SAT, A surprise to me!

San Antonio, Texas (SAT)

My most recent mini vacay was to San Antonio, Texas which is located in South Central Texas with a population of 1.5 million people.  San Antonio is 150 miles from the Mexican border and to say the Tex Mex influence is strong would simply be an understatement (smile).  Why San Antonio?   Well, because my fraternal twin nephews, Marcus and Marshall who will be 40 this year, have been living there for well over a decade and up until this point, I had yet to visit them.   Their sister and my niece, Dimitrica, who will be 46 this year and resides in North Carolina with her husband and son, arranged to meet me so we could share a hotel room.  This was to be a short trip but one where we planned on lots of  family fun, bonding and catching up on lost time.

 

La Fogata with L to R: Marcus, Me, Marshall, Dimitrica

 

Our very first meal when we arrived was at a restaurant called La Fogata.  Dan Fenyn, my sales manager Jocelyn Fenyn’s husband, highly recommended it.  Dan was not wrong,  not only was the food we ordered delish but the ambience spoke to a highly authentic and true Mexican experience.

 

Standing in the doorway of La Fogata

 

My dish at La Fogata – Cheese quesadillas with specially seasoned shrimp and spinach

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

Canopy by Hilton San Antonio Riverwalk

This is the hotel I booked for our 4 day, 3 night stay.   I purposely chose this hotel because it is across the street from the Riverwalk plus it is right in downtown San Antonio where all the restaurants, shops and outdoor activity were located.  Plus we needed a place that we could easily walk to and from.  It’s amazing what you can do in a 4-day weekend (Friday  – Monday) trip when you travel from another coast and are given an extra hour to work with (smile).

 

Canopy by Hilton San Antonio Riverwalk
Clean room, comfy beds, nice showers and strong coffee

 

Modes of transportation

We noticed there were may different modes of transportation for those people who were not driving.   Scooter rentals, Electric bike rentals, even Segway rentals lined the downtown streets.   I could not help but notice the very large, very loud pick-up trucks flying up and down the downtown streets adding to the traffic congestion.

 

Electric bikes for rent

Scooters for rent

And I was blown away by the carriage rides populating downtown streets – so many at once and all decorated in different seasonal themes and colors!  It seemed like everywhere we turned we would come upon a family or a couple or a group of friends on a horse drawn carriage ride!  At nighttime it was super cool to see because the carriage was now brightly lit with different colored lights and music played throughout.  I looked at what it cost to take a ride on the horse drawn carriage:  $75 dollars for 1 person and $35 dollars for each person thereafter for a 20 minute ride.  $100 dollars for 1 person and $50 dollars for each person thereafter for a 30 minute ride.  And one child rides free with each paying adult.

 

From daytime to nighttime, these horse carriage rides suited everyone’s wish lists

 

The Alamo

Aptly described as an “18th century Spanish mission preserved as a museum.”  We could not leave San Antonio without at least visiting The Alamo.  It was just as I expected…

 

The Alamo

 

The Canopy hotel restaurants

Another reason me and Dimitrica  enjoyed staying at the Canopy was because you did not have to leave the hotel for good breakfast food.   We ate hearty breakfasts every morning at Domingo Restaurante and for nighttime mocktails, the rooftop deck at Otro was the place to hang out and relax after a fun-filled busy day.

 

Domingo Restaurante by day

 

Texas sized bowls of oatmeal for breakfast at Domingo!

Otro on the rooftop at night for mocktails and apps

The Riverwalk

We discovered the San Antonio Riverwalk on our second day.   It had become a source of conversation to me by so many people the very second I mentioned I was visiting family in San Antonio.  The Riverwalk is just like it sounds.  It’s a miles-long pedestrian walkway with a river running through it.  It is truly underground so you have to get to it by taking steps down from the street.  The river is surrounded by restaurants, cafes, bistros, shops, retail clothing stores, boutique hotels and the like.  Every time we walked down the steps to the Riverwalk, (for short cuts or to find a new shop) we would see masses of people browsing around, shopping, eating and/or sight seeing.

