in me because they remind me of loved ones who are no longer with me.   Namely my sweet mother Jean, my baby brother Shawn, my ahead-of-his-time nephew Ahmad Sr., my endearing brother-in-law Alfredo, my beloved older sister Dana plus countless aunts and uncles way too many to name.

 

 

All that to say I like to play holiday Soul music interspersed with Rhythm and Blues around this time of the year.  It alternately acts as both a mood lifter and memory generator.   I put one song in particular “Happiness is Just Around The Bend” by The Main Ingredient on re-play.  Why?  Because this song is feeling much more relevant to me now than when I first heard it as a 12 year old girl growing up in the small town of Groton, CT.   It is not surprising that it was a chart topper for The Main Ingredient back in 1974.  If you have  listened to this song and especially the  lyrics you too will find it reminiscent of the world we are living in today.

 

 

To summarize:  it is about finding clarity in chaos, about  life feeling upside down and confusing and out of whack but despite that, not giving up, but hanging on because happiness is truly just around the corner – Love will win.

This song is so deep and I truly needed to hear it today –  Fact:  When this song was recorded by The Main Ingredient back in 1974 the world was struggling with the Watergate Scandal (erosion of faith in the U.S. Government) and the continued impact of the 1973 Oil Crisis which caused widespread inflation, gas shortages and “stagflation.”

Today in 2025 we too struggle with erosion of faith in our government, economic instability and as an added burden: inexplicable developments.  Despite what is happening around us, I encourage my fellow TVFL readers to continue fighting the good fight, remain focused and positive and stay the course because I for one am choosing to believe that Happiness is truly just around the bend…

 

 

Sincerely,

 

 

TVFL

 

 

 

Don’t Call Me A Senior!

We are roughly one month away from the end of the year – another year flying by way too quickly.  And, as it turns out, my birthday (Valentine’s Day which falls on the second holiday of the New year) is quickly approaching.  So I will turn 64 years old on February 14th, 2026 God willing.  Which brings me to my dilemma.  I don’t consider myself a Senior Citizen.  And I say it with a straight face (smile).

 

 

Technically speaking  I am not yet a Senior Citizen since the state of Connecticut defines a Senior Citizen as a state resident who is 65 years or older in terms of program eligibility like Social Security, Property Tax Relief, Medicare and other state aid.

 

Don’t call me a Senior!

 

There are, however, some programs and/or services in the state of Connecticut which consider 55 as the starting age.  As a matter of fact 13 years ago when I turned 50, AARP had the nerve to send me an unsolicited membership card!   I tossed it in the trash (smile).  Clearly they had confused me with my next door neighbor who, at that time in my life, was most certainly a Senior Citizen (smile).

 

I am not my next door neighbor

 

Another thing.   My name Le Jeune means ‘The Young’ in French so that might have something to do with my age obsession (smile).   True story:  While reading Jet magazine, my late mother Jean found my name attached to a very popular African American model who had just won an award in Cannes, France.  The model’s name was Le Jeune Hundley and, as it turned out, she traveled to France because it was easier for a black woman from the United States to find modeling work in France then it was in the U.S.  At any rate my mother loved the name, but changed the first E to an A, dropped the capital in J, closed the letters together and Voila! named me (her 5th daughter) after this model.  Here is a picture of Le Jeune Hundley on the cover of Jet magazine:

 

By the way her name was misspelled here by Jet Magazine…

 

Another concern of mine is that scientists have identified the 5 stages of the human brain and 66 (or the mid-60s) is when the so-called Early Aging phase begins.  This is the phase when people face increased risk for a variety of health conditions that can affect the brain, such as hypertension.  Hence why I wake up 5 days a week at the crack of dawn (430am) to work out from 5am to 6am at  Orangetheory Fitness in Hamden.  I’m usually one of the oldest members in my class but I can still keep up with everyone (smile).

 

I am truly an Early Bird

 

And also why I (as of the Covid Pandemic of 2020) completely cut alcohol (in my case – Wine) out of my life and continue to work very hard to eat clean and nutritious meals.  It can be harsh (especially around the holidays) so I allow myself to cheat from time to time. Like the other day when I went with my girlfriends Sherry and Thais to see Wicked 2 at the Cinemark movie theater and  treated myself to a Medium popcorn with extra movie theater butter (smile).

 

 

I truly believe life is for living and I have reiterated it as much in more than one of my previously written blog posts.  I will continue to not act my age and just enjoy life to the fullest.  So unless I am getting a serious Senior Citizen discount, you will not know when I am in fact a Senior Citizen.

 

I will be a selective Senior Citizen (smile)

 

Sincerely,

 

 

TVFL

 

 

My Current Situation Part XII

 

It is now November of 2025 and my current situation is a mixed bag.  There are lots of highlights though and that is what I will focus on here:

 

 

My 92-year old infirmed father,  Jonie B. Hollis,  just got a new and wayyyy better roommate at the Old Saybrook, CT nursing home where he resides…

 

 

My projected sales outlook for the remainder of this year at WTNH TV News 8 is ending on a high note…

 

 

The cool and brisk temperatures in the state of Connecticut this Fall are bringing out a desire in me to cook again (smile)…

 

 

I’m feeling healthy and strong and able to continue with my early bird 5am high-intensity workouts at Orangetheory Fitness in Hamden, CT…

 

 

I constantly try and remind myself  to count my blessings as I look around me and notice that the world we once knew is falling apart week by week…

 

 

Sincerely,

 

 

TVFL