My Clean Living Life series has been maintenance driven lately. I stopped drinking wine back in 2020 at the onset of the Covid Pandemic so outside of an occasional mocktail, it’s strictly water, juice, black coffee and Snapple Zero Sugar Iced Tea for me…
I no longer smoke cigarettes nor have I ever done drugs so to address it now would be a moot point…
It’s getting coolish now that we are well into the month of October in Connecticut so instead of Grilled Chicken and veggie filled Summer salads for lunch, I’m digging into hearty soups with protein and crusty breads. Also lots of plant based foods which I have grown to love.
I still work out regularly at OrangeTheory Fitness Center in Hamden (5 mornings a week at 5am) so my energy levels are on point.
I’m reading fiction now and watching less TV, which helps keep my mind feeling whimsical and fancy free.
I attend church services every Sunday morning at 1030am online via YouTube (my church home is Christian Tabernacle Baptist Church in Hamden, CT where the pastor is Keith A. King). This helps me stay centered, grounded and not take myself too seriously.
And lastly, with the recent onslaught of illnesses amongst people my age and older, I have been paying extra attention to my body and any signs coming from it so I don’t fall victim to medical emergencies.
I had the best time eva in Brooklyn, New York on Thursday September 30th, 2026! I am a Media Sales Professional for local ABC TV affiliate WTNH News 8 in New Haven, CT. All that to say it’s not uncommon to receive tickets/vouchers to a fancy restaurant, concert venue, live theater or show to treat our VIP advertising clients. But this gift was HUGE! Jimmy is the man! However he normally tapes his shows from his studios in Los Angeles, California…But every now and then he comes back home to Brooklyn, NY to tape live shows for the week at Brooklyn Academy of Music (BAM). And my colleague Douglas Hall and I were the lucky ones on the sales team to be gifted Jimmy Kimmel LIVE in Brooklyn, NY tickets with round trip transportation (courtesy of Absolute Transportation) from WTNH TV News 8 to BAM – Brooklyn Academy of Music for ourselves and our respective clients.
I invited my VIP advertising client Elaine Sein, the Marketing Director of ACES (Area Cooperative Educational Services) who met me at News 8 at 1030am on Thursday morning in advance of our 11am pick-up. Elaine and I walked around the tv station and then took selfies in the Promotions area before heading out to the parking lot to meet up with my Sales department colleague Douglas Hall and his VIP advertising client Michael Donkor, owner of Celebrity Homemakers & Companions LLC.
Taking selfies in the Promotions area of WTNH News 8
Fun selfie
The SUV car ride to Brooklyn, NY was painless. Having our own driver (in our case Tariq from Absolute Transportation) really made our day that much more pleasant. We could kick back and relax and enjoy conversation with each other while our driver had to deal with the crazy, unhinged drivers on the Connecticut and New York highways and byways. Tariq took it all in stride though. He navigated those roads like he had been doing it for a minute (smile). Great personality too. He made our trip memorable in the best way.
Our first planned stop was lunch at Cafe PAULETTE in Brooklyn, NY (only 7 minutes from the theater). I chose Cafe PAULETTE (from the list of preferred vendors on BAM’s website) because first of all the french food sounded truly delish and secondly it was projected to be 70 degrees on Thursday and I have a thing for outdoor bistros. We ordered our lunch and drinks at about 1pmish and waited outdoors at our table for a long while as there was only one waitress and one bartender on duty. When the food finally arrived it was well worth the wait because it was delish! I ordered a veggie burger with cheddar cheese, french fries and a side salad. And I washed it all down with a ginger ale.
Michael, Doug, Elaine and me at Cafe PAULETTE
My delish veggie burger with tons of french fries and a side salad – muah!
After lunch Tariq drove us to BAM where we got registered for the VIP line – registration included checking our names with staff and receiving the blue JKL bands on our wrist. We were early – it was about 330pm at this point and the doors to the theater were not opening until after 5pm so we made small talk and people watched. Did I mention that Brooklyn is the bomb! I love the vibe – it’s lit and the people all look to be going somewhere important. What a fun town – definitely coming back with my boo. Brooklyn is the ‘new Manhattan’ in my view and I absolutely loved Fort Greene and those beautiful brownstones, what a wonderful and quaint neighborhood.