 

My niece at the top of the stairs

 

Me at the top of the walkway from The Riverwalk

 

Go Rio

While walking around the Riverwalk, we kept seeing river boat cruises filled with tourists passing us by.  We were told by the hotel staff that if we decide to take a river cruise we should to catch one at night as it’s cooler in temperature, the boat is well lit and decorated and music is played throughout the promenade.  We finally took them up on it on Day 3 of 4 – the 35 minuted guided tour was so fun and festive and the cost was a small $14.00 per person!

 

Our young and very comedic Go-Rio tour guide kept us in stitches the entire ride!

Passing another passenger-packed Go Rio cruise boat while on our own tour

 

La Cantera Resort and Spa

We purchased a Resort Day Pass for $65 (Marshall’s brilliant idea) to the La Cantera Resort and Spa.  This luxury resort and spa is known for its private villas, fine dining, wellness spas, championship golf and celebrity sightings.  By purchasing a Resort Day Pass we were able to have access to the pool side of things.  So on day 3 we spent half the day poolside where we enjoyed the infiniti pool, delicious  lunch and laying out on lounge chairs.  We also took advantage of the hot tub where we met a loud and raucous middle aged man who was pretty accurate at guessing our personality traits (smile).   At the lazy river pool we played pool games with floaties and then rode down what were kiddie slides just for Ha Ha’s.

 

Well maintained Infiniti pool

 

Pool games, fabulous food and lots of fun

 

Making memories poolside at La Cantera Resort and Spa

 

Pandora’s Bookstore & Coffee Bar/Pure Aloha Bath & Beauty

Marshall (my nephew and our unofficial tour guide) told us about an African-American owned bookstore-cafe downtown which collaborated on space with a natural plant based beauty, cosmetic and personal care shop.  We were so impressed when we stepped into this cute shop which had a nice collection of goods and a real positive vibe.  I enjoyed meeting the owners (who have now become good friends) of both of these shops as they complement each other in the best way.  Be sure to check them out if you visit San Antonio as you will not be disappointed.

 

I had a Deja Vu moment when I met Barbara Thomas the bookstore cafe owner – I can’t explain it – I just felt like that scene had already played out…
Enjoyed meeting and chatting with the owner of Pure Aloha. She is a wife, mother, and now small business owner living the dream

 

Bohanan’s

Bohanan’s (another Marshall pick) was a place Dimitrica and I had walked by during our daily recreational walks throughout downtown.  The storefront truly did not do it any justice as when we entered the jazz supper club and restaurant, we were pleasantly surprised by piano bar and the funky vibe.  I ordered a mocktail garnished with jalapeƱo peppers and Marshall and Dee each had a specialty expresso martini drink.

 

The exterior of Bohanon’s

 

Mocktails and Cocktails at Bohanon’s Jazz club

 

Marcus’s family home

My nephew Marcus, his wife Asuka and kids live in a house in the suburbs of San Antonio.  His wife was gracious enough to offer up a traditional japanese meal made from scratch.  We had the best time at their house that day.  It rained for a spell so we stayed inside and ate handmade Sushi and Sashimi and Tofu Salad with sesame seed dressing and a deliciously prepared thinly cut beef ribs and chicken.  I ate 2 plates and then understood why Marcus said he does not eat out at restaurants anymore (smile).  We also played games with the kids in the game room which featured game chairs for Street Fighters, a basketball net and more.

 

Family pictures – making memories in San Antonio

 

This is all homemade Japanese cuisine – courtesy of Marcus’s wife Asuka – can’t blame him for not wanting to eat out anymore (smile)

 

Historic Market Square

Ironically the evening Dimitrica and I decided to walk to this collection of restaurants and shops in an indoor space, mostly all of the shops were closed.  Not too surprising though because it was a Sunday night and it was about 10pm…However the much talked about Mi Tierra Cafe and Bakery was still open which pleased Dimitrica, who was in search of the authentic Mexican Hot Chocolate and a sweet treat to go with it.   The lively decor featured live Mexican music,  mariachi dancers, a fun atmosphere, costumed staff and instagram-worthy photo backdrops!  Oh and Dimitrica said the hot chocolate was delish!

I feel like me and Dimitrica were right inside of a festive carinival!

 

Mi Tierra is known not just for their delish authentic Mexican cuisine but also for their lively atmosphere

 

Centro San Antonio

One of the most interesting things I discovered during my quick trip to San Antonio is that there are a group of uniformed ambassadors called Centro San Antonio who are based downtown and work to keep it clean, safe and welcoming for the merchants as well as City visitors.  Whether you are looking for directions to someplace or need assistance or information,  they are trained to help.  As it turns out, there are a number of homeless people in this large City who live downtown so another very important part of Centro’s mission is to offer them a safe place to live, food to eat, clothing to wear, a drug free program if needed and a safe space where they feel welcome.  Sixto or “Six,” as he is referred to on the street, was a welcoming source of information to me and my niece while we walked around downtown.

 

Centro Ambassador Sixto

 

This Centro Ambassador set-up is for the homeless when they are thirsty and looking for a free bottle of cold water

 

TV News station

I work in local sales at an ABC affiliated TV news station in New Haven, CT called WTNH News 8 so whenever I travel, I always look to see what the local news looks and feels like.  Here is a snapshot of what I saw in in San Antonio:

 

Good Morning San Antonio

 

And finally,  if you are looking for an affordable place to live and work, my nephews (who both work in IT) tell me that San Antonio fits the bill.  Housing is cheaper, jobs are available, ethnic food is plentiful, there’s lots to see and do and the residents are friendly.  I am so glad I finally made the trip.

 

Sincerely,

 

 

TVFL

A Quick Dash to Nash

I had a truly memorable Memorial Day weekend this past May of 2023.Ā  The goal was to visit my big sister Casandra who moved to Nashville almost a year ago.Ā  And of course to see her daughter MoNa, her son-in-law Kevia and their rambunctious 6 year old son, Harlem.

 

Memorial Day is not called the “unofficial start to Summer” for nothing. Ā It seems as if everybody and their grandmother (smile) was driving that weekend on the road, flying in the air, or using some mode of public transportation during this much anticipated prelude to Summer.

 

What usually happens when we now adult Hollis children go to a new place or space to visit family, is we try and incorporate at least one African American cultural activity into the trip.

 

In this case it was easy, almost too easy:Ā  a trip to the National Museum of African American Music or NMAAM as it is referred to.Ā Ā  NMAAM is conveniently located in downtown Nashville so we did not have to travel far as my sister Casandra lives only about 15 to 20 minutes outside the city limits.

National Museum of African American Museum (NMAAM)

 

Parking the car in a garage was pretty steep ($45) and you really have no choice if you drive as there is very little if any available street parking downtown.

 

The ticket prices to the museum (which we ordered online on the NMAAM website the night before) were $24.95 for Adults (me) and $18.75 for Senior Citizens (Casandra).Ā  Just so you are aware, the rest of the ticket prices are as follows:Ā  $18.75 for Students and Teachers with ID, Military and Senior Citizens; $13.50 for Museum Guests aged 7 to 17 and Free for Visitors 6 years of age and under.

 

Very easy to navigate

 

While there, for just $5.00 more you will receive a NMAAM wristband which allows you toĀ  download multiple genres of music (up to 500 songs!) to create your own music playlist as you touch and explore your way throughout the museum.Ā  This music link is sent to your email address a week or so later for you toĀ  download to your Apple or Spotify account.Ā  Very cool!

 

Wearing my wristband and building my playlist – so much music to choose from!

 

Incidentally, NMAAM also offers visitors an annual membership with lots of special perks and education and programs for groups and special outings.

 

The NMAAM brochure tells you it takes 90 minutes to explore the museum (as it features timed admission) but it took me and Casandra 3 hours as there is so much to see and do!Ā  By the way, there is no extra charge if it takes you longer than the 90 minutes (smile).

 

One of the many photo opps at NMAAM

 

The museum is broken up into 6 rooms which each feature a different genre of music and its history.