VIP access bracelet
VIP line
Elaine repping for ACES
The BAM (Brooklyn Academy of Music) building where Jimmy Kimmel LIVE in Brooklyn is taped is in the Peter Sharp Building and it features the historic 2,109 seat Howard Gilman Opera House, the Lepercq Space and the BAMcafe. The BAMcafe was our next stop. This large, colorful, flamboyant room immediately reminded me of the play Moulin Rouge because everything was Red, Red, and Red (smile). There was plenty of finger food stations, dessert stations and drink stations. There were also 2 service bars. I don’t drink anymore so I had Saratoga water and Bigelow Tea (smile). I was still full from lunch so I did not have any of the appetizers or the desserts. The place was jam packed. We were lucky to find a high table with 4 chairs when we walked in. There was an old school DJ playing classic hits from back in the day. Like us, there were plenty of other VIPs enjoying Jimmy Kimmel’s hospitality including his own parents, his former neighbors, people from Brooklyn, NY and even a dear old friend he knew from Kindergarten (smile).
The BAMcafe is groovy for sure (smile)
The gang’s all here!
Elaine checking out the delish finger foods
Finally showtime!
Since were already upstairs in BAMcafe we did not have to travel far to our seats which were in the Mezzanine section of the theater. Being high up allowed us to view the big screens (one on each side) as well as look down on Jimmy Kimmel and his guests. Taping was from 530pm to 7pm. It felt late but in reality it was dinnertime for most folks (smile).
The interior of the theater (former Opera House) is stunningly beautiful!
Big screen TV and Jimmy Kimmel’s excellent house band
Elaine and I in our seats watching the process unfold
As expected once she show started we could not take pictures but we were delighted by the guests that evening – first of all Jimmy Kimmel’s sidekick Guillermo who made it back to New York from Los Angeles where he has been appearing as a guest dancer on Monday and Tuesday nights on Dancing with the Stars – Guillermo’s a hoot in person (smile). The legendary actor Robert DeNiro, who played a baseball bat carrying crooked head of the FCC. The always phenomenal Billy Crystal, who spoke about his poignant new play which centers on the loss of his and his neighbors homes in the horrific Pacific Palisades fires on January 7, 2025. Acting great and charismatic Mahershala Ali who I remembered from his two Oscar winning performances in Moonlight and Green Book and who was promoting his new movie, a thriller called Your Mother Your Mother Your Mother. The musical act was supposed to De La Soul but for some reason or another they canceled and were replaced at the last minute by singer songwriter Audrey Hobert. Between the set changes, the guest interviews, the pictures that Jimmy Kimmel took with the guests and the house band selections, the taping took 90 minutes. After the taping we went back to BAMcafe for more appetizers and drinks and then I texted Tariq to come and pick us up as we were ready to go. Jimmy did not appear in the BAMCafe, I pulled his friend from Kindergarten who told me Jimmy Kimmel had another engagement but that he was a genuine person who really cared about people.
My night with Jimmy was a memorable evening indeed. One that I will hold high in my memory bank.
P,S. If you check on Jimmy Kimmel’s website for the 9-30-2026 show, you will catch me, Elaine, Douglas and Michael on TV (smile).
It’s Hotter than July in the smallish state of Connecticut and right now the residents are inhaling smoke from the Canadian and Minnesota wildfires. Chief Meteorologist Gil Simmons from News Channel 8 in New Haven, CT has been delivering the “Smoke Index” all this week so folks will take the dimmed sunlight seriously. When I’m outside my eyes feel like I am wearing yellow rose colored glasses (smile). But seriously I would much rather be in this position where we are only mildly affected by the smoke as opposed to living in a part of a state or country that’s quite literally on fire…yikes!
Are these sunglasses really yellow rose colored?!?
The other strange phenomenon this month is that suddenly eating lettuce, some fresh produce, vegetables and herbs has become risky business. Wait, what?!?
I live for my once-a-week salad with protein (smile)
By consuming these foods you may come down with Cyclosporiasis which is caused by a parasite that is found in the above mentioned foods. To combat catching Cyclosporiasis, we are being asked to wash our fruits and vegetables thoroughly or cook our vegetables at high levels of heat to kill the parasite. Otherwise we may wind up on the toilet for an inexplicable amount of time (smile).
My iPhone goes with me everywhere (smile)
Gas in Connecticut is a tiny bit below $4.00 a gallon which is not saying much considering it averaged just $3.15 a gallon this time last year. The job market is dependent on what industry you are in. Healthcare is booming but in the media industry jobs continue to fall by the wayside due to mergers and acquisitions. I am so thankful and blessed that I have been working in the media industry now for almost 40 years so things for me are starting to wind down…
Health wise I just found out from my new APRN (no more Primary Care doctors now, just APRNs as apparently they are more plentiful in Connecticut) that I have high blood pressure so she prescribed Amlodipine (5mg a day for 30 days) at the end of which we will see whether I can stop taking the pills altogether or continue on for an indefinite period of time. This diagnosis came out of an Echocardiogram test that I received as part of my full physical a month and a half ago. It showed that I may have leaky heart valves. Keep in mind that this is no doubt a family medical history diagnosis as this girl works out 5 days a week at Orangetheory Fitness Center in Hamden, CT, she quit drinking wine 6 years ago, she doesn’t indulge in drugs, she quit smoking cigarettes 30+ years ago and she eats clean most days (smile).