 

Hip Hop Nation

 

It is fascinating to discover just how intertwined the music is with the historical happenings of each era.

The Roots Theater focuses on African American history and its music.

 

Wade in the Water (one of my personal favs) showcases how gospel music and its rich history has more than influenced religious music.Ā  This gallery featured an interactive room where me and Casandra went in, donned the requisite church choir robes and stood in front of the Green Screen so we could sing along with the Gospel Choir.Ā  The ending was sweet as we were both magically inserted into the Gospel Choir (smile).Ā  We saved this download to our NMAAM wrist band so we could view it later on at home.

 

 

Crossroads chronicles the time in the Deep South (and after slavery) when work songs and field songs (i.e., the Blues) was prevalent.

Lots of photo ops throughout the museum

 

A Love Supreme highlights the Jazz era in African American music and culture.

 

Louis Armstrong, An African American pioneer in Jazz music and Trumpeteer

 

One Nation Under A Groove records the time following World War I with the emergence of Rhythm and Blues…

 

The Message clearly narrates Hip Hop and Rap music and how it influenced (and continues to influence) pop culture in and around the World…this room featured a interactive DJ booth where we were able to select from one of 3 different rappers and then rap along with them.Ā  Not surprisingly, the line to this interactive feature stayed long (smile).

 

Tupac Shakur, an influential and highly regarded and recognized African American Rapper

 

Rivers of Rhythm featured the touch panels (found on the large glass tables)Ā  throughout the NMAAM theater which allow the user to touch their way into an artist’s songs and biographies.Ā  We downloaded lots of music to our NMAAM wristbands from these touch panels.Ā  Incidentally every half hour or so a concertĀ  played on the interactive walls (that day we jammed to the sounds of Prince, Tina Turner, and James Brown).

 

 

 

And just before you leave the museum, you will notice an art gallery featuring the works of very talented community artists.

 

My sister Casandra in the Art Gallery right before we left

 

There- also is a museum store called Amplify which sells beautiful NMAAM memorabilia at reasonable prices.

 

Amplify had lots to offer at different price points

 

By the way, Casandra and I had the pleasure of bumping into Left Eye Lopez’s little sister Reigndrop who was at the museum that day creating a documentaryĀ  about her late sister Left Eye Lopez.Ā  Here she is entertaining the lobby crowd in her own eclectic way.

 

Reigndrop is cool and talented too!

 

Also while in the lobby we could not help but notice the tribute to the legendary Tina Turner – who recently passed – you can’t showcase black music without including Miss Tina…may she Rest in Peace…

 

Rest in peace Tina Turner

 

All in all, we had the best time eva and I would highly recommend this museum to anyone visiting the city of Nashville (or Nash as it is called).

 

Fun Fact: Ā I remember years ago my sister Casandra telling me that if we were not sisters, she would want me as a friend – I feel the same sis (smile).

 

Sincerely,

 

TVFL

 

My Current Situation Part IV

The season of Fall happened about 3 weeks ago in the state of Connecticut and with it comes decreasing temperatures, lots of fallen leaves on the ground, dark skies andĀ squirrels running amok. Ā  Soon I will be packing up my golf clubs in advance of the next season: Ā Winter. Ā But for now I am still managing to hit golf balls despite the broken twigs, crispy leaves and tree debris.

 

 

 

Fall for me also means it’s time to head back to the kitchen. Ā Anyone who knows me knows cooking is not my thing but I do enjoy cooking when Autumn arrives…

 

 

We have also finally entered Phase 3 in the state of Connecticut which means that restaurants can serve folks indoors at 75% instead of 50% Ā capacity…

 

 

personal services, hair salons, barber shops and nail salons can also operate at 75% percent capacity, indoor performing art venues at 50% capacity, and churches and other places of worship can have 50% capacity, capped at 200 people. Ā All, of course, with masks and social distancing…

 

 

Working hybrid continues for me and my colleagues on the News 8 sales team. Ā What this means is we are split into 2 teams and half the team works from the office on one day and the other half of the team works from the office on the following day. Ā The managers all go into the office each and every day. Ā It has been like this since mid-March 2020 when Covid 19 totally rocked our world.

 

 

The Presidential election is quite literally right around the corner so I encourage everyone to exercise their right to vote. Ā  It’s more critical now more than ever…

 

 

Sincerely,

 

 

TVFL

Getting my game on: Golf Fore Women 201 & 301

Yikes, Ā it is hard to believe that it’s November already and 2019 is coming to a close. Ā I feel like this year flew by and the top 3 goals I set for myself in the month of January were stabbed at but not completely realized…check out my blog post: .My Top 3 Goals in the New Year

I do, however, have something I’m particularly proud of this year: Ā namely improving on my game of Golf.

Thanks to the Lyman Orchards Golf Center I spent the majority of my Summer and more than half of my Fall golfing. Ā  And Summer started late this year in Connecticut Ā – remember the month of May?!? Ā  I had to count it out for starting play as it was rainy and miserable. Ā  Consequently I did not pick up my clubs until mid-June but then I made up for it by playing until the last weekend of October.

I learned a lot this year both on the course and off. Ā  I had previously taken Golf Fore Women 101 (last September 2018) so some of what I learned this year felt like a refresher course but in a good way – check out my blog post: Ā Ready Fore Golf

However, the majority of what I learned I took and turned into real application on the course. Ā  And I had the added benefit of being taught and supervised by the award-winning LPGA Class A Teaching Professional Marissa Kulig Crow as well as her 2 trusty teammates Dan Hannibal and Andra Frappier…

 

LPGA Class A Teaching Professional Marissa Kulig Crow and her trusty teammates Dan and Andra

 

June

 

Ladies bonding over the game of golf (smile)

 

The Fab 4 – Ā Jill, Lajeune, Mary Ann and Tina plus one- Amy (smile)

July

 

Golf 4 Women 201 with LPGA Teaching Pro Marissa Kulig Crow in black

 

Club selection with LPGA Teaching Pro Marissa Kulig Crow

 

I’ll never forget this day – the hottest day that Summer Ā (Saturday July 20th) and we were playing 9 holes on Apple 9 and dying!

 

Another successful day on the Apple 9 course!

 

Ending the day with my old starter set of golf clubs – they served me well

 

August

 

Golf Fore Women 301 – the Apple 9 golf course is our classroom now (smile)

 

Coincidentally my workplace (News 8 Television) had a client golf tournament in August which I had the distinct pleasure of playing in with my own clients as opposed to driving the beverage cart (smile).

 

 

Me and my bf at Sleeping Giant – I did not play the Apple 9 on this particular day as Sleeping Giant golf course in Hamden is mere minutes away from my house and therefore now considered my “home course”

 

September

 

Loved Practice with a Pro with our trainer Dan Hannibal because we had the opportunity to work on our golf weaknesses

One on one make-up session with Marissa

 

In the game of golf, it is not uncommon for the club to pair you and your golf mate with another 2 some so that you become a 4 some and keep up with the pace of play. Especially 9 hole courses like Apple 9 where you get a volume of players in a short span of time. Ā We made fast friends with this 2 some and found we had a lot in common – you never know who you are going to be paired with and they could concievably become lifelong friends (smile)

 

October

 

My golf partner today is Mary Ann (a fav of mine) and one of the Fab 4 (smile)

The Fab 4 (Lajeune, Mary Ann, Jill and Tina) finally together again Ā and ready to play for real on The Players course at Lyman

 

It was a very light day on The Players course so Fab 4 had a chance to cut up (smile)

Me and my neighbor Margot and Jill (of the aforementioned Fab 4) on the very last day of golf for the season (October 31st). In New England its still sunny in the Fall but there are so many leaves on the ground it makes it difficult to find your ball – not counting the chilly weather!

Sooooo…I finally broke down at the end of October and invested in some new clubs. Ā And I actually played with them the last 2 weekends of the month. Ā I must admit that my game has improved with my new set of clubs (smile). Ā  Not trying to rush time but I sure can’t wait ’till next Summer (double smile).