My heart feels fine to me (smile)
Here’s where I’m at hobby wise: In my last blog post I mentioned that I had taken up reading non-fiction books for the Summer and after reading Elin Hildebrand’s Paradise series I promptly booked a trip to St. Thomas, USVI with my partner in love (smile). So now I just finished reading Kennedy Ryan’s Hollywood Renaissance series and I could not, for the life of me, put these books down! Ryan’s writing is so relatable and I learn so much about a new health issue every time I read one of her books. She is truly an award-winning author!
Reading is still my jam!
Other than that I am living my life, trying not to take myself too seriously and keeping in touch with my loved ones as no one is promised anything, most of all time.
November 2025 was the last blog post I entered in this Current Situation series. What’s been happening since then? Here’s the update – it’s April of 2026 and gas prices have spiked through the roof, home heating oil prices are extremely high, my 401K is up and down and up and down and the job market in general is sketchy.
On the flip side I am still gainfully employed as a Media Sales Professional by News Channel 8 (ABC) in New Haven, CT and I’m nearing retirement. By the way, the Media Industry as a whole looks starkly different then what it looked like almost 40 years ago when I started my career so I consider myself blessed to be in the position I am in.
These boots were made for walking…
As I mentioned before it’s mid-April in the state of Connecticut and this New England changeable weather has recently taken a turn for the worse. Last week I was wearing sundresses and sunglasses, this coming week I’m pulling out long sleeves and heavy stockings. Winter is back – Waaaah!
On the bright side health wise I am doing extraordinarily well. My pap smear was normal, my vision was normal and I was recently told at my annual physical exam by a new Primary Care Doctor (a young woman in her 30s) that I should continue doing whatever it is I am doing because all of my labs were great. Not to be funny but I was not that surprised because I gave up alcohol 6 years ago, totally cleaned up my diet, and as for drugs, I don’t indulge (smile). For exercise I work out 5 mornings a week at Orangetheory Fitness Center in Hamden, hydrate a lot and strive to get at least 7 hours of sleep a night.
Working out is my form of physical therapy
Family wise my almost 93 year old father, Jonie B. Hollis, was recently (through the collective efforts of my sister Casandra who lives in Nashville, TN, myself in Connecticut and my brother Michael also in Connecticut) presented with a Quilt of Honor (citation and actual quilt) for his 30 years of service in the U.S. Navy. It was a total surprise to Jonie B. — the ceremony as well as my brother Michael’s heartfelt tribute left him teary eyed and proud. The Old Saybrook Nursing home where he resides showed up and out – it was a beautiful affair and one for the record books.
Jonie B., his son Michael, daughter Lajeune and the 2 lovely women who hosted the program
Other Blessings: Two babies were born into the Hollis family tree this year – my nephew Jacob who lives in Florida had a baby boy in January of 2026 and my nephew Jasper who lives in Arizona had a baby boy in February of 2026.
Happy Great Aunt
One of my New Year’s goals for 2026 was to take up something I left behind years ago. Reading. And reading is my jam! I am currently reading the trilogy of Paradise stories by Elin Hilderbrand that I am loving so much I cannot put the books down. She’s an awesome writer and puts the reader right into the thick of her stories – I’m on the last book in her trilogy series now – it’s called “Troubles in Paradise” and it inspired me today to book a return trip to St. Thomas for our upcoming June vacation (smile).
Reading is not foreign to me. As a matter of fact back in the early 1990s I was hosting an African American Book Review radio show with my co-host LaMonda Williams called ‘The L & L Book Review’ on AM1340 WNHC Radio while simultaneously hosting an African American monthly book club in person at Barnes and Noble bookstore in North Haven, CT. As luck would have it, I made connections with publishing houses in New York City that started sending me hardcovers in the mail for free in the hopes that I would include their books in my reviews! I also interviewed African American authors at the radio station as well as in person at Barnes and Noble bookstore. It was most definitely a labor of love for I was not getting paid to do either of these gigs (smile).
Feeling real good about reading at night because it exercises my brain (smile)
And that’s all I have to share for now – until next time.
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