 

My old starter clubs

 

My new set of Ping golf clubs custom made for me

 

Sincerely,

 

 

TVFL

Fun Things to do in Connecticut – Part III

There’s lots to do in the state of Connecticut during the Summer, especially when the weather is cooperating. Ā It is truly ‘hotter than July’ so there is really no need to travel anywhere, we have sun filled days and long nights right here in CT (smile).

Here is a short list of annual events that occur in the Summer months and involve food, fun, music, festivities, entertainment and more! Ā The good news is that most are free to attend and some even offer free parking.

 

A Taste of Mystic (New London County)

This annual event takes place at the Olde Mistick Village (OMV) around the second weekend in June (Friday/Saturday/Sunday) and involves food and drinks, live bands, loads of entertainment, merchant specials and more!

 

 

Admission is free (parking is also free). Ā To participate in The Taste you buy sleeves of tickets for $1.00 each to be exchanged for food and drinks from the vendors.

 

Joyce Reskinoff the owner of Olde Mistick Village being interviewed by News 8’s own Co-Chief Meteorologist Joe Furey

 

And the OMV Merchants offer money-saving specials as well! Ā Here’s a PSA: Be sure to support these Connecticut based small businesses.

 

 

New Haven Music on the Green (New Haven County)

In New Haven the unofficial start to Summer kicks off with Music on the Green!

 

Ryan Kristofer and Teresa DuFour of CT Style along with Jo Jo Pastors and her gf on the New Haven Green

 

In Summers past we have been entertained (in our VIP seats)Ā by such notable acts as Ronnie Spector, Ā Debbie Gibson, Taylor Dayne, KC and the Sunshine Band and En Vogue, just to name a few.

 

And this year we had the pleasure of seeing Lisa Lisa on Saturday 7/20/19 and Morris Day on Saturday 7/29/19!

Morris Day is 61 years young – a real talent for sure!

 

The Hamden Free Summer Concert Series (New Haven County)

Beginning late June on Friday nights at 6pm at the Hamden Town Center Park, live bands play to diverse crowds made up of singles, couples, families, dogs and more! Ā This free annual outdoor event truly features something for everyone. Ā There’s no VIP but at the same time there is truly not a bad seat in the house. Ā And if you come hungry you can feast off of the nearby food trucks or better yet, pack your own picnic complete with adult beverages. Ā Bring your lawn chairs and blankets and make a space on the lawn as happy people jam to the music.

 

Plenty of room at the free Hamden Summer Concert Series at the Hamden town green. Long lines at the ethnically diverse food trucks

This year (2019) on Week 4 The Wailers, featuring Julian Junior Marvin, delighted the Friday night crowd.

 

Awesome performance!

 

The Greater Hartford Festival of Jazz (Hartford County)

Jazz is alive and well outdoors at the Greater Hartford Festival of Jazz at Bushnell Park in Hartford! Ā This free annual event takes place over an entire weekend (Friday/Saturday/Sunday) in mid July. Ā  There are food and retail clothing vendors and folks completely covering the Bushnell park lawn with their blankets, lawn chairs, coolers and sun umbrellas. Ā Big screen TVs on both sides of the stage ensure that everyone gets a decent view. Ā It’s a thing!

 

 

The line-up of jazz musicians is awesome and the party lasts all day long and well into the night.

 

Having a blast in Hartford – jazz is everywhere – love the energy here!

Although this is a free event donations are gladly accepted…

 

New London Sailfest (New London County)

This coastal city comes alive during the Summer with its signature event, theĀ New London Sailfest!

July is the month and the entire mid-month weekend (Friday/Saturday/Sunday) offers something for all family members.

 

 

From tall ships to face painting to patriotic costumes and more, there is truly something for everyone.

Speaking of which, there are amusement park rides, face painting, delicious food options plus sailboat and people watching.

 

The food, the rides, the atmosphere, the fireworks at night…

 

So that’s my short list of fun things to do during Summers in Connecticut – Staycate and enjoy!

 

Sincerely,

 

TVFL